Write to yourself at the age of 36.

I celebrated my thirty-fifth birthday yesterday, and today is another animal year, thirty-six. How many animal years can a person have in his life? If you pinch your head and cut off your tail, there will be less than five. I have squandered the first three animal years, and there are actually few animal years that I can really grasp in my hand. I often ask myself the question of meaning. What is the meaning of work? What is the meaning of life? What kind of state and mentality should I spend my short life with?

36 years, three rings! Deeply and shallowly engraved with carefree childhood, the shyness of young girls, the beauty of young women and the joy of motherhood, and occasionally the struggle in the workplace, the grief of losing loved ones,,,

Childhood memories are blurred by the wind and frost of the years. That innocent and romantic little girl is full of fantasies that adults will never know. No one knows that this rebellious and competitive little girl has felt lonely since she was a child. At that time, parents were tired of living day and night, and the hardships of life made the little girl more sensible than other children. Her parents' diligence, kindness, tolerance and forbearance made her learn to understand others earlier than her peers. Her parents' ordinary words and deeds were her earliest teachers. At the age of twelve, she was hazy.

Twenty-four In just a few years, I went to school, lost my mother, went to work, fell in love briefly, got married, had children, and died for my in-laws. By the rapid evolution of hazy girls, young women quickly put themselves into roles to fulfill their responsibilities and obligations without tasting the sweetness of love and marriage. I have experienced too much and learned a lot. The experience of life makes it grow rapidly and know how to assume its own obligations and responsibilities. Know how to cherish your family, be kind to your loved ones, how to live, how to run a good home, how to deal with some things,,,

In the red dust, we have gone through twelve years of wind, frost, rain and snow. There are two people who love me, accompany me and let me know what happiness is. My family of three lives a simple and happy life. I am not a beautiful woman, but I think I am a happy woman. Taking stock of 14 years of marriage, I felt the caring affection after passion in my plain life. Through ivory marriage and crystal marriage, time has turned love into a kind of tolerance and fit. When the marriage boat of friends around us floats in the reeds swaying in the wind, when the streets and alleys are full of songs of "Who is true love", our marriage boat sails in the small wind and waves. A 36-year-old woman knows that no matter how wonderful the outside world is, home is always the only constant harbor.

The person who is about to go to the fourth page is no longer young. It's time to see how to go in the future. They can't be careless.

From today on, live proudly for yourself, love yourself, feel sorry for yourself and be kind to yourself. This is the most fundamental.

Manage your family of three well and feel the simple happiness of the family. Home is a warm harbor, and a warm home is our desire, our concern, our dependence and the harvest of our life. With a warm home, life is successful and interesting. With a gentle harbor, everything is available, and home and everything are thriving.

Health is particularly important because you are not young. I didn't work so hard, I just wanted to be worthy of my conscience and my children. In a sense, the results are ahead. The biggest gain from my work in recent years is that I got an occupational disease. No one feels sorry for themselves, so learn to do it skillfully in the future. You should learn to be smart, stop being stupid and take it lightly.

Take care of your husband and children while doing a good job. Nagging him to drink less and stay up late to pay attention to his health, not to put too much pressure on himself at work, and to spend more time with us. At the critical moment of his son's study, he failed to teach other children and neglected his own. Find time to exercise more and go out for a walk. Shorten online time, play mahjong less, stay up late less, drink less, and speak ill of others less.

Don't care too much. Some people care too much about some things. Let nature take its course and face it with the best attitude, because the world is too unfair, and we are often the least valuable in front of the most important things. Remember to be happy, cheerful, tough and warm, smile every day, and laugh heartlessly. Control your emotions, think about it, say as little as possible, and you have to change your habit of reading fluently. Do things rationally and practically. In family and marriage life, we don't lose and forget ourselves, care about "living for ourselves", have our own space and circle, time is crazy, and our mentality must be getting younger and younger;

At this time, women sometimes feel lonely. The husband is busy with his career and the children are growing up. Women often feel lonely and need a warm love and tenderness, but many times they always hold coffee in their hands and let themselves chew the sweet and bitter taste. Trust your intuition, don't provoke others, and don't let others provoke you. Don't be ambiguous, dare not play, can't afford to play! Choose to keep your distance, not because you don't care, but because you clearly know that no matter how good others are, they don't belong to you, so cherish the people around you!

Try your best to say every word from your heart and do everything that suits your heart with your heart. Soft time, like water, washes away every inch of irreversible light and shadow. It's done, it's safe, it's been thought over and cherished!