When a child says "Why do you care about me", how should parents answer?

Nowadays, how to discipline children has become a hot topic for parents. Today's children either pretend not to hear their parents' discipline, or directly oppose their parents, or even simply say something? Why do you care about me? Faced with the attitude of children, many parents don't know how to answer, which is a very serious problem. However, even so, for the sake of their children's later life, parents should learn to deal with such problems.

One: You are the baby at home, and I have to take care of you.

Baby? This word also highlights the status of children at home, and it is very important for children to know their status in their parents' hearts. What should the child say to you? Why do you care about me? Don't beat and scold angrily, it has no educational significance. First, children are treasures, and then parents should change. This emphasizes recognition, so that children can understand that parents have the right to discipline their children and realize their mistakes.

Two: I care about you because I love you.

Nowadays, many rebellious children feel that their parents don't love them and put their children aside for work every day, which leads many children to say "no"? Why do you care about me? Parents are not qualified to restrain themselves. In fact, facing this situation, parents should tell their children that mom and dad love you. Every child is hurt inside. I hope parents can care more about themselves and seek comfort from their parents. If children know that their parents love them, naturally, they will listen to their parents.

Three: What will you become if you are left alone?

This sentence seems simple, but it actually contains many meanings. First, parents should take good care of their children; Second, let children think about what their future is without parental discipline. Nowadays, many children have no self-control ability, and many values need parents' guidance. If parents can answer the child, it can also make the child realize that his present age needs the discipline of his parents and his future has not yet been determined. Without the discipline of parents, maybe life will be a complete failure. I believe that motivated children will understand this truth.

Disciplining children should pay attention to methods, not just beating and cursing, which has no educational significance. We should use appropriate methods to guide children to the right path.