Some babies grow old quickly after delivery, and some babies become more beautiful. What is the real reason?

The fundamental reason is whether a woman loves herself or not.

No matter whether someone helps to take care of the baby or not, no matter how much housework there is, the time to take care of yourself is less than 20 minutes. I don't believe Ma Bao will have no time. When you have a beautiful will in your heart, you will have the action to change yourself.

I've been there myself. I take care of my baby independently for three months every week. I do housework, take care of children and cook by myself. But I change clothes every day and take good care of my skin. Although I don't wear much makeup, I have to wear lipstick every day when I go out. Lipstick can best highlight the color of women.

Don't be wordy, don't complain, hum songs every day to clean up the room as quickly as possible, put the baby aside and give him enough toys to watch him do housework. If he has nothing to do, he will become Doby, and the children will find it a pleasure.

I put a full-length mirror in the living room at home, just to look at my own image at all times. If I even feel sloppy, others don't like it. Women should always remember to maintain themselves, please themselves and make themselves comfortable.

I never wear pajamas except taking a shower and sleeping, because wearing pajamas doesn't show my figure, and it makes me feel relaxed and lose my temperament. And if my husband is here, I can't make him want to see me more when I wear pajamas.

I will also put a mask on the floor at night to protect my skin and clean up. The baby was too tired, so I threw the baby to my husband when he was resting and went to a nearby beauty salon for a massage. It won't cost much, but it will be very relaxing.

In fact, when I first started taking care of the baby, it was also rustic for a while. Generally speaking, I am too relaxed with myself and feel that my image is not important. But I have also been despised by my friends and attracted by a beautiful nanny who takes care of two children and does WeChat business part-time. How can she be capable and beautiful? So I also learn from her and am determined to change myself. I want to be a beautiful and exquisite woman.

So, woman, love yourself! Dress yourself up beautifully and enjoy it as much as possible! It's good to be beautiful! Very confident! I'm in a good mood, I'm happy with my baby, my husband likes it, and my family is harmonious!

The above is my opinion and experience summary. There are no ugly women, only lazy women. Don't make so many excuses. If you want to be beautiful, no one can stop you.

Look at father's attitude and actions. Knowing that you care about your daughter-in-law, share housework and take care of children, your mother will become young and beautiful; If you only play games and mobile phones, you will be forced to get old before your mother is old.

1. Do you get along well with Confucius?

2. The quality of emotional regulation

3. The quality of physical training

How clever the child is.

5. Childbearing age

It is nothing more than two aspects. Husband is lazy and poor. I won't.

It's okay to be lazy. If you have money, you can hire people, cook, clean and wash clothes, and your mother can rest and recuperate after giving birth. It soon recovered.

It doesn't matter if you are poor. My husband is diligent and can do all the housework. Ma Bao also has time to rest.

As for being poor and lazy, there is no doubt that the yellow-faced woman is just around the corner.

Trivial details of the affairs and their own strength. If my husband is considerate, he can naturally take time to be beautiful. If you have a strong mentality and strong economic strength, you naturally don't need to look at other people's glances, so it will be beautiful! So, remember what you want most, no matter what the environment is, it is most important to run in the direction you want and live the life you want.

Rest, rest well, and recover naturally; If you don't have a good rest, everything is omnipotent.

Sister gave birth to a second child at the age of 33. The child is clever and easy to take care of. She eats and sleeps. At that time, around the Spring Festival, the whole family was there. My mother waits on food and drinks and takes care of the children. My sister's husband is responsible for washing clothes and taking care of the boss. My sister is basically responsible for feeding. After feeding during the day, my mother held her. Get up and feed twice at night at most, and go to bed after the second month.

My sister recovered well, and her weight returned to pre-pregnancy in the second month. Three months after the baby, her figure also recovered.

Because of a good rest, her skin is white and red, and she is in high spirits. 33 years old has just recovered to 27-28, unlike a second-born mother.

I gave birth to a baby at the age of 29 and had a caesarean section. Gave birth to a high-demand baby with all kinds of crying. The baby's father is the biggest in the world, and the game is the biggest. I took 30 days of paternity leave, a total of 28 days, and the remaining two days were 1.2 days when I gave birth to my baby in the hospital.

My mother-in-law has to go to work, and her mother-in-law is in poor health. It's nice to cook her a meal. She carries it alone day and night. My mother left on the third day after I gave birth, and then she stopped helping me.

Eating my mother-in-law's meal has a characteristic: I have to listen to her. It's my fault that the child is crying. Whether it is going to the toilet or in the middle of the night, it is appropriate for the father to play games in the dark. It is also appropriate for me to take full charge of taking care of the children.

Under extreme fatigue, my cesarean section wound didn't heal completely until the 42nd day, and I never slept for more than 2 hours.

Sit for a month, from 29 to 40 directly.

Nowadays, the word Ma Bao is praised and criticized by the society. Some people think it is not easy to be a nanny. After all, it is not so easy to take care of children alone. Some people think that taking care of children at home every day, not going out to work, can't bear hardships to earn money, because most families now rely on economic income to speak.

Therefore, as a treasure mother, the most important thing is mentality. Because changing from single girls to a child's mother is more about responsibility and responsibility! At the same time, the role I want to play has changed from a little girl to a wife, daughter-in-law and mother. That way, getting along with husband, mother-in-law and children will not be as simple as at home! You may quarrel with your mother, not to mention the newly formed family with different surnames. Therefore, we must put a good attitude and don't think too deeply about everything. Sometimes it's better to have a good life than to be confused! Don't care too much about anything except your own children. When you are in a bad mood, brush the drama, go shopping and go out for fun, otherwise depression will not be far away, so beautiful!

In addition, some people say that the economic foundation is also very important. But every family is different, poor and poor, rich and rich. Never compare with others. If you envy others' economic foundation, you might as well strive for it yourself and become the envy of others. Be kind to yourself whether you have money or not. You should get dressed for dinner. Beauty is as important as delicious food!

Therefore, as a treasure mother, the biggest skills to learn are: introspection, self-healing, self-improvement and self-love! That kind of beauty and temperament will naturally appear!

Calculate the time of 20, 2 1 22, but contact the director.

There are only 20 and 22 classes. So I decided on the 20th.

Two lousy birthdays. I don't want to go through these two felonies.

June 8 1 1.65438+ My husband and I went to the hospital to prepare for the nucleic acid test in advance, and on the morning of June 9 19.

I didn't know the new policy until I asked the doctor for a hospitalization bill. At least twice a week.

Nucleic acid, so annoying, it needs to be supplemented, and only one is allowed.

Someone to accompany. Finally, I went back to the ward and said that there was no bed and I collapsed.

It's broken.

Another contact took up a bed, but unfortunately there was only a double room.

There is no single room. I wish I had been hospitalized one day earlier.

Make the bed. We are comfortable in bed, and there is no big smell.

It's noisy around, so I feel very comfortable. During the epidemic, the canteen was closed, and all of them were in

Ordering food online and sending it to bed, humanized service.

The attending doctor is an intern and asked a lot of questions, probably.

Write a case report. Then draw blood, do fetal heart monitoring, and send.

Hospital gown, I thought I would be nervous, but I've already done it before.

I am prepared, so I am not nervous at all.

I didn't sleep well at night because my stomach was too heavy.

It was so noisy that I woke up intermittently several times.

I didn't feel much pain when I was preparing to insert a catheter into my skin on the morning of the 20th.

I feel a little swollen and always want to pee. I was the second contestant in the morning.

Surgery, before 8 o'clock 10, I was pushed.

I waited at the door of the operating room for more than ten minutes. Finally, after my turn,

The anesthesiologist is a very experienced doctor, bowing like a shrimp.

Shape, first local anesthesia, and then really began to prick anesthesia needle, a little feeling.

I didn't feel anything, so I coded and finally lay down. Anesthesia after half a minute

The doctor will hold the skin and ask what is the difference between the chest and the abdomen.

No, it wasn't long before the doctor started the operation, yes.

I feel that layers of skin are open, but there is no pain.

Feel, finally press the stomach and the baby will come out.

The feeling of anesthesia

The baby came out in less than ten minutes, and it took about ten minutes to sew it up later.

Half an hour. Finally was pushed into the ward, a total of less than an hour.

When I came back, I was lying in bed. Analgesic pump can work 48 hours, really.

Yes, but I feel uncomfortable and have contractions after taking hormones.

Frequent attacks make me feel like dysmenorrhea. The production experience is like this. Let's talk about my postpartum recovery experience. Many treasure moms believe that the stomach will recover naturally after delivery.

If you think so, it's all wet. If there is no exercise after delivery, the uterus will droop, the stomach will look bulging and the ass will look big. This situation is not unfamiliar to mothers who have just given birth.

Second, and most importantly, it's no exaggeration to lose more than 15kg a month, and then I understand why so many treasure moms in the circle say that they should use this artifact after childbirth! ! !

Haha, the artifact is very comfortable and convenient to wear, and it is not as troublesome as wrapping gauze. It is very convenient to feed and hold the baby. The happiest thing is that I have used the artifact for more than two months and lost 35 pounds. What a sister Lin who really fell from the world! In fact, losing weight is really not suitable for everyone. Since I am a mortal, I don't think I can stand the pain of losing weight, but every day all roads lead to Rome, which is not what I want! Finally, let's talk about why some treasure moms are getting older and younger:

Differences in family economic conditions

This is a very realistic reason. But that's the truth. Many treasure mothers with better family conditions choose skin care products. It will definitely be better. In terms of skin care, a treasure mother with good family conditions will definitely spend more money on herself and pay more attention to skin care products. She may also often go to beauty salons to do some projects to repair skin and delay aging. However, a nanny with average family conditions will spend less time and money on herself.

Accelerate the aging of expectant mothers

Female friends all know the importance of maintenance for a woman. However, after pregnancy, most expectant mothers worry that cosmetics contain unfavorable factors for their babies, so they give up skin care decisively and usually just wash their faces with water.

Nothing, mainly depends on the men around you.

In fact, it is easy to get old after childbirth, mainly because:

I wish everyone can be a beautiful baby mother!