How can I convince myself?

At work, we all want to be promoted quickly, which is a kind of motivation and affirmation of our efforts, but many times we can't. Let me share with you how to convince myself, hoping to help you!

The hardest thing to convince in this world is ourselves.

It's time for a vacation, but I canceled my long-planned trip for a deal; It is agreed that we should underestimate the gains and losses of fame and fortune. As soon as our colleagues were promoted, they couldn't help feeling the undercurrent inside. I agreed to care about my health, but I only went to the hospital once, and when I went to the funeral home to see the dead, I barely persisted for a few days. We have agreed to live a happy life, but from time to time we are angry about unworthy people and things; We agreed to do what we like, but in the end we got stuck in the mud of life we don't like.

We are gourds only dried by desire, and more often, we float on the secular lake. The storm of life, ups and downs, ups and downs, a heart, depressed, confused, crazy, dense waves, it is difficult to find their own wave marks.

We can persuade the bitter side to shake hands and make peace, negotiate a toast with the opponent, and enlighten the lost people suddenly. In others, we have broad vision, great wisdom, great truth and great understanding, but when we return to ourselves, we suddenly become shallow, short-sighted and narrow-minded.

Obviously, we convince ourselves that it is for our own good, but we just can't do it. We fight for life in the workplace, fight for power and play in vanity fair. We care about money, power and reputation. In the final analysis, what we care about is all the glory and decency in the world.

However, we seldom care about our hearts and feelings. We are busy, saying that we are busy, but in fact we are too busy to care about ourselves.

When a person is vain, his soul must be painful.

Courage, wisdom, passion and endurance were originally the most agile and elegant parts of life lines, but what we took out to pursue was something that deviated from the needs of life. As we all know, a happy mind and a cheerful spirit are nobler and more important than anything else, but we just lose these dignity and chase after cheap envy and false respect from others.

Sometimes, we can't convince ourselves because we care too much about others. What we do, what we don't do, what we say and what we don't say, we always consider other people's ideas and always care about other people's ideas.

What is even more frightening is that some people will be happy only when others admire and worship them, happy only when others flatter and compliment them, and satisfied only when others fear and worship them. When values are seriously distorted, when vanity is rampant, the brilliance of reason disappears. No matter who is possessed, it is difficult to wake up from the nightmare of life.

Someone in history must have convinced himself. By singing from the European Union, he refused to eat Zhou Su and eventually starved to death in Boyi Shu Qi, shouyangshan, convincing himself; Tao Yuanming, who resigned from pengze county and planted beans at the foot of Nanshan, convinced himself; Ji Kang refused his friend Dan Tao's invitation to be an official, angrily wrote a letter to break up with Shan Juyuan and convinced himself; Hangzhou Xishan, building a house, will never be an official or marry. May's wife wrote? Dim fragrance floating on the moon and dusk? Lin Bu, convince yourself.