The best mother-child relationship should be friends.

Having a mother as a friend or a son as a friend is one of the greatest and most wonderful things in the world.

This is a natural process-it is difficult. It's hard for mom. It's also difficult for the child, because he doesn't want to hurt you in any way. But a man needs to leave his mother.

It's like a seed falling under a big tree-the seed can't grow. It must stay away. Every tree will try to send its seeds far away, so that they can find their own land and become independent.

It is better to let go than to confront the children. It's hard, not easy. You can cry, you can cry-but let go anyway. If you allow him and let him go completely, he will never get far. Because when a mother allows it, there is no need to fight at all. Confrontation only happens when the mother confronts.

It's part of being a mother. Mothers should be smarter than their children-they must be. So if a child wants to do something stupid, it can be forgiven. But you won't be forgiven easily. You must allow him. Not that it won't hurt you. It will hurt you, but there are all kinds of injuries in life. It's part of growing up.

If you can let him go, you will become stronger and stronger. So let it go.-help him. Cooperate with his departure. So he won't go far; He can always be by your side. He can stay with you-have his freedom. ...

A new kind of intimacy will emerge. You will be friends. Having a mother as a friend or a son as a friend is one of the greatest and most wonderful things in the world. You can't find this kind of thing anywhere else.