A man who had been together for a month offered to borrow five thousand dollars. What does this mean?

He doesn't want to get along with you, he just wants to cheat you out of some money, that's all!

An unreliable man means that he has met more than one woman. A man with dignity or a man who values you very much will never borrow money from you in a short time. At this time, men are arrogant and generous everywhere, for your own good! Unless you suddenly know that he is in trouble, it's hard to say whether you want your support or not. A man who casually borrows money or asks for money from his girlfriend will not be a hardworking person. (personal opinion)

After a month together, you have to borrow money from the woman. When you encounter this problem, you should consider it carefully. Men in love don't have these behaviors easily. Most men pay more attention to image, and face is the most important thing for men. It takes a lot of courage to ask for money in front of women to let go of self-esteem.

If it is really difficult, it is understandable. This requires some investigation, analysis and careful appraisal. If there is not enough evidence, it is likely that this man has a purpose to get along with you, and he doesn't really love you. You may have ulterior motives, so keep your eyes open. After all, there are many people who cheat their feelings now, and the people who have been cheated are endless. In case of being cheated, we still have to be calm.

Just tell him you can lend me 10 thousand first if you have no money.

Obviously, he wants your money. Don't lend him money. Break up decisively. Because ambitious men never borrow money from women. You should always remember this sentence. He is not interested in you, but in your money. I wish you happiness!

Is it reliable for men to borrow money from women? Better stay away. A good man will not be poor in front of women, let alone borrow money from women. A man is so poor that he has to pay back 5 thousand yuan, but also needs to borrow money from a woman? No friends or relatives? Is the character that bad?

There must be something wrong with the character of the man or woman who borrows money on the first meeting. How can a man borrow money if he doesn't want to pay for a woman? What are you thinking about? I don't understand. If it were me, turn around at once. Not to mention the girlfriend you just met, even ordinary friends can't borrow money easily.

This is a money society. Raising money hurts feelings. It is realistic that some seemingly good friends may not even be friends when it comes to borrowing money. Because there are too many scum in society now, we have to guard against it. Men who borrow money when they know each other are similar to men in love rat. Maybe everyone around me borrowed it. Maybe you have this habit of understanding borrowing money?

So be careful.

Women find a responsible man, a man who knows how to cherish and appreciate, a man who is willing to pay for women, and a man who knows how to spoil women. This kind of man can give women a sense of security and make women happy!

Just want to stay away from those men who don't know how to pay, and make you uncomfortable from the beginning. Don't make do without it. This selfish man will only make women suffer. Finally, I wish women happiness! You must find a man who really loves you, so that you can be happy all your life, remember!

Generally speaking, people who want money are mostly due to lack of money. Men, human beings, will encounter difficulties.

However, you can consider rejecting his request and terminating the relationship.

Because a man with a little self-reliance and self-esteem would rather ask other same-sex friends for help than a girl. Especially the girls who are dating.

He spoke, even if he is really short of money, it largely shows that this man has no self-esteem and backbone.

Such people are not allowed to associate. Even if he promised to pay you back.

This article is not only for girls, but also for boys. If a girl who has been dating for a month borrows 5000 yuan from you, she can also refuse and terminate the relationship.

This kind of people usually cheat to eat and drink everywhere under the guise of feelings. Either he is a little handsome or he has a good mouth.

Please look after your wallet and never borrow it! !

They will promise to pay you back every three days and one week. They will say that they have not been paid, borrowed money from their brothers, and are in a hurry.

If you don't believe me, tell him you have no money!

Don't listen to what he says, "I lend you because I think you are my girlfriend" or "My favorite person won't help me, who will help me?"

This is a disguised form of moral kidnapping. If you think you are really his favorite person, then you are too naive, too young and too simple.

Such a boy may not want to continue to associate with you, but he thinks you are a girl and wants to give you a chance to break up.

Also have a plenty of don't want to be what others call love rat, don't want to be the person who broke up on their own initiative. I deliberately find something that makes the woman uncomfortable, and then when I break up, the girls feel guilty.

Whatever his motives, he doesn't want to associate with you.

So say no money, break up.

I'm Ye Yuqian. In the process of love, please be careful if the other person asks you for money. Don't trust the so-called investigation. If a boy is superficial enough to examine his emotions in this way, then he is not suitable for dating at present.

Especially if you borrow money for a month, don't think about it, don't hesitate. Even if he is more handsome than Daniel Wu, please refuse.

It wasn't long before I met that boy in the local forum. We haven't even met, and we haven't confirmed the relationship between men and women. We just chat and write letters online. He sent me a photo.

He also bought fruit and went to visit my parents in our village alone as an ordinary friend. I asked the name of my residence, but I was a little uncomfortable because I didn't ask my permission in advance. )

If so, maybe I'll be a little tempted, maybe I'll consider dating him.

As a result, he told me that he bought a house with poor decoration. He asked me if I could lend him 2000 yuan, and said that the house was his wedding room, and his mother urged him to marry me and so on.

What are you thinking about? At that time, my salary was only a few hundred dollars a month. Besides, I really didn't associate with him, and I didn't have an affair. It's just that he's single and asked if we could date. I said we can get to know each other as netizens before making a decision.

He is too confident in himself. He may know that I have never been in love during the conversation, thinking that I don't know anything and that my money is easy to cheat.

Although my sister was a factory girl at that time, her IQ was not low. I worked so hard in the factory and was so short of money that I didn't borrow money from him to eat white flour cakes. It's his turn to borrow it from me.

Decisively refuse to delete.

Aunt, I hope you are too!

Feel your feelings! If you think you are happy that he borrowed money, borrow it. The result is not important. If you are unhappy, it means that you have not reached this level of trust, then politely refuse.