The idea of children is not stupid.

On Thursday night, we watched a movie called Children Are Not Stupid, which deeply touched my heart. I think family can touch everything.

I talked about my children's performance at school and my brother's study on campus, as well as things at home. At home, my mother often nags them, only looking at their shortcomings, not their advantages, so my mother nags endlessly. Mom nagged and grandma nagged, and they didn't listen at all. What family members say always goes in one ear and out the other. The little boy grew up happily on campus, but naughty students always played tricks on him. My brother doesn't study hard and do his homework at school, which makes the teacher very angry. He was almost expelled from school several times and got to know some gangsters to do bad things, and was almost caught by Beijing. Finally, I was moved by my family and finally understood.

In my life, I often encounter such things. At home, my mother always nags me until I obey. I remember one time, I was careless in doing my homework. Some topics are not carefully read and often make mistakes. My mother nagged me. When I make a mistake, I put down what I am doing to teach me.

I often don't listen to the teacher carefully at school, and the homework assigned by the teacher is not done seriously, which makes the teacher very worried.

Although the children are young, they are not stupid. I will definitely listen to my parents.

Thinking about Children Not Stupid 2 I saw a Singapore movie "Children Not Stupid" this afternoon, and I was deeply touched.

The film tells the story of three children who were assigned to poor classes, and corrects the incorrect ideas of most parents in educating their children, emphasizing that every child has his own bright spot and every child is a useful talent. This film belongs to light comedy, but it has deep practical significance and benefits a lot.

What are the criteria for children's success? Many parents may put academic performance first, and studying hard is the way out. In fact, we should fully understand our child, know his strengths and weaknesses, and do everything possible to create opportunities and environments to give full play to his strengths, instead of demanding him according to the current unified standards, otherwise he will only gradually become mediocre. If the child's academic performance is not satisfactory, he can't be asserted as a useless person. It can only show that he is not good at cultural studies at school. If it is still measured by academic performance, it is tantamount to comparing the shortcomings of children with the advantages of others. The result can be imagined, and it will also affect children's mental health. Only when children's advantages are discovered in time and brought into full play can children develop healthily and gradually succeed.

In this film, the communication between people is clearly in front of us. First of all, this film expounds the communication between children and their parents. Parents rarely give their children a chance to speak and explain. Even if there is a lack of communication with children, children will have problems of one kind or another. In fact, children need understanding and encouragement. Secondly, the film reflects the communication problem between teachers and students. The Chinese master in the film is really a good teacher. Criticism and punishment are his teaching styles, and there are probably many places in China where teacher education methods belong to this type. However, times have changed, and children have grown up too fast. This kind of education is unacceptable to them. After introspection, Mr. Fu adjusted his teaching methods and began to encourage his students, which not only improved his image in the eyes of students, but also educated them to a certain extent. Compared with the original spur education, the times are changing, and communication needs to be changed, so that education can progress.

There are many kinds of feelings. Although the love between parents and children is not as vigorous as love, nor as broad and eternal as the blue sky and the sea, there will be storms in the blue sky and the sea, which is when adults and children can't communicate well. When we were young, we hated our parents. Now we think this is mainly our own fault. Children's self-esteem is sometimes stronger than that of adults, and there is no room for criticism. Adults also have their own problems. While trying to support their children, they actually enjoy the feeling of being adults, the feeling of being above others and not being disobeyed. There is no doubt that parents are kind to their children, but this does not mean that children can challenge their status, no matter how big or small they are.

How to find a valuable part from a "rotten apple", how to give the wrong child a chance, and how to make a child shine to the maximum, parents take the initiative. Praise more and scold less, which is the key to the child's heart. Just like the sentence in the movie: if resources are misplaced, they will become garbage; And garbage will become a resource in the right place.

After reading "Children are not stupid", I feel three "Children are not stupid". These four words sound novel.

I watched the film with anticipation.

The story is very compact and makes people cry.

The film tells several classic scenes of three children from good to bad and from bad to good. It reflects a real problem faced by many families in the information society: parents are busy working to make money and lack communication with their children.

Even if it is a limited number of exchanges, it is only: parents say that children listen and children do. For adults, this is communication and education.

Parents think watching Jerry's performance is boring. ...

My brother Jerry's blog is very good, but his parents think it is useless. ...

Xue Qian is good at sports and likes boxing, but he was beaten by his father. ...

..... All these, the generation gap is getting deeper and wider, which almost leads to tragedy. Fortunately, the parents and teachers in the play soon realized that everyone was happy for an exciting comedy ending.

Looking at reality from the perspective of movies, I think there are many things worth thinking about.

Among my classmates, many people are really amazing and have many advantages, but they are ignored by parents and teachers. There is only one unified view of adults, that is, one answer: studying well is really great, and the rest are all false and not worth mentioning.

To this end, parents are willing to spend a lot of time and money on tutoring their children, and never ask their children if they want to. Many times it backfires, and some even backfires, erasing the last trace of children's interest in learning. What else can be achieved?

In addition, there are parents' own reasons for children's deterioration from good to bad.

Parents should reflect: Have you ever had psychological communication with your child? Can you think and deal with some problems from the perspective of children? Do you often communicate with children? Do you constantly improve your communication methods in order to achieve better results?

I firmly believe in the words of an adult father: "There are no children who can't teach well, only parents who can't teach well."

Yes, childlike innocence is innate innocence and plasticity. Due to their parents' neglect, they will gradually become dull and even numb. At this time, "home" is no longer a home, but just a sleeping house.

Finally, I want to say: No matter how busy you are at work, as a parent, please spend more time with your children. They lack that love, that heavy love!

A very rich family, with parents, grandmother, two sons and a nanny. The eldest son, Yang, went to junior high school and the youngest son went to primary school. Their parents are very busy at work and have no time to discipline their children. In this family, my son eats coptis like a mute-he can't say what he has suffered. No one in the family was well disciplined, and under the influence of bad teenagers at school, the eldest son actually became a thief and robbed an old woman's gold chain. When the eldest son found out that he had made a mistake, he returned the gold chain to the old woman. Finally, his parents realized his mistake and lived happily with their son.

Review of the movie "I'm not stupid either"

The film reflects the present situation of exam-oriented education and rattan whip education in Singapore. Some plots make people laugh, while others leave a series of thoughts: How should we love our children today?

There are several scenes that I am particularly unforgettable. Cai Cheng was expelled from the school, and his father personally copied 163 letters and searched all the 163 middle schools in Singapore. I had a bad fall to save my son. Xue Qian grabbed an old woman's necklace, and his father knelt down and begged her not to sue his son ... The poor inherited the wind. I want to ask, as parents, who doesn't love their children? However, it is difficult for many parents to achieve wise and legal love, to touch their children, to inspire, motivate and awaken their children.

Xue Qian was flogged by the teacher in public at school, with one whip, two whips and three whips. The child's heartbreaking screams made people see how chilling. Seeing this scene, as a teacher, I can't let go anyway. As a teacher, we should first reflect on our words and deeds. When keeping a straight face becomes our regular expression and being flustered becomes our normal emotion, our so-called "education" is getting farther and farther away from our children. Every day when you walk into the campus, you will see the children's respectful team ceremony and hear countless "good teachers". Children always come to school in high spirits. Why not look at it from an appreciation attitude? Accept with tolerance? A teacher in the film is right: we need a key, and this key is to pay more attention to the advantages of students and less attention to their shortcomings. Let all our parents and teachers be cautious about their every teaching behavior and let their children get the best development.

Comment on I'm not stupid

When I finished watching I'm not stupid, I was accompanied by a long silence-

When a child enters the rebellious period of youth, parents usually think that the child is bad and disobedient, and it is difficult to communicate with the child. In fact, is the child really bad? Is it really impossible to communicate with children at all? Every child will go through a rebellious period. What if parents and teachers don't give them proper instruction at this time, but just blame them and think they are rotten wood and a scum in society? Don't harm children because of adults' ignorance. In fact, as long as adults appreciate them more, tolerate them, affirm them, lower their status and be their friends, through healthy communication, it is not difficult to find that children are not so bad.

"I'm not stupid" is based on the highly competitive education and culture in Singapore, which actually reflects the pressure faced by teenagers at school and at home. This film explores the generation gap between parents and children due to lack of communication, and reflects the difficulties parents face in educating their children. In the film, Tom (15 years old) and Jiewei (8 years old) are busy working to make money, and they lack communication with each other, thinking that material satisfaction is enough, but they don't know that what children need more is their parents' care and appreciation. On the other hand, Tom's classmates become talents, and he and his father also have the problem of lack of communication. This humble father doesn't want to follow in his footsteps because he has gone astray. I have high hopes for success. I hope he will have a bright future and study hard, but it is not satisfactory, which makes him very sad. He thought that success in punching and kicking was the best way to discipline him, which made him even more resistant.

Through the story of three children, Tom, Jew and success, I am not stupid enough to tell us that children should not only care and love, but also appreciate and affirm. Parents should set an example and cultivate their children's personality with personality. This film makes parents in the world reflect: there are no children who can't teach well, only parents who can't teach well. I hope that all parents who watched this film can reflect on their own education methods and care more about and appreciate their children in the future.

Book Review of I'm Not Stupid.

Perhaps our parents are too hasty to take care of their children's growth, perhaps we always pretend to be elders and wronged our children with too many immature ideas, or perhaps too many may make the generation gap between us and our children grow bigger and bigger, and the happiness and happiness we once had gradually drift away from us and become indifferent.

Children are the heart of every parent and the best gift from God to our parents. What parents in the world don't crave their children's intelligence? Which parent in the world doesn't expect their baby to grow up healthily? Our hearts were once deeply warmed by a baby's immature crying, and the child's crying and laughing made us worry. No matter how hard and tired the work is, all the fatigue disappears when I see the baby's pink face after work.

I have two daughters. The boss is introverted and the younger brother is lively. The boss's grades are above average, and the small ones are really flattering. I once lost my temper because she couldn't finish her homework, and I also took a lesson because of her willfulness and naughty. Especially the little one, who just taught her something, waited for more than ten minutes for her to do it again, and she didn't know. Every exercise is waiting for me to answer. Over time, I gradually lost patience with her. I once joked with others and said, "This child is hopeless!" After watching this movie, I was deeply moved. Why didn't I notice her organizational ability to direct a group of children to play games? Why am I not moved by her filial piety to peel oranges for grandma?

In fact, every child is a unique treasure in this world, all brand-name new products, and no one can counterfeit them. Therefore, our parents should be calm. Every child is a piece of rough jade, depending on how our parents polish it.

I'm not stupid, but also my mentor. I no longer look at my two daughters with prejudice. They are my "treasures".

Thinking about children not being stupid 5. The film Children Are Not Stupid wrote three good friends, Guo Bin, Wen Fu and Terry. They all read EM3 (a category that is considered hopeless). They all come from different families, and different parents have given them different education, which directly affects their different personalities and future treatment. "Children are not stupid" combines the character's personality and background just right, humorous, relaxed and funny, and the details are full of life.

A teacher said, "Look less at their shortcomings and more at their advantages". The most comforting thing in the film is Teacher Li. She teaches children not to run away from difficulties, but to understand and understand them, find out the details of them, and then overcome them. She gave the children a lot of encouragement and confidence. After Guo Bin cheated in the exam, she helped persuade the director of moral education not to tell his parents because she knew about Guo Bin. Guo Bin gave his paintings to Mr. Li, who donated money for him and took part in the competition. That painting is a child's face, wearing a bachelor's hat, but his left eye is full of tears and his eyes are dim.

I noticed that the conversation between Yang and his parents was only "uh-huh, ah, oh", and they didn't realize that their grandmother was also making this reaction when talking to them. "Children with violent tendencies in violent families", because successful fathers grow up in this way, so he only knows how to educate children; Similarly, success grows under the fist. When something happens, he will naturally think of solving the problem with his fist. With the encouragement of his father on his deathbed, "if you love to fight, you will fight all over the world." Thanks to the teacher's appreciation, it finally succeeded, and the national flag of Ran Ran was raised.

This is Jerry's question: "When we were very young, we often encouraged and praised people who fell and stood up again. We didn't know how happy we were. I don't know when it started. When we grew up, the words of praise and encouragement began to change, and the door slowly closed. " "Is it really so difficult to see the advantages of others?" In fact, each of us should ask ourselves this question that is always easy to be ignored by us. Appreciation is a powerful energy. Maybe you don't even know it. Your words and expressions are that kind of power. In fact, in every child, there is a good boy and a bad boy. As long as they wake up good children, they will bring out the best of themselves.

As teenagers, please don't close the door of communication casually. It was our parents who brought us into this world, and it was our teachers who gave us rich spiritual content. We should treat people around us with gratitude.

Thinking about "children are not stupid" 6 There is a key that has always been on everyone. This key can make every child happy and give the children who fall the courage to get up. This button is actually not so strange, you just need to open your mouth to praise and encourage your child to do it.

"I'm not stupid" unconsciously moved everyone who read it with a sense of humor, turning compassion and emotion into two lines of tears, which could not be calm for a long time. The question is asked at the beginning of the film: "When was the last time you praised others?" "When was the last time you were praised?" When I can't find the answer for a while, the answer seems to be far away from me. "Has it been a long time?" Suddenly appeared on the screen. At that time, somewhere in my heart seemed to have opened a brake and had something to vent.

Babbling parents always think that they have done nothing right, even if they have done it right, they feel that they have not done it well enough; Wishful teachers always feel that they are a rotten apple, and there is no hope for anything. I don't know when I started, I never heard praise and encouragement again, but just blamed, complained, reprimanded, misunderstood and even beat up. So for children, home is just a place to sleep. On the surface, it seems that there is everything, but in fact there is nothing. School is just a place to kill time. On the surface, everything is taught, but in fact nothing is taught.

This kind of life has actually been experienced by many people, including me. When I was in middle school, I always complained about why my parents never praised me and encouraged me: I got the first place in the exam, but I didn't hear my parents' praise; When I became the president of the student self-management association, my parents always thought it was an insignificant vacancy; Father will never attend the parent-teacher conference, and mother will always be late; Holding the hard-won test paper, I always prepare a painful meal with trepidation ... how I long for the key that my parents can't easily take out: praise and encouragement. Fortunately, I also have a teacher who appreciates me. In my 16 study career, I was accompanied by one teacher after another along the way, accompanying me to grow up and making me who I am today. When I was ignorant, it was the teacher who discovered my artistic expertise and made me proud to develop my talents outside of study; When I slipped, it was the teacher who encouraged me and believed that I could achieve better results and let me reach the peak again. When I was confused, it was the teacher's careful teaching and comprehensive analysis that helped me find the way I should go ... so I was lucky to get care from my parents everywhere. It is because I am on the right path that I can understand the fact that my parents love me, but they don't know how to love.

Now, I stand in front of the three-foot platform, thinking about the teachers I have been grateful to, and I will devote my youth to helping these children realize their dreams. Their fact is that many students' parents are working outside the home, so they seldom have face-to-face communication with them. They only care about their grades by phone occasionally. If their grades are not satisfactory, their parents will always say something like this: "We worked hard to earn money to support our families, but you didn't study hard. How can you be so ignorant? " This kind of complaint is the main content of children's life. As a result, these children grew up in a caring environment, and their families neglected education, leaving them wandering between black and white. Usually, I don't finish my homework well, I don't listen carefully in class, my dictation is not ideal, my words are misspelled, and my sense of language is poor ... Their performances make me a rookie, inexperienced young teacher who always pretends to be a top student who can't understand. So I can't bear to strike a table and scold them, complaining that they have learned nothing in primary school and will never grow up. Every time I fly into a rage, the children bow their heads deeply, as if to say, "In fact, we don't want this either." I have a hot temper, but I will also reflect on the problem after venting. In fact, I can't blame the child's fault. Poor foundation is the responsibility of primary school teachers, who are also victims. It's a child's nature to be playful, and it's a family's responsibility to control one's work and rest. In such an era, children who stay at home are pitiful. Such children need the care of middle school teachers more. "Every child has a good boy and a bad boy. As long as their good children are awakened, they will play their best. " If middle school teachers still blindly criticize, only see their own shortcomings, fail to see their own strengths and efforts, and do not give them the lack of praise and encouragement, then there is no doubt that bad children will dominate their behavior. After watching the movie, I felt more deeply about it. Therefore, in the usual teaching work, educators should try to see the advantages of students, praise them, and then encourage their shortcomings, so that they have the confidence to make up for them. Such examples are not uncommon. There is a student in my class whose parents work outside all the year round, and the child is with relatives. Due to the limitation of living environment, the child seldom communicates with others and is not rich in emotions. He is always silent in class, and sometimes his spirit is out of the classroom. Several times I criticized him for desertion in front of the whole class, hoping that he could control himself and sternly asked him to raise his hand to speak, but there was no progress at all. On the contrary, the student became more and more silent. Later, I inadvertently joked that Xiao Z always goes deep into class, but the deeper he goes, the more thoughtful he is, encouraging him to talk about his views on the problem. Other students laughed at my words. Little Z was very silent at first. I always encouraged him. With inspiration, other students began to worry about him and cheer for him. Finally, he finally answered a little, but it was enough. I praised him in that class. After that, Z kept silent, but at least when I called him, he stopped saying nothing in my class. There are many such examples in education. Such children need more care and love from us. Timely praise and encouragement can make them regain hope and confidence, and wake up the good boy in his heart with the key full of love.

Don't be stingy with our praise and encouragement, no matter what you lose or have, don't let people around you repeat your pain or enjoy the happiness you once had, especially vulnerable children. We should make every child an angel, not a little devil. As teachers, we should say to every child, "I will grow up with you." The next time we were asked, "When was the last time you praised others?" "When was the last time you were praised?" I hope that each of us will answer without thinking: "Just now!"