As the saying goes, adopted sons climb poor relatives and adopted daughters climb the door. What does this mean?

Whether in ancient times or today's society, marriage between men and women of school age is still the top priority in life. We all hope to find a suitable person to accompany us all our lives. It's just about love and marriage, and it's a necessary expression of human emotions after sublimation. In ancient times, there were also many classic sayings. Why don't we talk about it today? Adopted sons climb poor relatives and adopted daughters climb the door? This proverb is also a valuable experience left by our ancestors.

In ancient times, people's thoughts were still feudal, so marriage was generally the words of parents, and there was no choice. Many men and women met for the first time when they got married. They know nothing about each other's looks, personality and living habits, and there is no love at all. Even so, there was basically no divorce at that time, because women's status was low and there was no room for her to resist, and feudal dogma locked them up.

Ancient marriage pays attention to the right family, which is vividly expressed in the sentence that adopted sons climb poor relatives and adopted daughters climb the door. When a woman gets married, she will choose a boy who is a little better than her family and is better in all aspects. Because boys with good backgrounds are generally educated, it will be easier for women if they are ordinary families, so that the two will complement each other, and women also worship their husbands, so that the family will be completely happy. When a man chooses a wife, he should find someone slightly inferior to himself, because for the sake of family, men are generally indomitable. If the woman's family is strong and the man's family is weak, he will certainly not be happy.

The marriage proverbs left by ancestors still have scientific basis, so that some people still get married according to this standard. It's just that the times have progressed, the society has progressed, and the concept has changed. In ancient times, this concept of family status was not so serious. After all, it is important for everyone to understand and communicate with each other when they get married. Life is over, it's boring to follow the rules!