What should I do if my father-in-law and mother-in-law were university professors before they retired. They only provide money and do not want to take care of the children and cook?

Just find a way to take care of the child you gave birth to! After your father-in-law and mother-in-law retire, they have the life they want to live. They have to arrange their own life in their later years. They have no obligation to help you cook and take care of your children. Besides, they have already given you a lot of help financially, so just be content!

What a strange question! First of all, if you give birth to your own child, you must take on the responsibility of raising it yourself. It’s enough to be satisfied if your parents-in-law give you money! Also, I am particularly disgusted by the mention of "university professor". The old man's professional title was earned through hard work when he was young!

My parents-in-law were university professors before they retired. What should I do if they only provide money but are unwilling to take care of the baby? Take care of your children by yourself. If your parents-in-law help you, be grateful. If not, hire a nanny. Besides, the old man will pay for you, so be content!

This is good enough, why is it not enough? At that time, we only had one child, and we had to overcome all difficulties in raising the child by ourselves, working and raising the child at the same time. Due to the short maternity leave, we often stood on the operating table while still breastfeeding, and encountered multiple emergency surgeries, and the milk was wet. It was extremely embarrassing to wear a surgical gown. The most uncomfortable thing was to stand on the operating table for a day. My breasts were swollen, painful and hard. I cried while squeezing out the lumpy milk. Day after day, I was stumbling to bring up the child. No one will sympathize with you or pity you, because everyone is the same. Our leaders often say that others can raise children, why can't you? At the same time, I have to deal with endless professional examinations, and it is difficult to look back on the past. Why are children today's conditions getting better and better but unable to be self-reliant? ! I have thought about it. My son will take care of his own children in the future. If he has the ability to take care of his own children, he can have as many children as he wants. Never say that he is born for us! Not to mention the rest of the old man's life, of course he will be financially supported, that's all.

What should you do if your parents-in-law don’t take care of the baby at your expense?

I would like to ask if you can ask for more faces? If you can't afford to raise a child, it's best not to have one. If you do, you should raise and take care of it yourself.

At first glance, this problem is not a problem. Raising children and cooking for them is what parents should do, not the grandparents' business. So if your parents-in-law are willing to pay, thank them quickly and find a reliable professional aunt. That's how I got here. However, I am not as lucky as you, and my parents-in-law can provide money. But they helped me find a very good aunt, and I am very grateful. Clarify responsibilities and draw boundaries, and this won't be a problem.

You have to be sincerely grateful for their contribution. They have no legal obligation to take care of your children and cook for you. If you accept the money after giving it to you, you must understand that it is the extra contribution of the parents.

No matter what job you did before retirement, you will be older when you retire. What reason do you have to let them take care of your children and cook for you? If the conditions are good, give your children some subsidies and you will be satisfied.

To put it bluntly, you are very lucky and happy. Your father-in-law and mother-in-law are both university professors and intellectuals, and they are both well-educated and courteous people. Naturally, the matter of raising a child is also a matter of course. It's easy to discuss.

When a baby is born at home, there are only three ways to decide who will take care of it: the first is to ask an elderly person to take care of the baby, the second is to ask someone to take care of the baby, and of course, the third is to have only yourself. Come and bring it.

Now, your parents-in-law have made it clear that they are not willing to take care of the baby, but they are willing to pay. Therefore, your father-in-law and mother-in-law were relatively responsible and did not turn their backs.

In this case, you can hire a better nanny or housekeeper to take care of your baby and cook for you. Your father-in-law and mother-in-law provide you with money, which relieves a lot of your financial burden and solves practical difficulties. It is of course a very good thing for you and your wife.

As for the parents-in-law, they have already said that they are not willing to take care of the baby, so just follow their wishes, and there is no need to force them to take care of the baby for you. Otherwise, it will make the whole family unhappy and unhappy, or even lead to family conflicts and conflicts, which is very inappropriate.

Haha, funny.

What to do, cold salad.

Your parents-in-law have nothing to do with you or your family. They can do whatever they want.

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