Only by experiencing it and facing it can we leave aftertaste and have accumulation.

1. You must like to be with yourself. The good thing is: you don’t have to twist yourself to conform or please others.

2. Sunshine comes from the clarity of your heart.

3. No matter who you are, no matter what you are going through, hold on, and you will definitely see the strongest version of yourself.

4. A lifetime is a practice, the short one is travel, the long one is life.

5. The reason why God created fingerprints is because he wants people to know that everyone has scars.

6. Don’t wonder why others keep hurting you, ask yourself why you keep allowing this to happen.

7. Love is actually two people standing side by side, watching the world prosper and change, and the flowers wither and bloom.

8. Don’t always show sadness on your face, everyone has their own story; don’t talk about troubles, everyone has their own troubles.

9. The best life: nothing more than talking and laughing during the day and sleeping well at night.

10. I don’t have time to be young seriously. When I understand, I can only choose to grow old seriously.

11. Maturity means facing all the little things with a smile.

12. A person’s face says more and more interesting things than a person’s mouth, because the mouth only tells people’s thoughts, while the face tells the essence of thoughts.

13. The maturity of any soul must go through the baptism and tempering of loneliness. The worst feeling in the world is having to doubt something you previously believed in.

14. No matter what you do, remember to do it for yourself, then there will be no complaints.

15. Sometimes people are so strange. They won’t say a word even after being greatly wronged, but they burst into tears when they hear words of comfort.

16. Wrong love is like shoes that you like but are not suitable for you. Your feet hurt when you wear them and your heart hurts when you throw them away.

17. I like the sun because it is very warm, warms my heart, and warms away the unknown pain.

18. I have never been known by anyone, so I have never been forgotten by anyone. Living in other people's memories is not my purpose. Gu Cheng

19. Every age has different worries. Don't try to avoid it, pretend to be young or old, these troubles are gifts given to you by life. Only by experiencing them and facing them can you leave aftertaste and have accumulation.

20. The clarity of water is not because it does not contain impurities, but because it knows how to precipitate.

21. Wherever it exists, it blooms. Don't forget to spread fragrance just because you are sad. Watanabe Kazuko

22. If you want to know yourself thoroughly, you might as well pay more attention to what others have said to you when they are angry. After all, angry words are true words that are out of control. Guilt Dream

23. After living alone for a long time, when encountering a little warmth, the pretending aloof heart will collapse.

24. Most of the things you pretend not to care about are actually things you are powerless to do.

Twenty-five, the years are always young. As we grow older, you will find that the childlike innocence is still something to be proud of.

26. Be down-to-earth, don’t be indifferent, don’t waste time, whether it’s fate or not, just let everything happen.

27. Most people are sad not because they have lost, but because others have gained. A heart-wrenching and sad personal signature. Only those who have experienced it can understand it.

1. I love the moment when I hold you tightly, it’s like I have the whole world.

2. Who makes my waiting pale and mocks my persistence.

3. I allow you to lie to me, but please pay attention to the number of times. If there is reincarnation, I pray that I will never meet you again.

4. The world is so dirty, who has the right to say sadness.

5. Please don’t pretend to be nice to me. I am stupid and will take it seriously.

6. The invulnerable heart is often defeated by simple comfort, and the disguise of invulnerability often completely surrenders in front of people who understand you.

7. The happiness on your face can be seen by others. Who can feel the pain in my heart?

8. Please don’t ask me if I am okay, because there is only one answer, I am fine, at least I pretend to be fine.

9. The relationship has always been shallow, but the love is deep.

10. Deteriorated feelings are like cigarettes. They have no nutrition, but they cannot be thrown away. They are kept to corrode oneself bit by bit.

11. Don’t tell others everything. What you say is from your heart, and they will hear it as a joke.

12. You are so lonely, but you say that being alone is a good thing.

13. When you do it right, no one will remember; when you do it wrong, even breathing is wrong.

14. I am not a gentle person, but I have done all the gentle things for you.

15. Time gradually takes away the frivolity of youth, and gradually immerses in self-knowledge.

16. Who is the passer-by in life, who is the wheel of life, the dust of the past life, the wind of this life, and the endless sad soul.

17. Who wants the weak hug when parting? The forced smile when turning around hurts the corner of the mouth.

18. Some things are over for some people. You can’t stop drinking water just because the cup you drank from broke.

19. I can smile and listen to you tell your story, but I really can’t smile and listen to you talk about your relationship.

20. I climbed mountains and waded in rivers, begged hard, but still waited for you to leave heartlessly, but I couldn't help crying. Only those who have experienced it can better understand the power behind it

Close your eyes, clean your heart, and let the past go...

Life is like the sea, and desires are like the sea. tide. The beauty of the sea lies in its magnificence at high tide and its quiet beauty after low tide. The beauty of life lies in desire and striving for excellence, as well as in the effective control of excessive desires. A sea without tide is devoid of vitality, and excessive tide will cause disaster; life without desire is bound to be pale, and excessive desire will inevitably plunge life into an abyss of pain. The ebb and flow of the tide are all scenery, and being able to let go and take in is the ultimate state.

In fact, over a long period of time, probably everyone has been wandering between self-encouragement and self-destruction, and the pursuits and ideas in their minds will also change over time. But you must keep yourself thinking. It is understandable that you want to let go of everything and enjoy yourself at a certain time, but those behaviors that make you move towards positivity must be silently promoted through constant self-thinking and comparison.

Many things cannot be controlled by oneself. No matter how lonely and lonely you are, you still have to keep going. You are not allowed to stop or look back.

Time is like rain. We are all people walking in the rain. , find your own umbrella, build a small world, and walk forward until the wind stops raining and it is a beautiful sunny day.

When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it. , rather than rising with the wind.

Youth is a hasty book. We read it again and again with tears in our eyes.

The most precious thing is not the material things you own, but the people who are by your side. You can't force others to love you, you can only work hard to make yourself a person worthy of love, and the rest depends on fate. In this life, there is always a certain road that can only be walked alone; there are always many things that need to be carried by one person. Don't be afraid of loneliness. It can help you clarify the turbidity in your heart. It is a destiny process that you cannot avoid.

Having hated for a long time has become a burden. Just waiting, no matter whether time has diluted everything, my heart is still in its original position, beating persistently in a stubborn way and speed. When people are most sad and panicked, there are no tears. Tears always flow at the end of the story, when everything is over! Loving someone who loves you is happiness; loving someone who doesn't love you is pain.

Be careful with your thoughts, for they soon become your actions; be careful with your actions, for they soon become your habits; be careful with your habits, for they soon become your habits. character.

Everyone is a lonely individual. Learn to be strong, learn to be brave, and learn to take things up and let them go. Feelings may become stronger or weaker. No matter how reluctant or reluctant you are to leave, you can't stop it from leaving. If the heart has no place to rest, it will wander wherever it goes. A heart that is too soft dare not open up and hurt others at will. I can only pick up my hard shell and continue wandering.

Life is tough, but if you have the ability to laugh at it, you have the ability to enjoy it.——Life is tough, but if you have the ability to laugh at it, you have the ability to enjoy it. ability.

Accept everything you have happily while fighting for what you want to have.

Every blooming flower has experienced dark waves; every bright and dazzling flower has experienced wind and rain; every infinite scenery has experienced sadness. The beauty that can be seen and the scars that cannot be seen, only those who have experienced it can better understand the power behind it.

You need sincerity when you love each other, communication when you argue, calmness when you are angry, sharing when you are happy, understanding when you criticize, and tolerance when you live your life.

Only those who have experienced these sentences will understand whether you have love or have missed it

1.

I hope that so many good things can be given to you. Give me all the bad ones

Give me the ice flowers of the early sun for you from the heavy snow all night long

Give me the steam from the heater for you from the overnight tea

Downstairs Give me the broken street lamp, give me the kitten at the intersection, give it to you

Give me the spicy coriander, give me the hot pot meat slices, give it to you

Give me the summer heat, give me the new sprouts of spring

Give me my hand, my pocket, and give you my lock in heavy rain, night, and insomnia

I give you my key in the cool breeze, dawn, and sweet dreams. I give you my lock.

2.

I particularly like a kind of girl. Acting coquettishly and being cute is just an auxiliary ingredient, but more about being funny and aggressive. He is impulsive and unreasonable when it comes to his friends' affairs, but he is calm and nonchalant about his own affairs and refuses to pay attention to them. Reckless yet sensible, rough yet serious. Enthusiastic and indifferent, paranoid and extremely dual-faced. The young lady may have a bad temper and needs to be pampered, and she may be clingy and leave a gap. It seems that the more outrageous it is, the more I like it.

Usually she will pretend to be angry even when her anger has subsided, and she always suppresses laughter when coaxing her to tease her.

In particular, the fact that he becomes very gentle after getting angry is the most adorable thing.

She is moderately violent, and she is definitely not a noisy woman in the market if she is not a soft persimmon. God, this little girl is a treasure in the world. I can't stand it, I want to support it, I want to get used to it.

3.

There is truth in the joke, I firmly believe it.

Sometimes I joke with the person I like, hahaha. How about you try to like me?

The other person hahahahahaha, don’t make trouble! Passed by with a smile.

There are many moments when I really want to shout out loud that I am not fucking kidding you! I just like you! I just want to be with you!

But every time I held back, not because I was timid, but because I knew that everyone was in their twenties, and it was impossible for the other party not to understand what I meant, but since his choice was to pretend to be stupid , then I had to choose to cooperate with him, and at the same time chew and swallow the sentence "I like you" over and over again without mentioning a word.

After all, we are all adults, and those tacit rejections and likes are decent enough.

4.

She may be your wife many years from now. She may be the wife that you brag to your friends about how you chased her when you were young when you were drunk. She may also be someone else’s pillow many years from now. The one beside you is you, drinking thirty-one dozen glasses of wine in the neon depths, crying to a group of strangers about why the person beside you is not her.

I am too timid. I dare not call you a warlord in troubled times, and I dare not say I love you in peaceful times.

Don’t meet someone who is too stunning when you are young, it will be a lifetime mistake.

5.

People say they are most afraid of getting lost, but I say they are most afraid of you crying.

I really won’t believe in someone’s love so easily anymore, because I understand more and more that saying love is really easy, but having a future and a future is the real problem.

Those irresponsible loves are like a tornado, coming suddenly and leaving decisively. I really don’t have the guts to play another game with anyone.

I’m tired of being suddenly thrown away while walking, and I hate being cautious every time I mention the future to others. I don’t want to be a one-man show fool anymore, making silly plans by myself. After a long time, I finally discovered that my name had never appeared in the other person's future.

I, now I just want to have a down-to-earth relationship, to get to know each other seriously, to write each other into their futures, and to walk hand in hand through many springs, summers, autumns and winters. You don't have to be rich enough, or you can be very ordinary. As long as you have me in your future, that's enough.

I hope that the next person who falls in love with me will be braver and more sincere and never leave me or give up on me.

Take one more step towards me, I am willing to run the remaining ninety-nine steps towards you.

Because, I really want to have a future with you.

6.

It’s really hard to fall in love now.

I don’t know since when, I feel that more and more people are treating the three-minute passion of love. They are impatient and want to have a relationship with you after just two meals.

To be honest, I think the probability of falling in love at first sight is too low. When two people can be together, it feels very important, the conversation is very important, and the trajectory of life is very important. And these are things that require time and effort to get along with each other. It’s not like we met for the first time yesterday and I can marry you tomorrow.

I miss my high school days very much. I loved it all summer and mustered up the courage all autumn. During self-study one night in early winter, the boy lit up fireworks and the whole teaching building looked like it was standing on the Milky Way. , and then with the instigation of friends, I carefully said to the girl, I like you.

I used to think that setting off fireworks and candles was very tacky. Now I just feel very precious. That shyness and enthusiasm are hard to feel now. Now most of them say they like you, but if you don't agree to them immediately, they will like someone else. Their preferences are as casual as buying groceries.

I don’t know what kind of person I will meet in the future. I hope that he can retain the illusion of love like me. We are not in a hurry to get married, we are busy falling in love seriously.

7.

Come with me, give you the anxiety, give you the love letter, give you the sleepless night, give you the morning in April, give you the first bite of the ice cream, I give you the last fish ball from Haidilao, I give you my hand, I give you my arms, I give you the ticket, I give you the trek, I give you the waiting, I give you the key, I give you my home, I give you my lonely courage and the remaining sixty years of my life. for you.

Let’s go, I will give you back my reluctance, I will give you my freedom, I will give you the sweetest dream about you, I will give you back the June evening, I will give you my first hug and last kiss, and I will give you my shoulders. You, the return ticket is returned to you, peace is returned to you, dinner for two is returned to you, the keys are returned to you, the home is returned to you, the insistence on going your own way and all the hopes for the future are returned to you.

8.

No worries and love letters

No trekking and waiting

No ice cream and Haidilao

Life is too difficult

Your love letters and carriages are too slow

Traveling through mountains and rivers is too hard

I don’t want the keys for the rest of my life, so please don’t give me blind advice

I just want to have a good sleep

9.

It may be that I have overdrawn too much seriousness and enthusiasm in those years. Even if I have the idea of ????starting over, I still can’t. They did not have the ability to start over, and later they had some experiences in contact with others, but compared with the throbbing, uneasiness, laughter, and tears of those years, they always felt that they lacked that clean and sincere youthful spirit.

After being liked by you, it is difficult to feel that others like me again.

It’s hard to like someone else like you once.

10.

Looking back on those previous relationships that ended in vain, I seem to know the reason, and it was just because of impatience.

When you first meet someone and think he is nice, you hope he likes you. After chatting with you for a few nights, you will feel that he really loves you. You can’t wait to talk to him for days and nights, and you try your best to pretend in front of him. Gotta be funny and cute.

In the early stages of cultivating a relationship, you want to confirm the relationship quickly. If the other person hesitates a little, you will throw a tantrum and ask him why he is unwilling. You begin to question his dedication to you and his feelings for you. Looking back Those moments that make you happy also feel like a scam, so that in the end you question yourself and feel that he is hesitant because he is not good enough.

In fact, people are very mean. The more you push yourself, the less they will take you seriously. Aren’t we the same when being pursued by others? We will never learn to let go. Cherish those who like you.

11.

I did sincerely like you, and I thought about taking you to see the first snow in the Forbidden City every year, and the coastline of Alaska. I was willing to share the autumn with you. , I was willing to sleep with you in the county pavilion to watch the tide, the auditorium with red carpets, and the misty fields. I was willing to enjoy them with you. I imagined living with you until my hair turns gray and old , on the same pillow as the * point, until death.

But I really don’t like you now. The station is in disrepair for a long time, the bricks and tiles in Jiangnan are cracked, and the passion of not hitting the south wall and not looking back has cooled down. Sorry, let's just say goodbye. My love has to be given to someone else.

I will never see you again in this life, and we will never meet again in the mountains and rivers.

12.

Have you ever experienced the feeling of losing the person you love most?

I have been out of state all day and am feeling groggy. I want to get busy, but when I suddenly think of him, my eyes get wet for an instant. I make mistakes frequently as if I am not using my brain. At night, I think sadly. I cried so hard that I couldn't sleep because of my heartache. The pretended strength was actually full of loopholes. How many times had I wished that my phone would suddenly send a text message that we could make up?

But every time, I felt disappointed. How many times in my dreams, With you, I wake up feeling lost.

13.

Suddenly I feel that it is really difficult for adults to fall in love.

Most people are anxious, anxious to be together, anxious to announce their relationship, and then anxious to break up if there are conflicts with each other.

In the final analysis, I still don’t like it that much.

The little bit of love I had at the beginning was quickly worn down to nothing in the long relationship.

Even if you stumble, it is not easy to meet someone you really like.

But sincerity may not be exchanged for sincerity, and one-sided dedication is not enough to maintain a relationship.

Those with better luck, like my friend, have been together for five or six years and like each other.

In the end, we have to consider more practical issues.

When we were students, we didn’t think much about it, but now we have to consider:

How is the other person’s family? What to do if they don’t have a house or a car, what to do if their parents don’t agree.

But most people have not yet faced these problems, and they have not even met someone they really like.

People don’t take a long time to get to know someone, and it doesn’t take a long time to get close to someone.

And it’s too tiring to get to know someone slowly.

Even if you have enough patience, it still depends on whether others are willing.

We have all passed that age where we vaguely like someone and only need a little response from the other person to be satisfied.

The hormones that explode in adolescence recede like a tide, and the pounding feeling is also taken away with it.

Anyway, love is so rare, so it wouldn’t be strange if you can’t find it.

A little sad.

14.

Until one day

when you treat someone as good as others have treated you

you will Understand the kind of going through fire and water and being involuntarily

Understand that those delicious eggs bought for you after wandering a few streets

Didn’t just happen to meet them on the way

Mi Mi The message I sent was not because I was bored

It’s not because I’m generous by nature that I spent money on you

It just happened

Because it’s you