"My son will hit you, but you are wrong." How can I get along with this kind of mother-in-law?

"It's very important for a woman to marry a husband, but the importance of meeting a mother-in-law can't be underestimated."

It seems that a woman puts all her opportunities for happiness in the hands of the other half, and what kind of other half she meets determines what kind of life she will lead in the future.

In fact, besides the other half, it is also very important to meet a mother-in-law. If you meet a reasonable mother-in-law, her son will certainly not be much worse, and in any case, he will not be miserable. But if the mother-in-law is poor and can't be a man, then her son will certainly not be much better.

when a woman chooses to marry, she should not only look at what kind of person her fiance is, but also look at her parents-in-law's behavior. His family style determines his personality and also affects his behavior, and all his behavior will be influenced by his family.

For women, "domestic violence" is the most frightening thing. Domestic violence is only once and countless times. A woman must either leave a man who can do domestic violence or win him. No matter what way, he must be convinced to stop this kind of domestic violence from happening again.

Domestic violence has chilled women enough, and meeting an unreasonable mother-in-law will simply make life more sour. An unreasonable mother-in-law will indulge her son and think that his son is the best everywhere. If she marries you, you will take advantage. The unreasonable mother-in-law always thinks that her son is the best in all aspects. Even if it is obvious that he is wrong first, the mother-in-law will not admit it, and she will not reflect on her family education.

"My son will hit you, and it's all your fault, otherwise how could he hit you?"

My mother-in-law is unreasonable, and will blame all the faults on you. Her son is always right. Even if the discerning person can see that the responsibility is not on you, she still thinks it's your fault. Chen Lingling is a woman from bad karma. Instead of choosing the right man, she met an unreasonable mother-in-law.

I thought my husband was a particularly tolerant man and rarely lost his temper, but I didn't know that it was all suppressed until I got married. Only after I got married did I find out that the more a man can suppress, the more fierce he will be when he loses his temper. In a quarrel between two people because of their different consumption views, Chen Lingling said, "I spent my own money, why do you care so much?" After that, her husband moved his hand and punched her in the face, saying that it would destroy her prestige.

Actually, it's a very small thing. The contradiction between husband and wife can be solved through ditch traffic. The husband started without saying a word, and the mother-in-law watched, but she didn't stop forward. She was more indifferent than passers-by. She just watched her son beat her daughter-in-law, and even pulled her hair against the wall. The mother-in-law thought she was watching the play.

Afterwards, Lingling was so wronged that she wanted to go back to her parents' home. When her mother-in-law saw it, she only made a sarcastic remark: "You are married to my family, and you will go back to your parents' home at any time. If you go back, don't come again! My son will hit you because you are wrong, otherwise how could he hit you? " Lingling felt chilling, married a domestic violence husband, and even met an unreasonable mother-in-law who only knew how to protect her son. She just wanted to leave this house quickly.

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It's not easy for a woman in this life. If she accidentally looks away, she will make a wrong choice. Meeting a bad husband, especially a mother-in-law, is the most helpless thing in this life. The reason why there is such a husband is because there is such a mother-in-law, who has been hiding behind her back and has never pointed out his faults. She still feels that her son makes sense when she commits domestic violence. In such a family style, she can't educate an excellent son.

I just hope Lingling can make up her mind to give up earlier, and don't forgive those women who have been subjected to domestic violence again and again, which will only bring him an inch, not a painful change!