When people reach middle age, they cross the river painfully-

There is a saying in The Old Man and the Sea: "Life will always hurt our whole body, but in the end, those injured places will definitely become our strongest places."

Is it difficult for people to live? Perhaps many people's answer will be such a word: difficult.

Experienced youthful flying, experienced ups and downs in growing up, a person will always slowly put away his edges and corners and compromise with himself.

When people reach middle age, what they used to be poetry and distance is still poetry and distance. What can't be erased is the scar given by life. Dare not get sick, dare not lie flat, dare not relax, and the heartstrings are tight every day, because this is life.

When people reach middle age, they have to fend for themselves. Please be kind to yourself at the right time.

There is a phenomenon that people don't understand. A man in his forties can still live on his parents without getting married or having children. Maybe you think this is impossible, but it exists in reality. I have no ability to integrate into society, and my pockets are cleaner than my face. Can you live on your parents for a lifetime?

There are also 40-year-old people who are unmarried. They have the ability to buy a house and a car, and their careers are smooth, but every time they return to China, they are all alone, bringing their parents not laughter, but a sigh in the dark.

A common group of people, over 40 years old, have unlimited ambitions and dreams, but they were born at a bad time, not so lucky, can't do anything, or accomplish nothing, or are heavily in debt. Every time I fall, I rely on my parents to support me, hollowing out my parents' capital.

To tell the truth, when people reach middle age, it is the age to support their families. Don't do anything against their age. Get married early, have children early, and solve parents' worries early. This is filial piety.

In life, don't rely on your parents to buy a house or a car. How capable are parents? Unless you are a rich second generation.

In your career, don't rely on your parents to support you and take your parents' money. If you lose it again, will you feel comfortable?

When you reach middle age, you should stand on your own feet and stop relying on your parents.

There is a song that goes like this: it is hard to find a bosom friend in a thousand miles, and the road is easy with more friends.

Of course, friends show that a person has a good popularity, and this is the fate between people. It is lucky to be friends by chance. However, not all the friends you think are true friends.

Friends, sincerity and hypocrisy. There are fair-weather friends and friends who understand you.

Friends, some are willing to paint the floor for your liver and brain, and some are willing to throw stones when you are frustrated.

Our understanding of the word "friend" should be changed from a youth queue to a middle-aged queue.

I used to think that brothers and sisters on the wine table are friends, friends are friends, and friends who can travel together are friends.

You don't know until you really meet something. Those friends are not really friends. They are just passers-by on your life journey.

When people reach middle age, don't be too superstitious about friends. You always think that friends will do anything for you, give you everything and help you when you are black and blue. It is not excluded that you have such noble people, but not many. If there is one or two, please cherish your blessing.

More "friends" will show their true colors when you are down and out, distance themselves from you, alienate you and refuse to answer WeChat calls. When you need help, you will distinguish your tone and find various reasons to avoid it.

When people reach middle age, they know more about human nature and have to make a living by themselves instead of relying on friends.

When did you find out that you had your first white hair?

Since when, when you look in the mirror, you can't bear to look at shallow wrinkles?

When did you start, feeling very tired, almost unable to persist, and still telling yourself: I'm fine, ok.

Life is like a reverse journey. We are all dust in the journey of life. Faced with the hardships of life, we sometimes feel particularly powerless, but we can't back down. There is a simple reason. At this age, there are old people in the world and young people in the world, and our shoulders are their support.

I just want to say a few words to all my middle-aged friends. When people reach middle age, they have had pains and joys. Life is full of surprises and all kinds of helplessness. Anyway, please be kind to yourself.

Be kind to your health. Your body is your own, and no one can take care of your illness, so please take good care of your body, don't stay up late, don't overdraw your body, eat well, sleep well and exercise well.

Be kind to your heart. Good mood is created by yourself. Don't make yourself angry and depressed because of some unpleasantness in life. Don't dwell on what you can't get, don't care about what you lose, and don't invite unimportant people into your life.

When people reach middle age, they should lead a sober life and be happy.

Learn to be kind to yourself and time will be kind to you.