Starting today, I also want to live a thriving life.

Two months ago, Bing Xin called and said that her life was particularly unhappy recently.

She is looking for a job because she hasn't worked for nearly three years. She used to run a flower studio two years ago, and the business was not bad. Because it is not big, she has been taking care of it herself.

I have always been particularly envious of girls in flower shops. Shuttling between flowers and plants every day, the sunlight is scattered in the greenhouse through the glass. She sat among the flowers, wrapped in a bunch of lilies, and every corner of the air exuded coolness and sweetness.

Every time I show an envious expression, Bing Xin pushes a glass of ice water in front of me. Come on, wake up.

This is what you want. The reality is that I often stand unkempt on the stand by. In order to tie 99 roses for customers on time, I need to tie them for three or four hours, even wearing gloves, and I am often scarred. I touched her hand, which was a solid touch after experiencing wind and frost. There are several hard calluses between palms and several new wounds between fingers.

It was the first time that I personally realized her difficulties. Yes, it is not easy to do every industry.

After that, Bingxin became pregnant with a baby. With the birth of the child, she has no energy to manage the flower shop. So I put out the flower shop. The start-up time is relatively short, and I don't make much money.

With a baby at home for more than a year, she especially wants to find a job.

Before working as a flower shop, she worked as a real estate planner. At that time, her work encountered a certain bottleneck. Seeing that there are successful friends around me, I especially want to try and do a career I like while I am young.

The reality is not particularly beautiful, so I miss my old job now.

Real estate planning is closely related to the real estate market and new things.

After three years of fault, Bingxin may have to start from scratch again.

So Bing Xin re-studied her major, bought books and plans for marketing planning, and prepared for an interview. After several interviews, she locked in a foreign first-tier housing enterprise A, which is a villa project, and all the conditions are in line with Bing Xin's experience.

Moreover, Bing Xin entered Company A after three rounds of interviews. ..

She began to look forward to a new life, step by step at once, which is also a necessary experience in life. Grow while accumulating.

02、

However, on the first day of work, she found the atmosphere in the office particularly depressing, and looked at several colleagues in the office with panda-like dark circles. Another colleague was hit by a car this morning, not particularly serious. He didn't even care about the hospital, so he came to work quickly.

Bing Xin asked everyone what time they usually get off work, and everyone else was buried in their work. A boy who looks like he just graduated slowly looked up and said with a tired face that it was basically after afternoon 10, and because of the promotion of new products, we have not rested recently.

"Stop" Bing Xin drew a big question mark in his mind? Yes, these colleagues who plan the front line in front of her have been working continuously for two months, leaving work late every night, catching up with the opening or major events, and even staying up all night.

Bing Xin soon experienced this kind of pain. Normally, she gets off work at 5: 30 in the afternoon. Results At 5 o'clock, the leaders organized the meeting, and all the work such as planning, sales, outfield and activities were arranged and reported. After the leaders arranged the deployment, it was past 7 o'clock. However, a pile of work is in front of us, and everyone has started to work overtime.

Because Bing Xin didn't have a job on her first day at work, she could get off work at eight o'clock. The people in the office watched her get off work, one by one showing envious eyes. At that moment, she felt like a prisoner who was about to be put in a cage. Sad mood is like bubbling water.

As a result, this bad mood has been affecting her. When passing the traffic lights, she actually knocked down an electric car that suddenly came from the left.

The electric car fell to the ground with a bang. Bing Xin got a fright. She hurriedly got off the bus and saw an uncle lying on the ground. She quickly helped him up. Although not entirely her responsibility, she sincerely apologized to her uncle at the first time and wanted to take him to the hospital.

Uncle saw that his arm was bruised and there was no injury elsewhere. The two of them negotiated a solution. Bing Xin gave Uncle 200 yuan. Then I left my phone number with my uncle and said that I would call her at any time.

After returning home, Bing Xin was severely criticized by her husband. If she had a car accident, she didn't call the police at the first time. How dangerous it is for her to do so. What if her uncle calls her when he gets back and says she has a concussion or other internal injuries?

In the evening, she thought a lot. If you get off work late at night and drag your tired body back for more than an hour, it's easy to get distracted. Fortunately, uncle was slightly injured this time. What if there is a next time?

She deeply felt that she had been striving for a better life. What a sad thing it would be if she worked day and night and had no time to accompany her parents, hold the children and eat with her family.

The next day, Bing Xin resolutely quit her job.

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So, when she hasn't decided what to do in the future, there is a gap period.

That day, she called me and said that her voice was full of depression and she was confused. At work, I want to start a business. I want to go to work after starting a business. When there is no job, I am particularly worried about derailing myself from this society. After looking for a job in a hurry, I found that there was a big gap with my imagination and I couldn't bear this kind of work pressure. So I feel that I have failed in my life and I don't know what to do next.

In my impression, Bing Xin has always been a strong and sunny girl, self-reliant and self-disciplined. Everyone has a vulnerable side. I understand that during this time, the strings in Bing Xin's heart are too tight. I will quietly be a listener.

I comforted her, it doesn't matter, you can rest for a while and everything can start again.

How can I put it? Recently, I found that more and more friends around me began to feel confused about the future. Because we are not college graduates anymore. You can be happy for a long time when you find a job.

As for work, we think too much about life and drag our heavy shells like snails.

Lin Jing said last month that she wanted to resign. Lin Jing is the manager of corporate propaganda department of a company, with generous treatment, nine to five, weekends, various holidays and generous benefits.

I have always admired her work, because I am in marketing, and I have never had a complete weekend and holiday.

Lin Jing said that there are too few things in the company, and he has to pretend to be very busy every day, and his heart is always inexplicable. And I have been in this company for six years since I graduated, and I have worked in this position for three years. I can't see the hope of rising, watching my friends and colleagues grow rapidly.

The sales colleague joined the company one year later than her and has been promoted from sales consultant to regional director. I stayed where I was for a long time. Now she is parachuted to a boss who always gives her embarrassment from time to time. The key point is that she has encountered a career bottleneck, and the only room for promotion has been squeezed out, and there is no hope. Looks like a dead end.

Lin Jing said, you can either put up with it yourself or resign and leave. However, she is worried that if she looks for a job again, the treatment will not be as good as it is now, and she is also very entangled. ...

Yes, about thirty, at this age, I have a steelyard in my heart to balance the relationship between all parties. We will be more and more worried.

Writer San Mao said that the taste of life, whether Chun Xue or green bean curd, should be tasted by yourself.

04、

Last weekend, Bing Xin sent a message saying that she had found a job again and was close to home. After cycling for more than ten minutes, the working atmosphere is very active. My colleagues are a group of positive and energetic young people who dare to express their ideas and creativity.

You have to study more to keep up with the rhythm. She feels that she has returned to the state when she first started working, and every day is steaming.

Want to focus on doing something, at least worthy of the years! Bing Xin has been updated. Tell me about it. I held a sunflower and gave it to Zhang.

I seem to see her standing among the flowers, her side face and hair tail reflecting the sun, with a shallow light. He bowed his head and tied a bunch of sunflowers.

The flower language of sunflower is, enthusiasm, sunshine. Sunflowers always smile in the sunshine. It symbolizes optimism, courage, self-improvement and prosperity. Although the sun flower occasionally lowers its head when it is tired, it is full of vitality and high spirits at the sight of the sun. For example, Bing Xin.

Yesterday was Lin Jing's first day at work. After she resigned, she began to look for a job. Finally found a favorite unit. Lin Jing said, I want to keep challenging, keep trying and discover my new self.

Life is always like this, we can't satisfy people everywhere, but we still have to steam it.

I have encountered many difficulties recently, and even once questioned my ability and choice. But so what?

Life is always in the process of trial and error. The key is not the result, but the effort at every step.

I like the word steaming very much, which means enthusiasm and endless life. Every day is steaming, not a morning bell day by day.

My understanding of steaming is that no matter what environment you are in, there is always a high determination. It's an aunt who tries to practice dancing again and again in the square, a beautiful woman Lin who tries to change her plan in the office building, Mr. Wang who talks at the business table in Kan Kan, and Ms. Li who concentrates on decorating the exhibition hall ... ...

Steaming is a state, a spirit, and living with your heart. ......

Starting today, I also want to live a thriving life.