My son's testimonial was "plastered all over the wall", but Bao Ma wanted to cry. Netizen: I wouldn't be happy either.

As we all know, awards are a way for schools to motivate their children, and some parents also regard it as an honor and like to post awards on the wall at home. This is not only showing off to others, but also reminding children to study hard.

Ms. Song also posted all the awards her 1-year-old son won, and it was all over the wall. Looking at these awards, netizens thought that this is definitely a schoolmaster, and they were envious at first. It stands to reason that Ms. Song should be happy when she looks at the awards won by a wall child, but she has never been happy, and she can even be said to want to cry.

It turns out that these awards are not issued by the school, but by the cram school where the children are located. Ms. Song signed up many cram schools for her children, and these cram schools will hold activities every three to five times, ostensibly to improve their abilities, but in the end, regardless of whether the children can get a good ranking, they will get a certificate.

This precious mother laughed at herself: "It's just like buying it!" Some netizens have also expressed sympathy when they saw it, and they have ridiculed: "I am not happy for it!"

There are many cram schools, but few are really useful, and there are some cram schools where parents don't need to send their children. When choosing a cram school for your child, you must be careful.

1. False propaganda

There are many types of cram schools in the market, but one type of cram school really relies on false propaganda. These cram schools are all under the same banner. For example, in a few days, school scum can be turned into school tyrants. It is precisely because parents want to be eager for success and hope that their children can quickly become the best students, so they are often cheated by this cram school.

Every child's performance is different at the learning stage. Even if a child can make progress, it should be done step by step, instead of becoming the top grade in a few days. Therefore, once these cram schools use these banners to publicize, they can know that these are false propaganda and have no authenticity. In the end, they not only waste money, but also waste children's time.

2. cram schools that children are not interested in

Many parents never consider their children's feelings when they enroll in cram schools, and they don't care whether their children are interested or not. It is always thought that children can learn as long as they go to cram school, but in fact, children's interest is the key to let them learn.

When children are not interested in cram schools, parents forcibly send their children to cram schools, which will only arouse their disgust and even arouse their weariness of learning. Children not only have no way to learn, but also have conflicts with learning. In the end, parents waste money and children are no longer interested in learning.

An excellent child does not depend on whether they go to cram school or not. Some children here never go to cram school. As long as parents train them, such children can be equally excellent. So how should parents train their children?

1. Improve children's attention

If you want to cultivate children, you should improve children's attention. Some children are always unable to concentrate in their studies and are absent-minded in class. The teacher talks about important knowledge points on the blackboard, and the children's minds are always thinking about TV and games. Even if they enroll in more cram schools, it will be of no help.

If parents want to cultivate such children, they should improve their attention. We can achieve the effect of cultivating children through some small things in life. For example, parents should not interrupt when children concentrate on their work, and parents should not worry when children are doing homework alone, so that children can do it by themselves. In these small things, parents will not interfere with their children's attention.

2. Don't deny children's preferences

Some parents are not optimistic about their children's preferences, and always think that these unnecessary interests will only interfere with their children's learning and even deliberately prevent them from developing their preferences. However, such actions by parents will only lead to their children's failure in learning and their inability to develop their hobbies.

It is not a clear move for parents to follow suit and send their children to cram schools, and not every child is suitable for cram schools. Some children can become excellent people as long as their parents are careful and teach them, so instead of spending a lot of money, it is better to cultivate them by themselves.