Why do people who are always obsessed with injury talk about it?

Some people say that love is actually a game. In the struggle between two people, one party will suffer and get hurt. Although it is not appropriate to compare games with love, we need to admit that in love, our mood will change because of each other's actions, and we will be heartbroken and hurt because of love. So why do some people know that they have been hurt, but they still refuse to give up this love?

Lack of love First of all, in my opinion, such people often lack being loved in their previous lives and relationships, so when they have the experience of being loved, they attach too much importance to this love, feel that this love is indispensable, and regard each other as the only one. So I will look for more in this kind of lack, which makes me unwilling to let go.

Love too much. Sometimes, the degree of love for a person is not determined by us personally, but depends on the way we get along with each other, the way the other person treats us, and our own hearts. Sometimes we love someone too much to know it, so we can't extricate ourselves. After the injury, I still think it's my fault, and pray for the forgiveness of the other party so that the other party will not abandon us.

The way of love is wrong. People with this problem often love in the wrong way. They take love too seriously and feel that since they love it, they should not let it go easily and should not regret this relationship. In fact, this is too one-sided. Although we say that loving a person requires all sincerity, we should also look at the other person's response to us, if the other person can't cherish it. Then after this love hurts us, we should get out in time and protect ourselves, so that we can continue to find the right person and improve our love way.

Therefore, when we are injured, we should think about this relationship in time, and think about whether both of us have paid true feelings in this relationship, whether it is too wishful thinking. And after realizing that this relationship will keep hurting you, you should give up in time and treat the wound.