How can the elderly be respected?

A while ago, it was reported that an old man disliked pregnant women not giving up their seats on the bus, swearing and even hitting pregnant women, and he himself was an old man. This kind of news can be seen everywhere, and there are many in reality. Sometimes when I go shopping, I will always be forced to jump the queue by some elderly people. It's just that we old people can't afford to wait By the way, you old people are not busy at work. Why can't you wait? All the old people with age as their capital will not only be recognized by the society, but even in the family, they will be rejected by their families early, but because they are their own old people, they can only endure it. Therefore, if you want your children to respect you and not be bothered by others, please don't regard age as "capital".

Don't pay it back automatically.

The author knows an old man. Because his son divorced his daughter-in-law, he thought that his daughter-in-law would come back when she was around, so he forcibly snatched it back from her. This support lasted for twenty or thirty years until her granddaughter got married. Wealthy old people ask their granddaughters for this and that all day, and even their granddaughters' salary cards have to be checked several times. I raised you with one mouth, and you have to repay me. Until now, my granddaughter never dared to come to the door again. We can't always accuse our granddaughter of being unfilial. Who can understand the difficulty of getting married and having children? As an old man, children with difficulties will be filial, but taking their own efforts as investment can only keep children away and make people around them look down on them.

Don't "tofu is outside, tiger is at home"

This is the image of some old people in society. When they are outside, they make a weak posture because of their limited ability or other reasons, but when they come home, they face the children and take out a posture of eating tigers. No matter how filial a child is, he just doesn't like it, especially when facing his son-in-law or daughter-in-law. How can such an old man get the respect of his children? Not to mention social acceptance.

Give others understanding.

I met an old man. To tell the truth, I was very moved at that moment. When I took the bus, two old people got on and got off. After a young man gave up his seat, an old man sat down without even saying thank you. Later, the old man who came up got up and offered his seat. As a result, he told people around him that it is not easy for children to work now, and we old people can still exercise after one stop. A word made the whole car praise him. You see, the same old man, what kind of old man will be respected? If you want respect, you must learn to respect others.

Don't be selfish.

Such old people can be seen everywhere in society and family. For example, in the street, some old people swagger on the motorway, ignoring the vehicles behind them and not giving way to them. How can you treat me like an old man? In this case, how should you be respected by others? In the family, some old people will be particularly selfish, thinking that their children can bully them at will and that their children will be filial to their parents. It doesn't mean that they will really respect their parents from the heart, but they are just filial to the older generation. Therefore, as an old man who wants to gain respect, please don't be too selfish, whether at home or in society.

Don't always think about that year.

Children will understand the elderly at this point. After all, I like to recall the past when I am old. In front of your children, you can talk casually about your thoughts on the past, but it doesn't mean that you go wherever you say, especially in society or in some public places, when facing young people who have a generation gap with you, it's best not to mention such words. What modern young people are not sensible, thinking about how we did this in those years? Once you say these words,

Don't take advantage of petty gain.

A few days ago, when I went out, there happened to be a gold and silver jewelry store engaged in activities, giving boxes of toilet paper to people coming and going. The door of the shop is crowded with old people. An old man snatched the toilet paper directly from the little girl who distributed it. Other old people saw this and immediately grabbed it. The little girl begged not to do this, pleading with her grandparents. As a result, these "grandparents" directly pushed the little girl to the ground like thugs and began to cry. Who will respect such an old man?

Old people can also be clean.

There is an old man in the author's hometown, who should be seventy or eighty years old at that time. He is a lonely old man, but both old and young people like to talk to him. You can't see any sloppy old people in him. He will also warn other old people that they will stink when they are old, and they should change their clothes every day, so as not to be sloppy and annoying. Therefore, the elderly should not feel that they don't need to talk about hygiene when they are old, which is not only beneficial to their health, but also attracts resentment from family members and outsiders.

The end of line 09 is correct.

On many streets or subway buses, you will see some misbehaving old people, mainly men. These old people stare at the young girl's body, and even say some nasty things in their mouths. How can such an old man be respected by his family and society? A while ago, there was news that an old man had a heart attack and was taken to the hospital, and AIDS was found out as a result. His son shouted angrily not to save him, because the old man pestered his son for money to buy those sex drugs every day and shuttled to various pornographic places, and his heart attack was also caused by excessive "indulgence" in these pornographic places. Therefore, as an old man, especially in these areas, we must behave correctly, and we must not leave a laughingstock that shames our children, but we must get it ourselves.

It is especially recommended that young people be as tolerant as possible to the elderly. After all, there is a generation gap between the old and the young, but the old should also understand the young and respect the old and love the young.