Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law came out on good terms.

At first glance, some people will say that you are definitely not happy to say this.

In fact, I am very happy and have a good relationship with my mother-in-law. No blushes, no quarrels.

? At the end of 20 17, the crystallization of my love with my husband will be born. I am going to be a mother, although the nature of my job has exposed me to too many mothers and children. But when it was his turn, I was still a little flustered.

I almost became a nobody's land!

? A week before delivery, I was already a little unhappy. I took a leave of absence at home to give birth, and my mother-in-law never came back because both her mother-in-law and her father-in-law were working in Xinjiang. I found myself pregnant after three months of marriage. Because of the need of work in Xinjiang, they resolutely returned to Xinjiang a month later and never came back.

Then I asked if I could take care of myself during pregnancy, but I still hoped that my mother-in-law would come back to help me in the future. After all, this is a great event in a woman's life.

Later, before giving birth, my mother-in-law called and said that I might not come back after giving birth. Invite us to spend New Year's Eve. My husband and I have no choice but to arrange a New Year's Eve dinner, buy all the goods for production and handle everything well. But everyone who has given birth to a child knows that the physical pain and mental fragility brought by pregnancy make me extremely eager to have an experienced old man around. My own mother needs to take care of my brother's little daughter, so she can't spare the time and energy to take care of me. In rural areas and small towns, giving birth to children has always been taken care of by the mother-in-law. After looking for the right moon everywhere, my husband and I were at a loss. My health is getting worse, I can't get out of bed, I feel chest tightness, and I have to take oxygen for two hours every day. My husband has to go to work, and he calls back several times a day, always afraid that something will happen to me at home alone. During that labor period, I couldn't finish the task of cooking independently, because I was swollen all over and couldn't stand for a long time, so I had to order takeout and eat takeout every day. Finally, one day, my physical discomfort made me want to cry, and my heart was sad. I cried and called my husband at work. Sadly, why do people take care of others when they are pregnant and have children, and I can't even eat a hot meal? My husband will come back from work immediately and hold me in bed. At that time, I felt that my husband and wife were really helpless. Even, I don't know what to do ...

? In fact, I knew that my parents-in-law were earning money in other places for our better life, but at that time, I felt that no amount of money could buy back the comfort of having someone around.

I understand all these reasons, but in my heart, I still feel wronged.

? I don't know what my husband told my mother-in-law yet. Three days before giving birth, my mother-in-law came back from other places.

? This is the first time I have lived with my mother-in-law since I got married.

? When her mother-in-law came back, her unhappiness vanished in an instant. Seeing my mother-in-law, I cried and said, Mom, you finally came back. I'm relieved that you're back.

? It was very late that night when my mother-in-law came back. I woke up in a daze and went out of the bedroom door to see my husband standing in her mother-in-law's room, wiping tears. That was the first time I saw my husband cry. At that moment, I felt uncomfortable. My husband is only 26 years old and doesn't understand many things. He was also afraid and uneasy about my birth and didn't know what to do.

My husband and I work in our hometown city because my parents' business is in other places. I haven't seen my mother-in-law several times from marriage to having children. On the eve of delivery, I began to live with my mother-in-law every day. In fact, my mother-in-law doesn't know what my living habits are like, just as I know nothing about her living habits. Everything should be adapted and run-in from the beginning. My husband even told me in advance that if I can't get along with her mother after confinement, then we will let each other go and they will still go. We will hire a nanny for the new moon. I asked his mother's habits and temperament, and he shook his head and said he didn't know. Also, when he was in primary school, his parents went to other places to do business and came back only once during the Spring Festival. It is reasonable that he knows nothing about his mother.

I can only cross the river by feeling the stones. Let's do it step by step.

I know. In those families where the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is incompatible, most of the reasons are that the mother-in-law doesn't like the little wife everywhere, and the wife doesn't like her mother-in-law either. We all want each other to be what we want. Little imagine, everyone is an independent individual. My mother-in-law has lived in her house for decades, and my wife has grown into her twenties under the doting of her parents. Who can change themselves? Suddenly living together under the same roof is just two women in their twenties with different ages adapting to each other and accommodating each other.

With this mentality. My mother-in-law and I are at peace and comfortable. She can do whatever she wants, and I never care about it. So in my eyes, my mother-in-law is a considerate and good mother-in-law. Does she have any shortcomings? In my eyes, she has no shortcomings, no problems, and nothing that makes me unhappy. Because everything she does, in my opinion, is because of her personality. I don't think it's her fault.

I'm a hothead. I must treat everything quickly, accurately and cruelly. Mother-in-law is a slow-witted, so she should take her time in everything. For the simplest example, I can cook a bowl of noodles for 10 minutes at most. Because I have been a nurse for so many years, I have developed the habit of doing everything quickly! My mother-in-law cooks a bowl of noodles, and it takes half an hour for the noodles to come out of the pot. Because her chopped green onion and coriander should be wrapped. Cook fried eggs slowly ... you can imagine me waiting for that bowl of noodles with an empty stomach when I was confined. ...

? Every time I wait for a meal, Miss Wang has seen it many times. I tried to rush my mother several times. I stopped them. I told him: Mom is slow, but delicious. Don't worry. Let mom do it slowly, you can't see what mom will do in the future, and you are not allowed to say it. Let mom be as happy as she wants. Mother loves to do housework, but she doesn't want to do it. Let's not interfere. Otherwise, after a long time, looking at each other will be contradictory. Mr. Wang nodded silently. My husband is very good at this, and I'm afraid I'm not feeling well. I told him that my mother and I lived under the same roof and I wouldn't ask her what to do. My mother is very grateful to help me with my children. It's impossible to play with mom. You can rest assured.

? When I can get out of bed, when I am hungry, I will go under the kitchen by myself and get it done in ten minutes. Often when my mother-in-law is going to the kitchen to help me cook, I have finished eating the soup. My mother-in-law looked at me in surprise and couldn't speak. I also looked at her smirking. God, it's hard to be confused.

? This is just a little thing in our life. Is my mother-in-law really perfect? When I was drinking full moon wine, my friends came to my house one after another and sat and chatted. One of my girlfriends can't help complaining that your mother-in-law is not a tacky person either. She didn't even say hello when we arrived, or you got out of bed and brought us a fruit bowl. Yun Yun, say you're not angry. If I were my mother-in-law, I would say her!

I smiled and said, I am not angry. Let my mother-in-law do whatever she wants, and I won't try my best to change her. You stopped calling when my friend asked me, mom? Quarrel? I said, "Why do you want to fight? We have no blushes and no disputes. " My friend was surprised. She said, look at what your family has become since your mother-in-law came. Diapers and pads are scattered all over the floor, so there is no wasted space. The warm room here smells like urine! I said, don't you bring diapers to the children? I said a lot. I just laughed. Again. She can do whatever she wants. I don't care. She thinks it's not good for children to wear diapers, so don't bring them. She said that floor heating diapers dry quickly and need to be baked! What does it matter? People have a way to take care of their children, better than me! I only care about my own business. Stewed, both sides are unhappy. My friends opened their mouths wide and looked at me like aliens. One of the old classmates, who just got married, repeatedly said, ouch, ouch, that's a long experience. Sure enough, your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well. I also want to learn from you!

Now my son is almost one year old. We still live in peace in rare chaos. My son is also healthy under the care of his grandmother. Although not as fashionable as other children? Will there be more? (recite Tang poetry? Sing children's songs? ) But I am content, because my children are healthy and cheerful, and I have a good time with my grandmother in the country! I am very satisfied!