What kind of life experience is it to marry a black man? Is it difficult to grow up and be happy in different cultural backgrounds?

It's really difficult, because different cultures, customs and habits are different, even the language is not very consistent, and even your relatives and friends can't accept the fact that you married a black man. How can such a marriage last? Personally, I think the biggest problem is that people around me will talk about it, which is a very sad hurdle for couples. Even if you love each other very much, this love can't last long. In the long-term discussion, you will have many contradictions and doubt your love. Cross-border love is ok, but it will be difficult and rare to stick to it. In particular, some black people specially package themselves as foreign rich second generation to cheat domestic girls. Those girls are pregnant and have children, and some of them are directly cheated abroad, but they live a hard life but can't go home. This is the worst.

0 1. Cultural differences are difficult to integrate. In fact, don't say that there are great cultural differences between countries. Even there are occasional cultural differences between provinces, cities and villages. People in some places are still very feudal. It's hard to accept a foreigner, especially the older generation. Culture not only means that there are great obstacles in language communication, but also the three views and concepts will be very different. For example, foreigners only raise their children to 18 years old. They advocate freedom, while we pursue stability, which is very different. Starting a family is not just for love. Love is the foundation. On this basis, you need many matching places to make your marriage more suitable. Only the right people can go on for a long time

02. Different living habits will lead to great contradictions. Moreover, there will definitely be great differences in life. According to my inaccurate and general understanding, black people often don't take a bath, which is very unhealthy in China. They eat casually and dirty, unlike us, they pay more attention to table manners, as well as dressing and dressing, and the small details of life. It takes time to really get together. What should I do if I can't run in during this period? How to deal with it? What about living abroad? You said not to call every day, and you can't just go back to China. Have you considered the consequences of such a thing? You can't divorce if you get married, and you can't solve the problem like this if you have children. Either you endure it or he is willing to change it for you. We can still get along if we can.

03. The disapproval of relatives and friends can't support you for a long time. I have always thought that the newly formed young couple need the support of both parents and relatives and friends around them, and this marriage is considered to have a foundation. At least people around you know and recognize this relationship, and you will have confidence. I believe that most parents don't want their daughters to marry far away, or to marry far away in a foreign country. What's more, black people feel poor from the beginning, and it is hard for parents to accept that their daughters who have worked so hard to raise want to go abroad. Even some parents are strongly opposed to this marriage. If they insist on getting married, they will get the support and indifference of their parents. How can such feelings be said to be happiness?

But how to say, happiness and misfortune depend on how you two want to change this situation, whether you have confidence or not. As long as two people have love and tide over the difficulties together, happiness must be waiting for you not far away.