What's it like to see your ex-wife after years of divorce?

Marriage is the longest relationship that accompanies us all our lives. But in marriage, it is often difficult to find each other's beauty, because they are the closest and most familiar with each other. Maybe it's because they have high expectations or are too close. Once you like each other, you become bored with each other. In the marriage, we were all hurt, and finally the marriage broke down and we embarked on the road of divorce. After the divorce, they became the most familiar strangers, not so many.

The earth is a circle, even if you are divorced, you will still meet. Will you keep your distance from your ex-wife after divorce, or will you die of old age? Will you be honest with your original mistakes and forget all the unhappiness? What's it like to see your ex-wife after years of divorce? Listen to these big truths.

1, Mr. Zhang is 38 years old

My ex-wife and I are so alike in character that we are both competitive. Every time we quarrel, we don't bow our heads first, which hurts our feelings. After a long time, there will always be quarrels over a small matter, and the consequence is the cold war. If the time is short, it will be three days. If the time is long, it will only be half a month. Children will become the "megaphone" for communication between us.

It was in a quarrel that my ex-wife filed for divorce, and in previous quarrels, her ex-wife also filed for divorce, but in the end, she just said it. I didn't expect my ex-wife to be serious this time. The man's self-esteem was at work and he didn't keep his ex-wife. After three years of divorce, we met our ex-wife again and said hello to each other. Although when I divorced, I thought about not dating again, but I really met her, and I was inevitably sorry, because at the moment.

Mr Li is 30 years old.

After seven years of marriage with my ex-wife, we still haven't survived the "seven-year itch". When I was with my ex-wife, I didn't like her as a yellow-faced woman. I thought she was old-fashioned and had no emotional appeal, and her married life was unremarkable. In marriage, I chose to cheat and find a beautiful young lover. My ex-wife is an outspoken person, and there is no room for more than a grain of sand in her eyes. She insisted on divorcing me.

Only after the divorce did I know that my ex-wife was a gentle and kind woman. She keeps the house clean and tidy and cooks delicious food every day. Originally, the dull happiness of life was the most real, but I didn't understand it at that time. I saw my ex-wife again some time ago and looked at the smile on her face. I really regret it, but it's no use regretting it again. She remarried.

Mr. Wang is 28 years old this year.

I have been married to my ex-wife for three years and have no children. The reason for the divorce is that our feelings are not harmonious. My ex-wife initiated the divorce. Although divorced now, I still keep in touch frequently. When we are together, we quarrel every day. Now that we are separated, we know how to respect each other, but neither of us wants to remarry. In life, if she needs any help, I will also help her. After all, we are husband and wife and still have feelings. Now I have remarried. I didn't keep in touch with my ex-wife for the sake of my current wife. When we meet again, we will only nod to each other, even if we say hello.

Conclusion: No matter how many reasons a marriage breaks up, it is still regrettable. No matter how many festivals there are before, after the experience, we need to work hard to get out of the memories of the past instead of indulging in the pain of the past all day.