What does it mean for a scholar to say "Three Obediences and Four Virtues" to a fairy in the TV series of "Happy Seven Fairys" (that is, I obey what the lady says)?

I only know Hu Shi's "Three Obediences and Four Virtues", that is, "My wife should follow when she goes out, obey her orders, and blindly follow her mistakes"; "Four virtues (virtues)" means

"My wife has to wait for makeup, remember her birthday, endure her beatings and abuse, and be willing to spend money"

I will never forget it every day. . . HOHO