"Daughter-in-law, 20,000 bride price money should be brought back." What does "I am embarrassed to ask" warn us?

There is no doubt that marriage requires bride price and dowry. There is no doubt that once the bride price and dowry are given to the other party, the one who gave them has no right to deal with it again.

There is no reason to take back what you have given. Some women choose to leave the bride price at their parents' home after marriage because they are afraid that their mother-in-law will miss these things again.

And some women will take them back to their in-laws and give them a sense of security. In either case, the mother-in-law has no right to speak. But Meng Zhen's mother-in-law is eyeing her bride price.

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Meng Zhen just married Han Xu a few days ago, and before her honeymoon, her mother-in-law came to tell her about the bride price. She was still sleeping that day and heard her mother-in-law calling outside.

My mother-in-law is a straightforward person. She pointed it out as soon as she came in. Today, I want to talk about bride price. The mother-in-law asked Meng Zhen, "Daughter-in-law, what did you do with the bride price?"

Meng Zhen: "Put it at my mother's. My mother will keep it for me and take it when necessary. "

Mother-in-law said, "Daughter-in-law, I want to bring back 20,000 bride price money. You have a younger brother at home. Don't come back with this money. Your parents will give it to your brother sooner or later. You are a girl. You’d better wise up. Since you are married to our family, you must think about the future and distinguish between family members and outsiders. "

Meng Zhen: "Mother-in-law, our bride price started at 60,000, and you gave it to 20,000. Sorry to ask. You want to get it yourself. Besides, my parents may give us a dowry. Do you think I should return it or keep it? "

Mother-in-law: "Of course, you keep the dowry given by your parents. You should always remember that you have a younger brother at home. You have to fight for more property, otherwise it will be left to your brother. "

Meng Zhen went on to say, "Mom, I know you are thinking of me, and I know you are thinking of Han Xu. But I have put the money in my mother's place. I don't need it now. Han Xu and I made enough money. Why do you need it? Just married, I still don't know how to be a daughter-in-law. I don't know what to say. Shall I ask Han Xu to discuss it with you? As long as he says he wants money, then I will go back. "

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When the mother-in-law saw her daughter-in-law say that she would let her son make up his mind, she felt that her son would definitely listen to her. She said to Meng Zhen, OK, I'll cook first. Before Han Xu came back that day, Meng Zhen told him in detail about her mother-in-law's coming home, so that he could think it over in advance.

Han Xu was embarrassed when he found out. He never thought that his mother would do such a thing. When he got home that day, he said to his mother, "Mom, I know you are doing us good, but since the bride price has been given, there is no need to worry about it." Besides, my parents-in-law said they would give us a car as a dowry in a few days. This car is much more expensive than 20 thousand yuan. "

Mother-in-law was overjoyed to hear that her in-laws were going to deliver the car, but she still said, "This dream really has a younger brother at home. Now give you a car and you will be satisfied. In the future, the old couple's money will go to your brother-in-law, so you need several cars. You are a loser. Mom won something for you, but you still dislike her. "

Han Xu was in a dilemma and didn't know what to do. He said to his mother, "Can I discuss it with Zhen Zhen again?"

Han Xu felt that his mother was really good to him, but Meng Zhen had just married himself for a few days, so he had to face this. He is afraid that Meng Zhen will be wronged. But his mother did, and his wife did. He really doesn't know what to do.

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That night, Han Xu said to Meng Zhen, "Wife, how about this? I withdrew 20,000 yuan from our savings and said you got it back. So you don't have to go to your mother-in-law and I can give my mother a job. "

Dream really see Han Xu this processing method, feel married to the wrong person. This is obviously because the mother-in-law is wrong. What do you mean? She has a younger brother, and her parents will be partial to her younger brother.

Their family has been growing for so many years, and their parents have never been partial. And it has been agreed to give a dowry or a car in a few days. What is the mother-in-law dissatisfied with?

If it's mainly her this time, life will be hard. So she decided to make it clear to her mother-in-law, that even if the days could not go on, she could not let herself be wronged.

Meng Zhen called her mother-in-law and said, "Mom, you have heard that my parents are going to marry a car. Now you have to force me to ask for this 20 thousand yuan, so I won't marry the car. It happened that my parents bought a new car. Anyway, our family will not suffer. Isn't it twenty thousand dollars? Do you think I want this car or 20 thousand yuan? In other words, you can get it from my parents yourself. Anyway, I am embarrassed to go. "

The sudden toughness of the daughter-in-law was unexpected by her mother-in-law. She said, "Forget it, whatever." In fact, the mother-in-law is still not satisfied, but the daughter-in-law is not at all and can't say much.

Since the bride price has been given to the daughter-in-law's family, it is the daughter-in-law's family's money, and there is absolutely no reason to get it back.

Mother-in-law Meng Zhen shouldn't still think about the bride price, even for her son, she should be measured and don't stretch her hand so long.

If her mother-in-law hadn't asked for the money back, Meng Zhen wouldn't be so rude. For the sake of children's happiness, mother-in-law had better mind her own business.