What you see is only the surface.

Every day after work, I will meet a girl of about 30 years old in the park, take two buses like me and get off at the same stop. But because I am a person who can't talk, I can't say hello to strangers when I take the bus, and I haven't talked to her. I really envy her for a long time, because her commute time is extremely free.

The day before yesterday, I got off at the same station. Seeing that I was walking in the same direction as her, she took the initiative to ask me if I lived nearby and said how close I was to my family, which I hadn't noticed before. I said, "Your company is good. Nine to four, and weekends. " She smiled helplessly and said, "The company is going to close down, and only a few people are dealing with the follow-up affairs. Otherwise, there will be no profitable company with such idle working hours. " Speaking of which, I'm also worried about my future work.

Sometimes we always see the comfortable and glamorous side of others, but we don't know that what you admire is only superficial beauty. Others may be worried about it. Just like that girl, the seemingly comfortable job may have been in arrears for several months, and the unit will soon face bankruptcy liquidation, and the next moment will be busy looking for another job.

There are also those who seem to be quiet and have petty bourgeoisie feelings. You envy others for being chic and comfortable. Maybe others also envy the fireworks on your stove. One of my former colleagues ate with friends in a fashionable restaurant every day. I said that's very kind of you. There is no need to buy food and cook around the kitchen after work. But, she said, she envied me that my family of three could be together every day. Her husband works in other places, so he may not come home once a month. Children go to school and live on campus. She comes home from work alone every day. She is not in the mood to prepare dinner, so she regularly invites some friends out to eat. Only in this way can she be less lonely.

People show only their own beautiful side in the circle of friends. You can't see other people's pain. Many times, we only see the surface of things. The good or bad of other people's work and life is not something we can simply understand from the surface. Just like ourselves, each stage has different troubles, and we won't tell others about them. Instead of enviing others, it is better to be yourself, solve any troubles, and fight for any shortcomings!

Actually, it's none of your business whether others live well or not, right?