Tik Tok woman's helplessness.

1. Desire is like sand in your hand. The tighter you hold on, the more you lose. Learn to let go and give up, and you can really get it. Gains and losses, but relatively speaking, when you think you have it, you may be losing it; When you feel lost, you may get it.

Second, the most decadent thing is often not the bumpy future, but the loss of your self-confidence; The most painful thing is often not the misfortune of life, but the disillusionment of one's own hopes; The most desperate thing is often not the blow of setbacks, but the death of one's own heart; Look down on everything, relax, and everything will get better gradually.

Life is like a glass of boiled water. You drink it every day. Don't envy other people's drinks of all colors. In fact, you may not have boiled water to quench your thirst. Life does not depend on your mood, but on your state of mind. Adjust the mentality and look at life. There is sunshine everywhere.

Fourth, since it is time, it is bound to be cold and summer; Since it is life, it is inevitable to love and hate; Since it is life, it is inevitable that there will be ups and downs. The length of life is no longer than that of spring, summer, autumn and winter; The width of life, but east, west, north and south; Life is impermanent, nothing more than joys and sorrows.

5. Life is like this. Only by enduring loneliness can you remain prosperous. Don't choose comfort at the age of struggle. After a period of time when you can move, you will meet your best self. Be practical and you will get back all the years you want.

6. The best thing in life is to understand while walking. If you can't squeeze into this world, don't squeeze hard. It's hard to humiliate yourself for others. If you can't do it, don't try. Another way of thinking may get twice the result with half the effort. Don't take what you can't get, even if you get it temporarily, you will lose it!

Seven, no one cares how you cry in the middle of the night, and no one cares how you toss and turn in the autumn. Outsiders only look at the results and support the process themselves. When you understand this truth, you won't be melodramatic in front of people, and you won't talk about it everywhere for relief.

Eight, don't care what others think of you, talk about you behind your back, because these words can't change the facts, but may disturb your heart. I'm out of my mind. Everything is out of my mind. People who know you don't need to explain; People who don't understand you are not worth explaining. Please believe that people who really understand you will never deny you because you have something and you have nothing.

When you cling to something, you can only have it. If you are willing to let go, you will have a chance to choose something else. If a person insists on his own ideas in his heart and refuses to let go, then his wisdom can only reach a certain level.

10. live gracefully: maybe your life is not rich; Maybe your work is not good enough; Maybe you are in trouble; Maybe you were abandoned by love. Whatever the reason, when you go out, please make yourself clear, hold your head high, stand up, smile and face life calmly. As long as you really prop yourself up, others can't crush you anyway, and inner strength is the real strength.

Eleven, three things in life: holding your breath is the embodiment of wisdom, the precipitation of reason, and the symbol of maturity. Bending down is low-key, humble, tolerant and flexible. Hold your head high and keep an optimistic and enterprising attitude regardless of adversity and prosperity.

Twelve, falling in love with someone is not terrible, just afraid that it will get out of hand; Breaking up is not terrible, but I am afraid I can't let go; Loneliness is not terrible, but it will always be lonely; Being sick is not terrible, but I am afraid that I can't afford to get sick; Unemployment is not terrible, I am afraid that I will never find a job; No money is not terrible. I'm afraid I'll have to wait for someone to help me. Losing is not terrible, what is terrible is a crushing defeat; It's not terrible to be wrong. What's terrible is to be afraid of making mistakes again.

Thirteen, life is only three days, stupid people live in yesterday, extravagant people live in tomorrow, and only sober people live in today. Yesterday passed. It's an overdue check. It hasn't arrived tomorrow. It is an irrevocable check, and it is the most realistic to live today.

Fourteen, it is better to be yourself than to envy others. Shallow envy, boring comparison and clumsy imitation will only make you live in the shadow of others all day. Blind comparison will not bring happiness, but will only bring trouble; It will not bring happiness, but only pain. Each of us should recognize ourselves at present, find our own position and go our own way. The harder we work, the luckier we will be!

Fifteen, there are two major misunderstandings in life: one is to show people life, and the other is to look at other people's lives. As long as you feel happy, you don't have to prove anything to others. Don't be too busy watching others go the wrong way.

Sixteen, everything in life, can't have, can only experience. We are just passers-by of time, and one day, we will say goodbye to everything. Those who know this well will understand that there is no loss, just passing by; It doesn't matter what you get, it's just an experience. After that, no matter how beautiful, it can only be memories; Cherish what you get, and say goodbye calmly when you lose it.

Look at the world with a pure heart and live with a happy heart. No matter how beautiful the garden is, there are unclean things; No matter how happy a life is, there are unpleasant things. There are always advantages and disadvantages in this world. Where your attention is, your heart is there. Look at the world with a pure heart, and the noise of the world of mortals will not shake your heart; Live happily, and the disappointments in life will not affect your mood. Heaven and hell, just between a thought.

Eighteen, a thing, if you want it too much, you will see it very big, even big enough to become the whole world, occupying all your thoughts. My suggestion is that whether you get what you want or not, you should jump out of it in time and really see its real position in the whole world, that is, its insignificance in infinite time and space. If you get it, you won't get carried away, and if you don't get it, you won't suffer. -Zhou

Nineteen, learn to keep a low profile, there will be gains and losses between choices. The meaning of life lies not in how many rugged roads we have taken, but in how many philosophies we have learned from them. It is human nature to pursue pleasure, but it is also inevitable to experience suffering. People can't be strong, mature and refined without suffering, and reach the advanced realm of life.

Twenty, 15 years old, found it difficult to swim, so he gave up swimming. 18 years old, when someone you like asks you to swim, you have to say "I can't". 18 years old, found English difficult and gave up English. At the age of 28, I have a great job and need English, so you have to say "I can't". The more troublesome my early life is, the lazier I am to study, and the easier it is to miss the people and things I am interested in and the new scenery later.

Twenty-one, when the temper comes, Fu will go! People's elegance lies in controlling their emotions, and hurting people with their mouths is the stupidest behavior. A person who can control bad emotions is better than a person who can win an ideal city. The depth of the water slows down the flow, and the late words are expensive. It took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us decades to learn to shut up. Speaking is a kind of ability; Not saying is a kind of wisdom.