Why can't I sleep with my husband when I go back to my mother's house?

1. Married daughters are not spilled water.

In fact, in the eyes of the older generation, especially in the era of son preference, those "married daughters are all spilled water" are not like that now. In people's minds, the palms of the hands are all meat, and now mothers love their daughters more than their sons.

Therefore, most mothers feel a little uncomfortable when they see their daughters going home to sleep with their son-in-law at night, and feel that their daughters have been "bullied", so in order not to make their parents sad, they have made a custom.

Step 2 avoid family embarrassment

Although people today are much more open-minded than the older generation, things between men and women are more or less scrupulous.

Some couples want to sleep together after returning to their parents' home, but they don't know where to start, and they have to worry about their parents' thoughts. Therefore, in order to avoid family embarrassment, the mother-in-law will prepare a separate room for her son-in-law when he returns to her husband's house.