Talk about "Left-behind Children"

My first contact with left-behind children was when I was a teacher after graduating from college. 20/kloc-in September of 0/4, I followed my husband to his work place, a remote mountain area in the south. Then I stayed in a boarding private school and became a junior high school math teacher.

That was the first time I met them. When I approached the classroom, all my classmates were very happy. They all muttered, "Wow, there's a new teacher, and it's still a female teacher who teaches us math. The key is the young teacher. "

I was a little embarrassed to see all my classmates looking at me in unison. I could see that they were curious about the new teacher, so I introduced myself according to their meaning. Then, I will let each of their classmates go to the podium to make a simple introduction, so that I can have a good understanding and understanding. As a result, their reaction was beyond my expectation.

They all whispered under the platform, "We have studied together for many years, so we don't need to introduce ourselves."

Sure enough, no one dared to speak, and no one dared to make a complete and smooth introduction in front of the most familiar classmates.

So, I can only do something. I said, "Although all your classmates know you, the teacher doesn't know you yet. Don't you want me to know you? "

The following students said quietly, "Yes, sir."

However, they just whispered there, but they never dared to act or face their inner fears. Perhaps, they all want to stand up and express themselves in their hearts, but the devil inside has been at work. They tried to break through, but couldn't take the first step.

That teacher can only be a pusher, otherwise, you won't keep going. So, I took out the monitor and let her speak first. It wasn't loud enough at first, but at least it was complete. Then, one, two, three ... After the whole class, all the students introduced themselves.

They finally took the first step. Although this step is difficult for them and the quality of completion is not particularly high, they realize that they can overcome their fears. With this attempt, I believe they will have greater changes.

After this class, I realized that many of their comprehensive qualities have not been valued and cultivated, nor have they been tapped. Therefore, being their teacher has a great responsibility and a glorious mission. They are also the flowers of the future motherland and deserve the same education as the children in the city.

Later, I saw their final grades last semester. To be honest, it scares me a little.

Polarization is particularly serious. There are almost no top students and few foundations. Most students have only a dozen points in mathematics.

When I saw this report card, I felt incredible and thought, "What have they been doing all semester? Why don't students study hard? Don't they care about grades? Don't their parents care Didn't the previous teacher teach them? Is the school deaf? "

There are too many questions in my heart that need to be answered urgently. Later, I went to the headmaster to find out about the students. The headmaster said this: "Our school is a private school, so the source of students is particularly important. Students with better grades have been recruited into good schools in the county, and we have no choice but to recruit students from various remote places, especially rural areas. These children, to be honest, are particularly pitiful. "

I said, "Isn't this not allowed now?"

The principal said: "The top students in the county are concentrated in two public schools, and the other private school is an aristocratic school. Only by passing the entrance examination can you enter, and the cost of a semester is more than 7000 yuan. Then the rest can only come to our school. "

I also feel particularly helpless after listening to it.

Then, the principal added, "These children are particularly pitiful. Their parents went to work in big cities when they were very young, and only came back once a year, so they didn't have time to take care of and educate them. All of them were brought by grandparents at home, and some of them stayed with relatives. Therefore, our school can only find ways to make them eat and live well at school and let them stop worrying about their lives. Their learning foundation is not good and solid, and our school will try to teach them well. "

I felt very uncomfortable when I heard the headmaster's words. I always feel that I can't get out in one breath. I want to change this environment, but I feel my strength is too thin. I want their parents to spend more time with them. After all, parents are children's first teachers, but I know it's difficult. Life is hard and the reality is cruel. Why don't their parents want to be with their children?

As a teacher, I should try my best to teach them not only math knowledge, but also many other knowledge and principles of being a man. We should try our best to help them realize their dreams and regain their hope for life. Although I am just a passer-by in their life journey, I hope I can leave them many wonderful memories. In their memories of middle school, I remember that a teacher once helped them.

Today, I have been in this private school for four years. In these four years, I sent off three graduates, and they all made great progress. Many students entered the ideal No.1 and No.2 middle schools, continued their high school studies, and rushed to their college dreams. Some people enter vocational high schools to learn a technology as a means of earning a living in the future, and no students choose to drop out of school. I am very happy.

In these four years, I approached them, got to know them, tried to get along with them, tried to understand them, tried to make friends with them and help them.

They are left-behind children. Because parents are not at home, they follow grandparents for a long time, and grandparents also love their children very much. At the same time, many things can't be solved in time. So they are withdrawn and timid.

In order to make them no longer lonely, after class, I asked them to call me "Sister" and ask them for help if they need anything. I often chat with them when I check the bed at night and say something that makes them laugh, because I like them laughing. After laughing, they can have a sweet dream and have a good sleep.

They are left-behind children with a heavy sense of inferiority. Other children have parents to send them to and from school, but they don't; On weekends, other children can go shopping and visit the park with their parents, but they can't; When the body is uncomfortable, other children's parents will ask about the temperature before going to bed, but they won't ... because they can't get the love of their parents for a long time, children will feel inferior over time.

In order to make them not feel inferior, the school only has a holiday in the first half of the month, and every holiday has a school bus to take them home safely; Every time they go out to buy clothes, I take them out by bike and choose their favorite clothes; Every time they get sick, I personally take them to the hospital for injections to buy medicine; Girls, in particular, sometimes have their period and suffer from severe pain in the middle of the night. I will ask my husband to drive me to school and send the girls to the hospital for examination. Everything is to make them realize that teachers love them and that they are children loved by others.

They are left-behind children. They are stubborn. Student Xiao Li's parents have been working outside for a long time. Due to the long-term lack of communication, I have entered a rebellious period with junior high school students. So Xiao Li's parents can't control him at all, and the children don't listen to their parents. Every time my hometown calls me, I often say, "My children don't know what's wrong. They were very obedient when they were young. Now they don't know anything. We can't control them at all, but he listens to the teacher, so please take care of our children for me. " But, parents, why don't children want to listen to you? Because he thinks you don't accompany him, love him or understand him. I know you have your helplessness, but I sincerely hope that you can spend more time communicating with them and care more about their lives, their hobbies and their studies. Pay more attention and less estrangement. Although our teachers will love them, no one can replace their parents.

They are left-behind children, don't like to go home, spend a lot of money and don't know what to save. What parents in the world don't love their children, because they can't be with their children and feel sorry for them, so they leave more money to their children. This is the psychology of many parents. Xiao He's parents work in other places, and he goes to school alone with his grandparents. Parents have been away from home for many years, and occasionally take a few dollars away from home, so they have no time to ask about his life and study. With money, I will be generous. Invite this classmate to dinner today, and invite that classmate to dinner tomorrow. Grandparents also think that money is given by parents, and he can spend it as he wants. Over time, I have developed the bad habit of spending money indiscriminately, and even made friends with a group of young people in the society, and I have no intention to study. The grades are getting worse and worse, the class is listless, and the study is almost abandoned.

In order to save them money, our head teacher will ask the students to give the money to the teacher when they return to school, let them keep it first, and then go to the teacher to get it when they want to spend it. If one day a student spends a lot of money at a time, the teacher will ask him what he is doing with so much money, and then decide how much to give. I'm afraid that they will make friends with social youth, so the school implements closed management and must take a leave of absence when leaving the school. Therefore, the class teacher must be clear about the students' intentions, and then decide whether to leave a note.

The above is the story of me and my students (a group of left-behind children).

In order to give them better education and more love, our teacher thought a lot and did a lot, but we did not do enough. Relying on the strength of our teacher is too thin. I sincerely hope that the whole society will join us and contribute to saving the left-behind children!

As a teacher in a remote area, I have been working hard!