This article is for you who are introverted and unsociable.

"When people reach a certain age, they will recycle. Finally, they got three or two confidants and a cup of light tea ... let them live their own lives. "

In this noisy world, we all need a space where we can be alone, a space where we can put our souls and enjoy an ordinary and comfortable life leisurely.

Introverts tend to become quiet. Most of these people are calm, don't like publicity, and don't like to find fault, because they know that silence is golden.

A person who can really achieve great things is often maverick, and they will not change themselves to adapt to others. Most of them are withdrawn and seldom care about the views of the outside world. They are introverted not because of inferiority, but because they see the essence of interpersonal communication-equivalent exchange.

They choose to be unsociable because they know that low-quality social interaction is meaningless. Stop this useless social interaction, but you can let yourself grow.

Solitude is a deeper level of self-growth. This article is written for you who are introverted, like being alone and unsociable.

"Being unsociable is superficial loneliness, and being gregarious is inner loneliness."

It is said that "the more people grow up, the more lonely they become." Although they are lonely, they are lonely, but their hearts will be very full, not lonely, not lonely. A loner doesn't mean that he is unpopular. On the contrary, his lack of communication just proves that he is clear-headed and has independent personality perseverance.

People who live in luxury often enjoy loneliness. Some people try their best to blend in, but when they do, they find themselves unhappy.

Another feature of unsociable people is that they are introverted, do not like to talk, do not like to join in the fun, and do not like noisy environments. They will choose carefully in making friends, and will not please others for the sake of getting to know each other.

The reason why people can be independent of heaven and earth comes from everyone's uniqueness, not following the crowd and sticking to themselves.

People should always listen to their inner voice, and never go with the flow and pursue those illusory things. You don't have to invite too many people into your life, otherwise your life will be disturbed and crowded.

Really mature people don't seek to get along with others, and they won't let low-quality social interaction reduce their high-quality life. Many people really just look lonely. In fact, people don't feel lonely at all, but enjoy being alone.

Lonely people can be alone, often because solitude is a pleasure and enjoyment for them, not pain and torture.

In fact, in real life, each of us should learn to give ourselves some time alone. When you can face up to your inner undercurrent and see your life direction clearly in loneliness, life will be smoother and smoother.

The standard of happiness should be based on your own hobbies, and you can't compromise yourself in order to cater to others.

In life, some people are afraid that they are different from others, so they are extremely eager to identify with others. As everyone knows, this is a manifestation of our inferiority complex.

Therefore, in order to avoid inferiority, please learn to get along with yourself and find your inner strength from now on.

Learn not to be sociable, you will find your inner dreams and pursuits, and it is also the beginning to keep your personality and be yourself.

When you reach middle age, you should listen to your inner voice, never go with the flow, pursue those illusory things, and don't get along with others just to fit in.

Being born as a human being, the most important thing is the independence of thought and personality. For those who can't get into the circle, there is no need to squeeze in.