How to deal with a cold and violent man, two tricks to teach you to deal with your boyfriend's cold and violent.

I always think that the number one killer who destroys feelings is not quarrel but cold violence, and the cold violence between lovers is enough to douse everyone's enthusiasm before.

A girl has a problem with her boyfriend. He doesn't reason with you or quarrel with you. He ignores you at all, and you can't find a chance to solve the problem by speaking out. Unfortunately, you are experiencing cold violence.

When some men encounter problems, the most common sentence is: I want to be quiet. Say nothing and suddenly disappear into your life. When you ask him: What's wrong with you? He usually just says: nothing.

Girls will feel wronged at this time, and I am also very angry. Don't try to fool me. The feeling of being wronged will be more: there is something between us, and you are obviously wrong, but you don't want to say anything. I really want to talk to you and solve our problems, but you don't give me a chance.

The feelings of two people disappear in the process that one person says nothing and one person can't say what he wants to say. If you meet a boyfriend who likes cold violence, how should you resolve it?

First, performance is not important. A boyfriend who turned a blind eye to his cold violence used to be the executor of cold violence. Every time two people have problems, he will faint with cold. Every time two people have a conflict, her boyfriend will say: I don't want to quarrel with you. Then people disappeared, sending messages and not answering phones.

I remember a few times before, Kiki was angry at first, and when her boyfriend came to coax her, she found that her boyfriend ignored her at all. At this time, Qiqi panicked and asked me more than once: He is like this, should we break up? So I took the initiative to contact each other piteously, while putting up with each other's cold attitude and encouraging myself, and slowly it will be fine.

Is this situation better? Not exactly. Qiqi's boyfriend has formed a habit. No matter what kind of problems appear, Qiqi will digest them by himself, and there is no need to coax them at all. To put it bluntly, he felt that he had eaten Kiki to death and had nothing to hide.

Qiqi is more and more disappointed with this man in the state of taking the initiative to sum up again and again, and slowly she will not take it to heart. Since you ignore me, I will do my own thing. I will ask my friends when I should, and I will go out to play when I should. My life is wonderful.

Qiqi said that apart from having a nominal boyfriend, his life has no influence. If he wants to break up, it doesn't matter and it won't affect my life.

At this time, it was Qiqi's boyfriend's turn to panic and took the initiative to chat with Qiqi, admitting that his cold violence had seriously affected the feelings of the two people, and it would definitely not be like this in the future. Now Kiki can solve problems with her boyfriend normally, get along more and more harmoniously and get along better and better.

When a man is cold and violent to you, the best way is to turn a blind eye. Once a man feels that he can completely control you, he will no longer seriously understand your feelings. So no matter how depressed and sad you are, you should act indifferent.

Second, if he wants to be quiet, let him be quiet. Among the women I know, Yang Yang is a very capable girl. She is efficient in her work, and she is neither supercilious nor condescending when talking with her partners. I always think that she is a fearless girl, and she must have the upper hand emotionally to make her boyfriend obey.

But after talking to her, I realized that the reason why Yang Yang broke up with her first boyfriend was cold violence. That's Yang Yang's first boyfriend. Yang Yang really spent 120 points on loving each other, fearing that she had any shortcomings, and tried to be a perfect girlfriend.

Maybe you love each other too hard, care too much about each other, and the ending is not good. Every time something goes wrong, Yang Yang's boyfriend will say, I want to be quiet. Yang Yang is worried that he will leave. He is always talking and begging for forgiveness, lowering himself to the dust again and again. Until a cold violence, Yang Yang humility is useless, the other party refused to make up. Later, Yang Yang learned that the other party had cheated him.

After a long period of recovery, Yang Yang slowly walked out of this failed relationship. As a result, the next person I met was still the mantra: I want to be quiet. This time, Yang Yang didn't give in as before. Since you want to be quiet, I'll let you be quiet.

After a period of cold war, my boyfriend came to Yang Yang to make peace. He didn't want to be quiet anymore, because he knew that if there was any more cold violence, he would probably lose this relationship. Now that the two are getting married soon, Yang Yang is waiting for the bride with joy.

If a man really loves you, he will not keep you away from cold violence for a long time. He will try to run a healthy relationship by changing his inappropriate behavior. If your boyfriend says "I want to be quiet", don't disturb him and let him calm down.

Girls in cold violence, I hope you can find your own way and have a beautiful and sweet relationship.