Are you afraid of seeing your future at a glance, afraid of spending your whole life like this?

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He said you can't live like this Lifetime

I listened to SHE's "Once Were a Boy". One word contains a whole life. You once had bright eyes and said you wanted to be a great person, but then you were suppressed by family and work. I am out of breath and just want to be stable and work 9 to 5.

You listen to the song and recall the first half of your life. When you were a child, you were inspired to be an astronaut and an entrepreneur. Later, you were just an ordinary son, husband, and father.

When you were young, you said you wanted to be beautiful, find someone who loves you, have a career, and have a happy family. You said you would definitely have a happy life.

But the sad thing is that you may be walking on the street at half past ten in confusion. You may be peeing in your left hand and milk powder and spatula in your right hand. Since when did your curiosity about the world and your confidence in yourself turn into a desire to stay comfortable and work a nine-to-five job?

I know, in fact, you don’t want to be so ordinary. You also want to go to the French lavender fields to smell the refreshing fragrance of the flowers, and you want to go to Turkey to ride in a hot air balloon and breathe the fresh air high in the sky. Or you want your parents to live more comfortably and happily; you want your children to receive a better education.

Actually you can’t do it!

The female chairman in 1998

Look, this girl, born in 1998, is called Zhang Manru. Her family background is Ordinary, he dropped out of school to work at the age of 13, and became the chairman of his own company at the age of 19.

Only she knows the ups and downs of these 7 years, but we have seen her results. Good looks, good figure, and a career. This is the dream of most people when they were young.

She also washed dishes, worked as a waiter, and set up a stall. Later, she joined a clothing factory. Slowly, she built her own clothing brand and then founded her own company.

With no background, no funds, and no academic qualifications, she relied entirely on her determination to become outstanding and her original dream.

I think she definitely doesn’t want to live an ordinary life, doesn’t want to live in poverty, and doesn’t want to find a suitable rental house by herself just to save money. I don’t want my mother to be unhappy when she gets old.

Each of us once had this desire. Of course, if you don’t have it, you can click Exit. But there are a few of us who can last seven years like she did.

You have to know that persistence is your most powerful asset.

Start the road to transformation

Yes, persistence is our greatest capital. You may always feel that what if persistence is useless? The answer is: It’s definitely useless if you don’t persist. Here, let me tell you about my experience. At least, it will tell you that there is nothing wrong with persistence.

Like most people, I am an ordinary person. I come from a rural area. I went to the most ordinary high school and the most ordinary university. I also have a younger brother who is in high school. Our family has not even built a house in the countryside. .

If nothing else happens, I will finish college, then find a decent job, go home for a blind date, and if I think it is good, I will get married, then quit my job and take care of my children and my parents-in-law.

But I am just not willing to spend my whole life like this, as if I can see the end at a glance. If I am not willing, I have to change. I don’t have any capital, the only thing I can do is insist on changing.

I started reading after I graduated from high school. I happened to have time during the summer vacation. I read for two or three hours every day. I asked my mother to let me learn an instrument to make myself more sentimental. I work out for an hour every day.

At first I just did these things that everyone can do. The only difference may be that I persisted for the entire summer vacation after my senior year of high school.

Then I developed habits, the habit of studying, the habit of fitness, and the habit of working hard.

You may find it difficult to persevere, but do you find it difficult to brush your teeth and wash your face every day? No. If you want to become better, you need to develop a habit through this little change.

The power of habit makes me keep reading and learn new things. After only persisting for more than a year, I ushered in a small harvest.

We are all people who are afraid of seeing our future at a glance, and we don’t want to be like this for the rest of our lives. But you can’t just not think about it, you have to start changing from now on and let yourself make a little good change every day.