The 60-year-old man said frankly: After retirement, he had less communication with his wife and often had a cold war.

From birth to growth, we are also full of yearning for love. In the face of boring life, we all hope to find a life partner, accompany each other and rely on each other on the long road of life. It is not easy to meet someone you really like in this vast sea of people. We should cherish this hard-won fate.

In real life, many people will feel this way. For example, when they first fell in love, when they first met each other, there were always endless words, but over time, the relationship between them gradually became dull, which was the most test of whether they could still stick to this relationship.

Marriage is the same. When two people first enter marriage, they are immersed in the joy of marriage every day, but after a long time, they will gradually lose their original freshness. Even when they are together, they have nothing to say and do, and they seem to be the most familiar strangers to each other.

I am 60 years old, and now my wife and I are retired. We have a pair of children, and now we all have our own families. After the children get married, we will live separately. After the children get married, they buy a house in a first-tier city, while my wife and I have been living in an old house.

My wife and I are both ordinary employees in the same factory. When we were young, in order to make money, we put all our energy into our work. Although the work is hard, we work together to make this family better, which makes us feel very happy.

I have worked for most of my life, and my youth has been devoted to my work. Years of work have also made me a little tired. However, I finally retired five years ago. To tell the truth, it was quite uncomfortable when I first retired. I feel a little uncomfortable without busy work.

When I retired, my husband didn't retire, but I found one thing, that is, since I retired, my husband and I rarely talked. When we were working together, we talked about many things and what happened every day after work, but since I retired, we talked less and less.

Not only that, at the beginning, no matter how I lost my temper, my husband let me go and communicated with me well, but after I retired, my husband was too lazy to talk to me, which also made me sad. I wondered if my husband didn't love me anymore.

During that time, we had nothing to say almost every day. Every time he comes home from work, he will lie on the sofa and watch TV after dinner. We sit together, but we have nothing to say, and we often have a cold war because of something.

We always have different opinions because of some things. If we disagree with each other, we will fall out completely and can't communicate at all. I remember once we had a cold war for three months, and I felt so miserable on such a day.

After he gets off work every day, we all do our own things and don't care about each other. In fact, I really want to tell him in my heart, but because I can't say it because of my face, the two of us have been wasting it.

In fact, for me, my husband is so cold to me at ordinary times, and my heart is very uncomfortable. I can't help thinking that there are always some thoughts in my mind that my husband doesn't love me anymore. What should I do?

This situation lasted for about two years until my wife retired. After my wife retired, we were all idle. At that time, I had nothing to do at home, which was very boring.

I didn't expect that one day my wife said that traveling changed our emotional state. Actually, my wife had a dream of go on road trip for a long time, but it never came true because of work.

In this way, my wife and I began to travel everywhere, and our feelings slowly returned to the beginning. What we saw and heard along the way made us have the same topic. Although I don't like running around, I will be happy to see my wife so happy.

Every time I meet some interesting people and things, we can discuss them together for a long time, and then I realize that my wife actually loves me, which also makes me feel that we have regained the freshness we lost at the beginning.

When two people are together for a long time, they will become more and more familiar with each other, the novelty will fade away, and the shortcomings of the other side will gradually emerge. This is also the time to test their feelings.

In fact, many people will have this experience when their feelings are dull. This kind of thing can't be solved by another person. The reason why they are dull is that they lack something new in their lives, so the novelty needs two people to find a way to create it together.