What kind of experience is "big heart"?

The so-called "heart" has no difference in size, and everyone's heart is the same. In fact, "big heart" is just a metaphor, and everyone or every place may have different interpretations of it. There are two explanations for "big heart":

First, the "heart" is really big:

People like "Xinda" don't have too many or too many reactions to the feedback, interference, embarrassment and other information generated by the outside world on their behaviors and emotions. And they can treat these things calmly, which makes people feel broad-minded and tolerant. As the saying goes, they are "Buddhists".

Second, it is a kind of false "big heart" to appear "big heart" on the outside, but not to reveal the inner psychological state truthfully. This kind of person uses this disguise to avoid being considered "narrow-minded" and "selfish" by others, pretending to be a "Buddhist" and gaining praise from others. Therefore, "big heart" is sometimes derogatory and once expressed dissatisfaction with poser.

Pay attention to "Bo Chenghua Psychology" and talk about your views on "Big Heart". Answer: What is the experience of "big heart"?

When you have a broad heart, everyone has a broad heart for different things. There is a big heart that is "careless", forgetful, or has no bottom line and can't remember details. Such people exist. This big heart is derogatory, vague and unreliable.

Let's talk about another "big heart" in detail. This is a real inner strength. After experiencing some things, the natural character or person tends to mature psychologically, and then he is stronger and can handle things well. His realm is higher, his ability to resist pressure and setbacks is stronger, and he is comfortable in adversity. The most common thing is that he doesn't like to care about things in daily life, and he is rarely melodramatic. He treats gains and losses with a natural heart and is broad-minded.

People sometimes have to exercise their hearts to be bigger. They can't let it go, they can't fight for it. These things are not done by adults. After all, they are stupid things that torture themselves.

I said, life, you can't be too serious, as angular as a drawing, you can't freeze it in a box. I'm so tired. There are many people in this world. What you want to do according to the drawings may be disturbed by the outside world, but it may not be satisfactory. That's just a pity. The world is not yours, you can only tolerate it.

Life, you can't ignore, life is too short, people rush by, cherish the opportunities in the world, the responsibility of being a man, morality, and so on, so as to be qualified, at least reliable.

It is good to be big-hearted, at least more often, I am letting myself go.

Being big means being broad-minded and atmospheric, which is a good character. Living a relaxed life without caring about anything, people with big hearts are pursuers, who can achieve great things and have wide connections. At the same time, their body and mind are also very healthy. Because they are big-hearted and don't argue with others, they have a bright future!

In the northeast of my hometown, if this person is "really big-minded", he generally has the following personality characteristics:

First, don't care about everything, don't be nervous, and there won't be too much pressure when things happen.

Second, not afraid of setbacks, persistent, always seeing hope and full of enthusiasm for life.

Third, be generous, don't care about others, don't hold grudges, forgive others easily and get along well.

Fourth, careless, easy to ignore details, do things inconsiderately, or easy to forget things.

Fifth, it is easy to forget the pain after scar healing, and it is easy to forget the losses you have eaten before, the mistakes you have made and the lessons you have not learned.

Because people with big hearts have some of the above personality characteristics, they will have the following psychological experiences:

1, because I don't pursue anything, I look down on everything, so I seldom worry about anything in my daily life, and my psychological burden is small, so I live more easily and can eat and sleep.

2. I can always find the beauty of life, feel happy easily and see hope in difficulties.

3. I am calm, not stubborn, able to look at problems from different angles, get along with others, and make sense without distortion, which makes me realize the happiness of living in harmony with society and people.

Because people don't care, it is easy to forgive others, so people with big hearts can easily feel the friendliness of human nature and the light of society, and can experience the quiet years and happy mood.

Because of carelessness and thoughtlessness in dealing with people, sometimes I will encounter inexplicable opposition and experience the pain of being misunderstood, so I often regret and blame myself for my carelessness.

Broad-minded is a person's character. Many people have their own characteristics. As long as it does not affect normal study and work, it is normal to admit their unique personality characteristics.

A big heart is a kind of feeling, an open-minded realm, which can not only see yourself clearly, but also see the world clearly, thus being more helpful to the world and yourself.

Say another big heart. The so-called big heart means that you don't care what others think of you, don't care what others think, and don't care what you look like in others' eyes. For example, if someone scolds you casually, you don't care. For example, if you lend someone a book, he says he can't find it, but you say it doesn't matter. It's just a book.

For example, if someone verbally bullies you, you don't care and forgive him. People say you have a big heart. For example, you were scolded, but you still didn't take it to heart. People say you have a big heart.

In this way, everyone else thinks that you are weak, unprincipled and bottomless, bullied by others like a basket case and an idiot, and influenced by other people's gossip.

But in order not to make myself sad, I can only pretend that I don't care, pretend that I don't care, and pretend that my heart is big.

I thought I had forgotten all this. Actually, I remember. I still remember it. It has been many years, so I have always kept it in mind. I am sad.

So, we don't care, but we must care. What did I do wrong? There is nothing wrong, but I chose the wrong road. I should speak out loud, speak out my grievances, and don't keep them in my heart. Today, I am still upset and my heart is still on my mind.

If, at that time, I chose another road and chose to vent my grievances instead of psychological depression, perhaps, now I am another personality.

I'll answer. I have the most say.

Big heart, good and bad.

I am a person who is often called "broad-minded".

I have been told by my parents and people around me since I was a child that I have a big heart and want to change this problem. I feel good, carefree, never bear grudges, and have many friends. Perhaps it is because of Sagittarius that I love freedom rather than fetters. In short, I have a big heart, people live happily, and I have good connections. Disadvantage is forgetfulness _ (:3 "∠? )_(? & gt

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However, my big heart also made me miss the best love.

/kloc-I met her in high school 0/2 years ago. Cheerful, sunny and lovely.

We both have a good feeling for each other, that is, the hazy feeling of first love. We have never done anything or even held hands.

I got busy gradually, and my heart grew bigger and I ignored her, and my contact became less and less until I didn't contact her (if only I had WeChat QQ at that time).

May 12, 2008 Wenchuan Earthquake, an unforgettable day. The earthquake in Chengdu was so strong that I panicked. Suddenly, the phone rang. It's him, a familiar voice, a long-lost voice. I cried in a big mess, moved, or ...

Later, after much experience, I found that the person I love most is her.

If time can go back, I don't want to be "big-hearted", I want to remember every smiling face and blush every time;

If time can go back, I will relive every moment;

If I could go back in time, I would hold her tightly.

In fact, being big is not forgetting, but temporarily leaving your troubles behind. But occasionally I ignore important people and things.

May people with big hearts not miss it like me.

I come from Sichuan. If others say that you have a big heart in Sichuan. It's derogatory, indicating that you are insatiable.

A generous heart can accept a limited amount or refuse indefinitely.