My girlfriend and brother kept saying that I was his brother-in-law and kept asking me for money. What should I do?

To put it bluntly, it is Voldemort. There are several ways to deal with this problem:

We can look at this matter from many angles. Don't jump to conclusions yet, but keep an open mind. Maybe your girlfriend's mind hasn't changed and she hasn't entered the role of your girlfriend. When you are together, you don't have the role of a girlfriend, but two people can live together, have a unified goal, and reach an understanding of life. ?

All you have to do is help her change quickly. In the face of money, two people can communicate. Even if it is her private property, she has the right to dispose of it herself, and she should let you know in advance, which is a respect for you.

Maybe my girlfriend's brother needs money badly, and she has no money. I hope you can support her brother. Then, first of all, understand your girlfriend's intentions and love for her family. But do your best. I also need to have a lot of money in the future, give myself some space, make my economic conditions better, and then support her brother. Maybe she still lacks complete trust in you. You can recall that you didn't reach an agreement in your relationship, which made her feel that she didn't trust you.

Put aside your anger or dissatisfaction with the status quo, take the initiative to adjust your status, communicate with your girlfriend deeply, and let her begin to trust you. This is a process, don't expect it to happen overnight. But change it slowly, and do the same. Trust is mutual.

Of course, if your girlfriend doesn't care and thinks that your money should be spent on her brother, then you can be tough. You can ask her if she wants to live. If she doesn't want to live, then separate. If she has money, she is not afraid to find someone.

Of course, you can also scare her. After all, your girlfriend still wants to live a good life, but you still have to give her some color, or you can't really give her the money you saved in the future, or you will marry and raise her family, and you will die when you are old.