Boyfriend's mother, future mother-in-law, let her boyfriend inquire about our local customs so as to get ready. That is to say, she is not young. Have you been talking for a long time?

Your boyfriend's mother wants to propose at home and wants you to get married right away;

The implied meaning is: I want your next generation right away ...

But from what you said, you are not ready at all, or there are some places you are still considering (there are some unsatisfactory or unacceptable places; For example: I don't want to get married too early; Or where you are too satisfied with your boyfriend: such as immaturity and independence. )

So, in fact, you probably know all this, but you just can't fully accept it (get married right away)