What is the psychology of a sister-in-law who loves to sow discord and gossip?

It's enough to have a gossip sister standing on the witness stand.

If she lives in a family where both her parents and her brother love her, and she was close before her brother got married, her brother might take her out to play, share food and give her favorite gifts ... She is like a princess with stars and the moon at home, making way for everyone. When my brother gets married, her parents must be kind and considerate to the new wife no matter how they behave. At this time, my brother and daughter-in-law are a family. They love each other and share everything. My sister will naturally be jealous when she sees it, and a kind girl will adjust her mentality and correct herself. This is helpful. You can be nice to her and get over it slowly. Lest unfriendly people think of tricks and start to become demons. In this way, we tore it down as soon as we saw it, and fought back hard, not to swallow it.

Other people's families are usually strong, and the whole family basically gives way to her. Thus, the new wife has her own opinion, and the new family is the master. Just like before, I was in charge, and my brother didn't listen to me when you came. In her mind, you are the bad woman who occupies her position and separates her from her brother. It's no use being nice to her unless you let her decide everything. In this case, if it can be more harmonious on the surface, ignore her. Call back if the other party is not afraid of making trouble. As long as you have a good family, it is the best response to her.

The most important thing is to let your parents-in-law and husband know what kind of person your sister-in-law is, and at worst let your husband stand on your side.

Sister-in-law loves to sow discord. There may be several reasons. Let me help you analyze them one by one.

First, I envy you for taking away his brother's love. You are a foreign woman, and her brother is much closer than her.

Their brothers and sisters grew up together, experienced many things and shared many joys and tears.

Suddenly a person comes into their life, he will be jealous and resist, so he will sow discord and produce contradictions.

Second, I was used to being bullied at home since I was a child. For a newcomer, I will give you some time to show off and not let you occupy her supreme position.

Third, if your love life is not smooth, your husband doesn't deserve her, or your mother-in-law doesn't deserve her, you can't hide the sweetness of others' love and your mother's kindness to him.

Fourth, individuals are narrow-minded and extreme in character. Not just for you, but for everyone. Like to make trouble, lest the world be chaotic.

She becomes a good person when others contradict each other.

For such a sister-in-law, treat her as a guest at home As the saying goes, to say the least, he will get married sooner or later, and he also grew up after world changes.

Sister-in-law loves to sow discord and gossip. She wants to take advantage of the family, certainly out of jealousy and heart. Besides, I just want to show that she is better than others. This kind of sister-in-law is the most troublesome. Because she's afraid of chaos. So leave her alone and stay as far away from her as possible! Don't offend her. The ancients said it was better to offend a gentleman than a villain. Such a sister-in-law is a villain, so just stay at a respectful distance from others. Because after all, there are in-laws and husbands. We should also be careful of their feelings. You should use a better method, that is, be filial to your in-laws, be kind to your in-laws and love your husband and wife. Such a sister-in-law will never sow discord,

Jealousy Maybe your life is bad, or maybe you don't see that others are better than you, and you deliberately find fault. You should stay away from such people.

If you want to enjoy the work of a schemer, there is also a saying that the old man is old and the second child is cunning, which may be the characteristic of the second child.