Ye Haiyang is able to make money and her baby has her own surname, so she doesn’t have to serve her husband and mother-in-law: Do you envy her life?

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In December 2017, 29-year-old Ye Haiyang gave birth to Doris, a mixed-race girl from five countries.

This is not a rare thing, the special thing is that she bought a sperm to give birth to a child.

In our opinion, this is a very bold and advanced behavior.

Not getting married, but having children of his own, going to the United States to borrow sperm to have children, every one of them challenges the traditional nerves in the thinking of domestic women.

This seems incredible, but it is so natural.

First of all, Ye Haiyang has a very successful career and has enough financial strength to cope with all the expenses. Furthermore, she has a neutral appearance and the same personality, with the perseverance of a man and the delicacy of a woman.

As she gets older, she reaches the point of discussing marriage, but she still hasn’t met the person she wants to get married to, but she also wants to be a mother and is fully prepared.

So, the matter of buying sperm and having children happened naturally.

Of course, after all the hard work, you have to choose high-quality sperm. Who doesn’t want his child to start at a higher starting point than others from the moment he is in the mother’s womb?

From sperm selection to successful pregnancy, she also suffered a lot of pain that ordinary people cannot understand.

I remember when the doctor was about to transfer the embryo into her body, she asked the doctor again to confirm: Is it that number?

Until the doctor answered her again: Yes, I am sure, and it is a girl.

This steely woman, when she saw the little white dot on the screen slowly entering her body, tears flowed down involuntarily.

After that comes the tenth month of pregnancy. It would have been nice to have peace of mind and take care of the baby, but during this period, my weight increased significantly, and I was alone without my husband during the prenatal check-up.

The loss and the different looks from others made this tough girl almost depressed.

After surviving the pregnancy, we faced new and more "cruel" challenges.

Every woman who has given birth to a child knows that breastfeeding in the middle of the night means she can hardly get any sleep. If the child has the slightest abnormality, all the nerves in the body must be mobilized to determine what is going on.

Being a mother is not easy, and being an unmarried single mother is even more difficult.

It is much more difficult to open a factory and be a good business owner than to raise a child. No wonder, the quirky and invincible Papi Jiang also lamented: Nothing is as tiring as being a mother, and being a mother is the most tiring. .

Fortunately, Doris was raised to be fat, white, and super cute.

This can be considered a reward for her.

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Originally, giving birth to a child was her own business, and she did not harm society or hinder others, but she still attracted many people to accuse her of being selfish.

“It’s so selfish to buy semen just because you want to have a child.” “This kind of person has so much money that they have no place to spend it. If you want to buy it, you might as well spend the money to find it.” Marrying a husband is impossible without a man. "Some people will be more subtle, "You are right to love your children, but there should be a father in the child's life, otherwise life will be incomplete."

Ahem, I really agree with the sentence "Goats only know how to eat grass, how can they understand the vastness of your mist?"

My own life is a mess, and I still come to give advice on other people's lives. It's really ridiculous.

Can you do whatever you want if you have money?

Of course, it’s reasonable and legal, why not? Why live by other people’s expectations?

Besides, the person who scolded her for being selfish, how philanthropic and great is he?

In many ways, she is much more reliable and responsible than many parents.

She knows how to do what she can.

Ye Haiyang is the founder of DC Pharmacy. He has his own cosmetics factory and his career is quite successful. He has enough financial strength to support various expenses required for his children's growth.

This is much more reliable than those parents who receive subsistence allowances and have several children.

There is a news story about a couple who lived a life of poverty and had a second child when their daughter had just graduated. The couple was unable to raise them and forced their daughter to raise them.

What? You just graduated and don’t have much money. You can barely support yourself. Don’t you want to support your younger brother or sister?

You heartless person, I’m going to court to sue you.

Then, he sued his daughter, who had just graduated from college, and won the case!

This girl who has just entered society has not had time to experience the cruelty of society, but she has been slapped by her family first. She cannot cry out in pain and has no place to cry.

I don’t expect my children to provide for me in old age, and I have no obsession with “raising children to protect me from old age”.

Someone once asked Ye Haiyang: "What expectations do you have for your daughter?"

She believes that as long as the child is healthy and happy, it will be fine.

Some people regard having children as an investment, an investment made in advance for their own retirement. The love they give must be calculated in return.

There is nothing wrong with raising children to prevent old age, but is it not selfish to have children simply to prevent old age?

Also, parents who hold a certificate to work are better than many parents.

Ye Haiyang said of himself, "In this life, I don't like food or clothes, I don't care about ostentation, and I don't like luxury. My only hobby is to give everything for what I love and the people who love me."

She wasn't just talking.

She works hard and often travels to meet clients to discuss projects; she exercises hard and exercises for 2 hours every day; in addition, she never forgets to let herself grow up with her children. In order to raise children, she looks at She has read a lot of parenting books and self-growth courses...

She used to be particularly fond of extreme sports. The excitement and challenges of surfing, skiing, and skydiving made her find them very exciting.

In the past, her family often advised her not to play too dangerous sports, but she refused to listen. These sports are very suitable for her personality. She understands that the pleasure brought by stimulation is directly proportional to the danger.

But now, she quits because she has a daughter. She said: Safety is the most important thing.

The implication is that her daughter is her weakness, and of course, she is also her armor.

For the sake of his daughter and to be with her as long as possible, Ye Haiyang chose safer sports.

She wants to give her daughter complete love, the stability and love of her father, and the tenderness and delicateness of her mother.

Being able to teach cute and sensible children is indeed something to be proud of.

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Ye Haiyang has also thought about this problem before. The child will eventually grow up and become sensible, and then he will ask his father about this matter. What should he tell her then? ?

But then she thought of a way. She wrote and acted a story and told Doris: You came out of a watermelon. Mom bought a watermelon. When you opened it, you were seen inside. .

In order to increase her persuasiveness, she and her daughter specially took a set of photos of the baby being "born" from the watermelon.

In order for his children to grow up healthily, Ye Haiyang also put in a lot of effort.

Such an elf-like cutie was the biggest motivation for her to have a second child.

Well, Ye Haiyang decided to go to the United States to give birth to his son next year.

And I even thought of a name: Owen.

You have one son and one daughter. You can control it yourself. You don’t need to ask your husband for advice, and you don’t expect a mother-in-law to take care of you. Naturally, there are no conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

She is financially independent, can hire a nanny and an aunt, and can give her children the best education

Independent and wise, brave and determined.

She is free, and this freedom that is difficult for women in a besieged city to achieve is earned by her own hands.

She said: I don’t envy the materialistic life, I only admire the free soul.

It is her hard work that is practical and she is truly working hard for herself.

More people also supported her:

"Thank you for letting me see another life of women." "I will also work hard to make money, and then I will be like you.

"I'm so envious that you have lived a life that everyone envies through your own efforts." "...

Finally, to sum up in Ye Haiyang's own words: There are always regrets in people's lives, but God will compensate you in another way.

It is true that no one’s life is perfect.

Instead of repeatedly comparing gains and losses, and worrying about good and bad, it is better to enjoy what you have and what you can get.