Don’t miss the past, live up to the future

01.19

There seems to be no clear boundary between the beginning and the end.

It seems like yesterday that my father sent me to register at the university. When I woke up this morning, I was already in a familiar room.

People always feel that time flies by at the end of a period of time, or when this period of time is over.

Perhaps, it is the time that cannot be returned that makes people miss it even more.

The first semester of my freshman year, which lasted less than four months, brought me many stories.

I saw this sentence in the circle of friends: Life will always give you answers, but it will not tell you everything.

The admission results have already given me the answer, but everything about the four years of college is still unknown. If you have something to look forward to, you won’t lose your enthusiasm so quickly.

I experienced the first military training in my life, and of course it may also be the last. Different from the high temperature and sun exposure of other people's military training, my military training is often accompanied by low temperature and cold wind, and it also has an unforgettable memory. I don’t want to describe the hard work of standing in the military posture and kicking the steps every day. After all, the things that military training made me experience are more precious than the feeling of hard work.

The most unforgettable scene was on the day of the military training performance. The instructors stood in line in an orderly manner and took photos with the leaders. Leaving the playground at a trot to the music. The classmates followed behind and shouted loudly: "Instructor, goodbye." As they shouted, one after another their eyes became red and they cried.

I stood in the crowd, surrounded by the reluctance and sadness of parting. My eyes were also red, and I stood on tiptoes to watch the team go away. At that moment, I felt deeply proud of every soldier.

The admiration for soldiers came suddenly and profoundly.

Getting along makes every encounter meaningful.

Before entering university, I met many alumni, including those in the same class and seniors. So far, some of them have met each other, while others have not yet met. I have always believed that everyone I meet in life is no accident. The arrival of everyone will definitely bring me growth that others cannot. And those fates formed before meeting each other are even more gratifying.

Some of the care is not meticulous, but it is heartwarming. Whenever I am in a bad mood or feel unwell, there are always classmates who want to make me happy and make me happy. At this time, you will feel that you are very hypocritical, and you will feel even more lucky.

People always say that you should not be too affectionate towards other people's kindness. Who knows if the other person is being hypocritical. But I always like to remember the kindness of others. Whether I have known each other for a day or two, or for a year or two, I have always been willing to believe that every kindness to me is worth remembering.

I have been to the old campus twice. The first time I went, a senior sister asked me to stay in her dormitory for one night. On the way there, she kept telling me to pay attention to safety and take care of my belongings. When I woke up that morning, I wrote her a note quietly. At that moment, I was sincerely grateful to her.

As an extremely insecure person like me, I slept very peacefully that night. Not everyone can afford this kind of peace of mind.

There is also a senior who stayed with me the whole time when I went to the old campus twice. He didn't mind that I was always stupid, patiently answered all my questions and satisfied all my curiosities. He also invited me to dinner and sent me to the car, for fear that I would lose myself. I am very happy to meet such a humorous person.

Here, I have to talk about the class leaders of our class.

At the beginning of the school year, everyone felt unfamiliar, and the people in the class didn’t communicate much, which made it seem that the class did not have enough cohesion.

The class leaders also try their best to promote all aspects of communication among classmates, from class friendships to class barbecues, from themed class meetings to Christmas parties, every class leader has put in a lot of effort.

I believe that everyone in the class can see this, and everyone can feel the gradually becoming more active atmosphere in the class.

I have always felt that I was lucky enough to be in a very good class, and I was even more lucky to meet very good class leaders.

It’s easy to be with each other, but it’s difficult to stay together day and night.

When you come to this strange place, the first person you get close to is your roommate. The four of us come from different places, but coincidentally, we are all from Jiangxi, so we can be considered familiar among strangers.

Four people, four different personalities, got used to each other and got used to each other in less than four months.

They are all very good people.

We often go to have dinner together and walk around the campus after dinner, chatting and talking about our hearts. They were the ones who went to eat hot pot with me and went to the movies with me.

The years have quietly brought these three people into my life, allowing me to get along with them day and night, accompanied by joy and sorrow. The further the years go by, the harder it is to meet such a simple person.

Life should be wasted on beautiful things.

The first interview in life is the most unforgettable. I ran to the classroom as soon as get out of class was over that day, not caring about my growling stomach. After finishing the interview with the college newspaper, I rushed to the interview with the college newspaper again.

At that time, in order not to miss it, I really had to run.

When I stood on the stage and introduced myself, I was really nervous. My scalp was numb and my legs and feet were shaking from the nervousness. During my third interview with the Youth League, I was obviously much more relaxed. Sure enough, if you experience something more times, you will get used to it.

I passed the written examinations and interviews of three organizations with a fear of being cheated, and the sentence "My talents are hidden in my temperament" also left a deep impression on people. .

Joining three organizations and one club at the same time, I am often too busy to have my own weekends. You might have felt unwilling at the time, but now that I think about it, I can spend some time with such a good group of people, so there’s nothing to complain about.

This also made me understand that if the plan cannot keep up with the changes, don't be anxious, everything waiting for you will be worth experiencing.

The Youth League has many activities, and people in the department spend more time together. I feel very friendly when I see them. And my experience as one of the program leaders of the YACP New Year Party really taught me a lot.

There are many things that you really have to experience personally to know how difficult they are. Thank you to those people who walked alongside me.

Everything strange requires adaptation.

College does not seem to be as easy as some people say. Although you don’t have to stay in the classroom every day, you still have a lot of learning tasks. But to be honest, the free life and learning model of university really tests one's endurance and perseverance.

Many people sleep through college. I slept a lot in these three months. Working around every day will make you feel tired for no apparent reason, and you always feel like you don’t get enough sleep. And I always can't sleep well at night.

When these times slip away quietly from sleep, I will suddenly realize and blame myself.

When the final exam is coming, I feel very panicked. Throughout the semester, I didn’t seem to have studied at any other time except during class time. This is what makes me feel most ashamed. Fortunately, I didn't fail the class. Everything seems to be in time. Just think that all the mistakes you make and the wrong paths you take are for the sake of living a more correct life in the future.

When I was taking the last professional course, I met the teacher of this course and was surprised and happy. I thought we would never see each other again after the class ended, but I didn’t expect that he would be our invigilator.

At our age, we are arrogant and a little prejudiced at the same time. It is not easy to truly admire someone. But I can't hide my love for this teacher.

Some people just have a certain point that fits a certain standard in your mind, or some of their thoughts are particularly consistent with your three views. It is more likely that they are the person you want to be. kind of people. Whether it is excellent or not depends on how you understand it.

I took his first class, watched his speech and behavior, and in the following classes, I touched his thoughts and cultivation bit by bit, and I admired him deeply.

There are many choices, and you don’t need others to tell you what to do.

No matter which path you choose to take, or whether you choose to like someone, many times, in the midst of difficult opinions, just follow your heart. Just listen to those immature suggestions and don't let them influence your choices.

Even if people around you agree, you cannot say irresponsible things.

When I was young, I could say anything, because children have no inhibitions. But as an adult and a college student, I truly understand that people must be responsible for every word they say.

We have passed the age of making random remarks about anyone we don’t like. When we grow up, every irresponsible word we say is likely to bring unignorable consequences to others or our own lives. Influence. Later, those untrue remarks turned into abuse and slander. For an adult, you need to have your own subjective judgment and rational thinking.

Only freedom based on constraints can really make people feel relaxed and comfortable. When you are in a group of people, you should control your mouth, and when you are alone, you should keep your heart down. If you are too irritable, you will not be able to live a good life. There are many things, just let nature take its course.

When filling out my application form, I was thinking about going to Jiangsu. I applied for eight schools in five Jiangsu schools. However, I still happened to stay in Jiangxi. My favorite major was the journalism and communication major in editing and publishing, but I was still admitted to the Chinese language and literature major.

School and major are both contrary to expectations. It’s impossible not to complain, but I’m also more resigned to my fate. I always feel that a person has a place to go, and he has to go no matter what.

If things go against your wishes, please believe that there must be other arrangements.

During the days and nights I spent at NTU Academy of Sciences, I had many emotions about life, and I also made changes in many people and affairs. This place that I didn’t want to come to finally embraced me in the most gentle way and taught me a lot in the most harmonious way.

Now that this is the case, I am at peace with you.

Don’t always think about changing something passionately. Before you are capable enough, you must learn to settle yourself. No matter what others think of you now, if you work harder and be gentle every day, you will never go wrong.

Don’t dwell on the past, and live up to the future. Life is long, so you must look forward without covering up; you must move forward without stopping.

Every journey deserves to be taken seriously.

Time flies by like a flash, and everything becomes a thing of the past in a blink of an eye. I can't keep time, nor can I keep any people or things that I want to leave. All I can do is try to keep my original intention.

Only by remaining true to your original intention can you find your way back.

Thank you for all the encounters and beautiful stories this time has brought me. After waving goodbye, I want to continue to grow up, persist in myself amidst changes, and continue to move forward.

Goodbye, my first semester of freshman year.