The baby likes pulling his mother's hair. Why?

Text | Zhang Women's Parenting: Be a good mother, take good care of the baby, and the baby loves her mother. (This article is original and the copyright belongs to the author. )

What is the magic of mom's hair? Why does the baby always like to pull his hair?

After having a baby at home, life will add a lot of fun, and it will also bring a lot of small troubles to Ma Bao. After all, bringing a baby is not an easy task. Even when feeding the baby, the baby may not stop, not only nursing, but also playing, and sometimes biting Ma Bao's nipple, which makes Ma Bao miserable. Not only that, he may always like to pull his mother's hair, which makes Ma Bao very miserable.

Ma Bao Xiaoyu has a son who is almost one year old. Ma Bao Xiaoyu has plenty of milk and is still nursing her baby. It is said that breastfeeding is good. Ma Bao Xiaoyu intends to breastfeed her baby until she is two years old. Breastfeeding a baby is a happy thing, which can deepen the affection between mother and child, make the baby more dependent on her mother, and let the baby breastfeed and develop better. But there's one thing that bothers Ma Bao.

When a baby is nursing, he must be dishonest. He likes to pull his hair, which hurts every time. The baby also smiled at himself. He wanted to scold the baby at first, but he couldn't bear to look at his smiling face.

When chatting with friends, I talked about this matter, and my friend's baby had the same problem. Even if I scolded the baby, I still couldn't change it. Why does the baby always like to pull his mother's hair?

The baby thinks it's fun.

The baby is still young, and there are few entertainment items for the baby, but the baby will be curious about everything. For example, Ma Bao's hair is one of them. In daily life, Ma Bao's hair will inevitably come into contact with the baby, making the baby feel itchy. At this time, the baby will be curious about the hair and can't help playing.

The baby is still young. The baby doesn't know if it will be uncomfortable to be pulled by hair. It's just that when she is pulling her hair, it will be more interesting to see the change of expression. Therefore, I will have a good time.

The baby grabs things subconsciously.

When the baby's body develops to a certain extent, the baby's hands will have a grasping reaction. No matter what the baby's hand touches, or something close to the eyes, the baby will unconsciously grab it.

Then when the baby is scratching, Ma Bao also has a corresponding reaction. The baby may be interested in this, so he prefers to pull his mother's hair.

Get parents' attention

In the baby's heart, I really want to get the attention of my parents. When mothers are playing mobile phones or concentrating on other things, parents' eyes are not focused on their babies, and babies may be very frustrated and will try to attract their attention.

Therefore, there may be a move to pull mom's hair. Mom may be unhappy after pulling her hair, but it can make Ma Bao pay attention to herself again, which is enough. Knowing this little wish of the baby, how can the treasure mothers bear to blame the baby?

Therefore, when taking care of their babies, mothers should not always play with their mobile phones and watch TV, but should spend more time and energy on their babies and spend more time with them. Accompany the baby, don't just walk around the baby, it will only increase the distance between the mothers and the baby, you know?