My mother came to see me when my wife went back to her mother's house. When my wife came back, she looked down on my mother from the countryside. What should I do?

I was born in an ordinary family, and my parents are ordinary workers. Although my life is a little poor, my family of three has a good life. Because of my good academic performance, my parents tried their best to make money. They don't want me to live by coolies like them in the future, so they save money to let me go to college. But when I was in high school, my father had an accident on the construction site, because most of the accidents.

After my father died, the burden of making money at home fell on my mother. No matter how hard she works, she won't let me give up my studies. She wants me to go to college. Under the expectation of my mother, I was admitted to a good university. I tried to get a scholarship every year during my four years in college, which made my mother much more relaxed. After graduating from college, I worked in the city. I also want to take my mother to live with me in the city. My mother doesn't want to, saying that I have only been working for a long time now.

At work, I also met my wife, who is a girl in the city. My mother is very happy to know that I am in love, but my parents-in-law know that I am just a wage earner who has no money to buy a house, and they don't want my wife to associate with me. My mother gave me the compensation money my father gave me so that I could buy a house in the city. When my parents-in-law saw that I had a house in the city, they stopped objecting to me and my wife, and soon we got married. After getting married, I took my mother to the city to live with us. Maybe because my wife is from the city, she doesn't like her mother's burial a little. Later, my mother went back to her hometown for fear of affecting my life and my wife's.

My wife and I have been married for three years and our children are over one year old. My wife seldom went back to visit my mother in these three years. When I was in love with my wife before, I didn't find her such a person. If I had known that she looked down on her mother so much, I wouldn't have married her, but now I have children. Even if you can divorce your wife, what about the children after divorce? On this day, my wife went back to her mother's house with her child in her arms. Coincidentally, it happened that my mother came to see me from my hometown on this day. It's been half a year since I went home to visit my mother last time. My mother misses me a little.

But my mom didn't stay long. She comes in the morning and leaves in the afternoon. In fact, my mother is afraid that her wife will be unhappy when she knows that she is coming. My daughter-in-law has always been afraid of her mother-in-law. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law is afraid of her daughter-in-law. In fact, after all, the son is not good enough to handle the relationship between his wife and mother smoothly. The next day, my wife came back and saw some local specialties in the kitchen. She asked me that I was not at home yesterday. Is your mother coming again? I said to my wife, my mother, if you miss me, come and see me at home.

I didn't expect my wife to say, didn't I tell you many times to let your mother go home as little as possible? Look at your mother. If she misses your son, you can go back to see her, or give her more money, and you don't have to ask her to go home. I was angry to hear my wife bite your mother, so I said to my wife, don't bite your mother, that's our mother, and then my wife said, that's your mother, and my mother is not from the countryside.

Hearing my wife say this, I was completely angry. I said to my wife, since you don't like my mother so much, why don't you marry me? Let's divorce. We don't need an unfilial wife like you. After that, I packed my wife's things and sent her back to her parents-in-law's house. As for the children, I will try my best to fight for them. I don't want my child to grow up with such a mother and learn a lot of bad habits from his mother. Afterwards, my wife refused to divorce me and apologized to me, promising to be filial to my mother in the future. I hesitate to see my wife repent like this. Should I give her another chance?