Why do parents become cold after their daughters get married?

1, has its own psychological suggestion.

After marriage, your identity has changed, from a spoiled daughter to a daughter-in-law of someone else's family; You have entered a relatively unfamiliar environment. In the husband's family, you have to be busy with your husband and his family, and you will inevitably ignore the time to communicate with your parents. When you go back to your parents' home, you always pay attention to the change of their attitude towards you consciously or unconsciously. Once it changes slightly, it will be stopped by the curse of "marrying a woman and splashing water".

2. Love remains the same, but the way of love has changed.

We are with our parents, just like we are with our parents, and it is always the one who gives up after suffering …

There are fewer days to live with your parents, and your parents seem happy to see you. Their concern for you is no longer a constraint but a concern for you. Sometimes people are just strange, and the closer they get, the more polite they feel. In fact, their love for themselves has not changed, but the way of love is not as straightforward as before.

With the love of husband and in-laws, parents can rest assured.

Raising a child is not easy. When parents see that they are adults, they can fly, and their responsibilities are completed. There is a saying that they agree that "children are not unique to their parents." They just borrowed our bodies and came into this world. What parents can do is not to possess them selfishly, but to give love, watch them grow up happily and send them away.

When children grow up and have their own homes, most parents will no longer interfere in their own lives, and of course there will be less nagging instruction.

What we can do is to believe that the love parents give their children will never change. We should pay less attention to the lost corner and spend more time with our parents. If we have any difficulties in life, we can talk to our parents.

If you have a problem with your parents, you can express it directly with them. Don't hide it, and avoid having bad feelings with your parents.

As time goes by, my parents are getting old, so we can't participate in the first half of my parents' life, but we will definitely accompany my parents for the second half.