You are being targeted, don't you know?

? Guide: Mark, there is no difference between good and bad, whether it is to remember you better or just to give you a label.

Around us, we will always hear such a voice. This is my best friend and this is my colleague. It's like I went to a friend's party at the weekend, which was invited by my girlfriend. Among those invited, there are her good friend, her colleague and her boyfriend. Because of the different levels of relationship, it is conceivable that the party ended in a somewhat unpleasant way. Then, in this party, we can see such labels-girlfriend, good friend, colleague, boyfriend. There are four different labels for such a small party.

? In fact, this is not surprising, because the degree of communication between people is different, and obviously the degree of intimacy will be different, which is similar to the role that people play in this society. At home, you can be parents, children, brothers and sisters, uncles and aunts and other different roles; In society, you can be a citizen, mayor, party representative and other roles; In an enterprise, you can be a clerk, supervisor, manager and chairman, which is part of the label.

? Being marked is sometimes a good thing. Why do you say that? If you are just an ordinary friend in the eyes of the other party, then the intersection of ta and you will not be too frequent, and some things will not bother you. For example, the message that WeChat sends a message asking for a red envelope can be completely ignored, because there is not much overlap, because the relationship is average, those small problems don't need to be concerned, and ta will understand.

? Moreover, if you are good friends in each other's eyes, that is something to be happy about. Why? The name "good friend" also shows that you have a good relationship. In college, good friends can cover for you when you skip class, hand you homework at the risk of being criticized, and bring you food when you are too lazy to get up. Do you think it's worth having such a friend? Of course, this friendship is mutual. In order to maintain this delicate friendship, you must repay it from time to time.

Moreover, if you upgrade to the level of "girlfriends" in the eyes of the other party, it is a very bad thing. In fact, there are also "same-sex girlfriends" and "heterosexual girlfriends". Let's talk about same-sex girlfriends, girlfriends among male friends. When they are rich, we can play together. There are fun things to play with, and bad things to take responsibility and be loyal to each other. We are very Jianghu friends. Some call each other buddies, and some call each other iron buddies. I am a girl. To be honest, I still envy this relationship. In a woman's world, female girlfriends can go shopping together, tell little secrets together, secretly talk about other people's gossip, and always cover up their own shortcomings, all of which are small nerves in each other's eyes. It doesn't matter if they show their little habits without a bottom line. I can't stand saying it, but I don't have any antipathy in my heart.

? The hardest thing to do is the best friend of the opposite sex. No one will believe that there are truly pure heterosexual girlfriends in the world, including myself. I also have girlfriends of the opposite sex. I can honestly say that my male girlfriends are very kind to me, but they never want to be with them, but they all say that we can actually try to be together. I turned them down cruelly. Fortunately, none of them left me. So, where's your best friend? The best friend of the opposite sex is bitter. What's the difference between unrequited love and wishful thinking? It's just that the former can be friends together, while the latter always has a crush, and the other party never knows. There is no good or bad, only whether you are willing to protect such a relationship.

In life, being marked is a lucky thing. Take the WeChat circle of friends as an example. With the rise of WeChat business, many friends who do WeChat business will brush their screens in the circle of friends. It's like watching advertisements every day, sometimes it's particularly annoying. Wechat has such a function, that is, tagging friends, so that you can use tags to block friends in a certain group, or you can block friends in a certain tag when posting dynamic messages, which saves a lot of unnecessary trouble and sorts out the WeChat circle.

Mobile phones are used more and more frequently. Whether there is news or not, I just like to turn on my mobile phone from time to time, or I just care whether someone is online. In the grouping of friends, in fact, many people will give a special mark to the person who is particularly concerned. Just like mobile phone contacts, the closest people always use special marks, or use element A to keep t A in the first line and home page of the address book. Wechat friends can also be displayed in front of the friends ranking with an asterisk. Some WeChat business owners will deliberately add an A in front of the micro-signal, which will take the initiative to rank first, which is also a commercial means.

Not only do we have these things around us, but many of them are labeled, but different types and styles reflect different values. I also hope that you who read this article can find your own label in your life and stick your own label more diversified and sexy.