Men should also learn to save money and talk about it.

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When it comes to saving money, many young people's first reaction is: "What nonsense? Now it's all ahead of consumption. Who will be stupid enough to save money? " You will spend money to make money. What life needs is the ability to make money, not the ability to save money. "

Many young people feel that they are still young and unmarried. When a person is full, the whole family will not be hungry, and there is no need to save money. Saving money will only reduce their quality of life. As long as you have the ability to make money, are you afraid of having no money to spend? There is no need to save money.

In fact, I used to think so, but people and things around me told me again and again that saving money is not only necessary but also very important in life, no matter you are young or old.

When Mei Zi and I were having dinner in the food street opposite Guo Mao, I heard two girls chatting. Girl A said to B, "I can't stand you. Why are you so careful? I don't want to buy myself a dress. "

Girl B replied softly: "That skirt is a bit expensive, more than 1000 yuan. And I just bought a similar one, more than 600 yuan. If you buy this again, you won't be able to save money this month. "

"What? Do you still save money regularly every month? Why do you want to save money? I tell you, we girls don't need to save money. Haven't you read this sentence online? When a woman is young, the best investment is to spend money on herself, travel, skin care and enjoy, so that she can have the best glory in the best years. " Girl A raised her voice in surprise.

"Only if you are good to yourself, others will be good to you, and then career love is a win-win situation. Women only need to save money when their youth is gone. When they are old, you will be the richest and most beautiful old lady now. But how can you meet a good man if you save money now and don't want to invest in yourself? " Girl A's high volume attracted the attention of several diners around her, including Mei Zi and me.

Girl B noticed everyone's concern for them and shyly signaled her partner to lower her voice. The two girls bowed their heads and whispered to each other.

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After a meal and a stroll, Mei Zi smiled and asked me, "Hey, old literary youth, what do you think of what those two girls just said?" ? Do you think they should save some money at this age? "

I thought for a moment and said, "I don't think girls really need to save money." Wouldn't it be better to spend all your money on yourself while you are young and make yourself dazzling? Of course, such a girl is very attractive to men, and it should be easier to find an ideal husband. "

Mei Zi shook her head at me and said, "I don't agree with Miss A's point of view. Only girls who can save money can truly love themselves, be appreciated by good men and have their own life value and social status. If you don't save some money when you are young and find a good home, it will be too late to save money when your youth is gone. In the end, I can only slowly become an old woman with nothing to save. "

"Moreover, that one can't guarantee that he has been disease-free and disaster-free, and so can young people. It is really necessary to save money. Saving money is to save yourself safety! " Plum said this sentence with emotion, and I have a story intuitively. Sure enough, later she talked about a distant relative.

Mei Zi has a distant cousin Yue Er. Her mother died of heart failure when she gave birth to a baby, and her father raised the baby alone. Just when the moon started to work, his father died.

Fortunately, Yueer has a good job, is willing to endure hardships, works hard and earns a good income, so Yueer who has lost her parents can live a decent life.

The moon, who lost her parents, deposits part of her income into an account every month. A few years later, there was a sum of money in this account that was neither too big nor too small. She started financial investment and will continue to deposit part of her income into this account.

Moon joked that this account is the "strong backing" in her life.

Moon's boyfriend is very kind to the moon. Poor Moon has no relatives and promises to give all his love to the moon. Just as they were talking about marriage, the baby who felt a little uncomfortable was diagnosed with hereditary heart disease and needed immediate surgery.

After learning that the baby was ill, her boyfriend's family began to strongly oppose their marriage, on the grounds that the baby who had the operation would lose the qualification of being a mother at the same time, and her boyfriend was the only child in the family, so it was impossible not to have children.

Boyfriend's family asked Moon to break up with her boyfriend on condition that she paid for the operation.

Moon looked at her boyfriend in a dilemma, took the initiative to leave her boyfriend and went for heart surgery alone. She didn't ask her boyfriend for money, and the cost of the operation came from her own "strong backing".

When Plum went to see the moon, the moon, who was strong and optimistic by nature, didn't have a word of resentment against her boyfriend's family.

She said, "I can understand them, but I won't take their money. I have lost my love, and I can't lose my dignity as a human being. You may meet the right person in the future, but if you lose your dignity, you will never come back. "

Speaking of which, Mei Zi asked me, "Do you think Yuezi can't afford the operation if she doesn't save money at ordinary times? By this time, emotional dignity, illness and even life will be on her. Can she go on? "

It turns out that saving money is actually much more important than we thought.

It is unwise or even wrong to emphasize making money while ignoring saving money. The ability to make money is really important, and saving money is also important. To some extent, saving money is also a way of "making money".

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Why do people try to save money when they reach middle age? There are many reasons for this. Because parents are old, because children grow up, because we are no longer wayward bachelors who are "full and not hungry", because we are old and young.

Because we still have our own dreams, we really don't want to work that day, and we won't be afraid to quit because we have no money. In short, there are many places where money is needed. How can I not save money properly?

Mr. Li and Mrs. Li across the hall had a heated argument at noon. Mrs. Li knocked on my door crying and told me the reason and her grievance.

At the beginning of the year, Mr. Li bought a new luxury car with all his family savings. Reluctantly, Mrs. Li said that the family should save some money for a rainy day, but Mr. Li has made up his mind to stick to a high-quality life. Mrs. Li couldn't beat Mr. Li, so she had to give all her savings to Mr. Li

Now Mr. Li's son is a junior, and he has won a place to go abroad for exchange in the second half of the semester. He needs to pay the fee, but there is no savings at home. Don't let your son out. I feel sorry for him. Let him out. Where will you find so much money for a while?

Mrs. Li blamed Mr. Li for not listening to his original advice and not knowing how to leave some money for his family. So they quarreled.

Fortunately, in the end, Mrs. Li's brother gave them a hand and lent them a sum of money, so that his son could go through the formalities of going out to study smoothly.

When people reach middle age or even old age, no matter how high your earning power is, you must save some money at home for a rainy day, because you have a young and old family on your shoulders.

This is not a squeeze on your quality of life, nor is it a compromise on life. On the contrary, this is the embodiment of your sense of responsibility and responsibility, and it is also a kind of resistance of this family to life risks.

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Whether we are single or have a family, we will inevitably encounter some unexpected situations, such as unemployment, illness, or other accidents.

If we have a sum of money and some savings around us, we can rely on this money to resist the risks that life gives us, so that our lives can be guaranteed and we will not get into trouble.

Saving money can not only support our life, but also bring us satisfaction in the process. When we look at the accumulated amount of money, slowly accumulate and increase, and reach the expected goal step by step, we will have a sense of joy. This sense of joy will inspire us to move on.

The process of saving money is also the process of cultivating our consumption habits.

When saving money becomes a living habit, there will inevitably be a plan for living expenses, which will help us form a correct consumption concept, stop blindly overspending or overspending, understand the money that should be spent and the money that should not be spent, and make ourselves a self-disciplined and income-increasing person.

For each of us, the ability to make money is really important, but the ability to save money is equally important.

If we only have the ability to make money, but we don't have a correct concept of consumption and never save money, then no matter how powerful your ability to make money is, you may become a moonlight family and a young family.

While constantly improving our ability to make money, we have also improved our ability to save money and improve our financial management. This is actually a happy way to manage money.