Why do rural bachelors increase rapidly?

I didn't say much. In rural areas, many people who can't get married have one reason or another.

Several people in our village can't get married.

1. One is the only child in the family. Because his parents were lax in discipline, he was afraid of scolding and hurting his children when he was a child, so he lacked discipline and grew up. His parents married him and gave birth to a daughter. Then he thought it was his wife's fault that he didn't have a son, so he quarreled every day. As for the subsequent fight, his wife's family encouraged her to divorce. Just like this. Nobody wants to marry him.

2. The other one is dumb. In rural areas, it is difficult for such people to get a wife, because they can't speak naturally, and several brothers and sisters in the family are poor, so they can't marry him, which leads to being single all their lives.

There is another one who can talk, the same age as my grandfather, but now he is over 70 years old and still a bachelor. What is his reason? Others say he is lazy and unwilling to work to make money. The man is not stupid. He is an old bachelor now.

There are many similar ones. There is a saying in the countryside that "rotten iron bars match rotten spoons", which means that no matter what kind of people they match, they all look alike.

According to her statistics, there are more than 130 male bachelors aged 28-40 in the village. Pojia village is also a big village, and it is estimated to be similar, because there are four or five bachelors nearby.

I remember that I used to be single because I was ugly or stupid or disabled, and because I was poor, had many friends and had no house. Before that, there were people who were single because of family members.

If she is not particularly ugly, even if she is poor, she can generally be said to be a daughter-in-law; Others are ugly, but if they have a house at home, they can generally talk about their daughter-in-law. I have an uncle who doesn't speak clearly and is a bit dull. Just because there is a big room at home, my great-grandmother married her aunt!

But now, looking around, many bachelors are not bad, they also have houses and cars, and even some counties have buildings, but they are not daughters-in-law.

Many people say it's because there are too few girls now. It's true. I remember more than 20 years ago, groups of little girls were often seen on the street. Every neighbor has two or three girls, at least one. But now there are really few girls on the street, and there is more than one boy in each family. Most of the limited girls have been admitted to the university and stayed in the city.

In order to have a boy, some people find someone to do B-ultrasound when they are pregnant, and if they are girls, they will do it.

According to the school teacher, they have statistics for one year.

Of 18 school-age children born in the same year, 15 are boys and only 3 are girls.

What are the conditions of these bachelors? To give a few examples: Let's talk about Niangjia Village first.

A Jun, 33, graduated from an agricultural university and works in a factory near the village. Besides being fat, that guy with thick eyebrows is not bad. The first floor is a new house, and the other floor is an old house. A sister has been married for a long time, and how old is the child? My father died a few years ago, and my mother was about 60 years old. She is very capable and has hundreds of thousands of savings at home, but Ah Jun's marriage is always inappropriate.

Ajun University has a girlfriend who is from Inner Mongolia. She asked Ajun's family to buy a house in Inner Mongolia, and they settled there. A Jun's mother disagreed and didn't want her son to stay abroad. As a result, the marriage was ruined A jun went back to work in a wrong factory outside the village and has not found a suitable girlfriend so far. Last year, someone introduced a divorced woman who asked to buy a building in the county. Jun's mother bought an old building on her own initiative. The woman was too old to discuss with her. As a result, she was unhappy and blew it again. In addition, Mr. A has a bad personality, speaks slowly, and swears when he is in a hurry, so he doesn't like girls very much.

Asu, 34, graduated from technical secondary school, also works in a factory outside the village, has a car, has a mortgage building in the county, and has a younger brother who is married at home. Asu is good-looking, but she is dumb, which annoys people around her and makes her very picky. Someone introduced him to a girl and they went shopping together. He is reluctant to buy popsicles on a hot day. As a result, the girl never wanted to see him again. Everyone says that others can't be too picky, so why don't they know how to buy things for others! The reason he gave is that you can't buy anything for her until the relationship is confirmed. If it doesn't work, it's a waste of money! And then no one wants to fix him up.

Awei, 29, has two brothers at home. He has a single-family new house and works in a factory near the village. It can be said that he has a good eye, but he will not pursue any girl. Everyone said that he was too careless about dressing up. He didn't change clothes at work all day, but in winter he wore overalls and blue cotton-padded clothes issued by the factory instead of down jacket. In fact, his family's economic conditions are quite good. His parents are only in their forties, and they do some small business for a living, so his brother doesn't have to worry about it. But he doesn't want to buy a car, even a motorcycle. He rides a broken bike every day, which his father collected from the junk. He repaired it and became his car. Now as a monitor in the workshop, I can earn four or five thousand a month. In his spare time, he also grows flowers at home and sells them online. Is a man who can live! If such a guy was in the eighties and nineties, it would be absolutely easy to find a partner. But now girls don't like this. They think he is too backward and has no interest in life. Girls prefer boys who are eloquent and fashionable. Finally, someone introduced a thin and dry girl who was almost yellow when she was about to get married and finally got married. The new daughter-in-law still doesn't like living at home. She lived in her parents' house for a long time, and finally divorced after more than a year.

Pojia village is twenty miles away from Niangjia village, where there are many bachelors. Let's talk about my recent bachelor:

A Guang, 3 1 year-old, looks above average and works in the village plastic factory. From the early twenties, several objects have turned yellow. Every place has an object, and parents decorate the house once, because different girls like different decoration styles. Finally, they became lovers on the Internet, finally got married, and divorced when their children were about one year old, because living in a yard with their in-laws often caused conflicts. Poor children can only be raised by grandparents, and A Guang is still single.

Dong, 36 years old, two brothers, he is the boss, his parents have built a new house, and he looks very good. The marriage was particularly smooth, and the girl from the same village chased him. Gave birth to a daughter and a son after marriage. Unexpectedly, the year before last, Adong's daughter-in-law died of a heart attack in the middle of the night. When I found it in the morning, she was already cold. His mother-in-law fought with him and scolded him for sleeping so dead that his daughter-in-law didn't even know she was ill. Adong blames himself, feels guilty and suffers, but who wants this! Because the two children are still young and their parents are in poor health, they are always ill and hospitalized, so Adong can't help him with his children, so he can't work to earn money. Adong is too tired to even think about marrying a wife, because no woman is willing to accept this mess. His younger brother Erdong is also thirty-one. He was with an object and waited for several years. Erdong didn't build a house, so it turned yellow. Finally, a new house was built next to Dadong. His sister-in-law died, and his parents were always sick. No girl wanted to move with him, even a second-married woman.

Alin, 26 years old, has no fixed occupation. When I was eighteen, I met a seventeen-year-old girl on the Internet. The girl lived in his house for several years, during which she lost several children. When the little girl is twenty years old, she may be mature because her family is poor. When she saw that all the neighbors had opened their new houses, Alin's house was still a short and shabby old house, so she left and never wanted to come back. This Alin is also quite capable. Later, she met a girl online, got married and gave birth to a boy. Alin's parents also turned over the house, but they had no money to decorate it. Alin's young couple have been living in a concierge facing the street, and they also live opposite their grandparents, while Alin's parents live in a rough room without decoration. Finally. This daughter-in-law can't stand Alin's poverty and laziness. She has divorced and left. Alin's parents raised his children, and Alin became a bachelor.

There are many bachelors in the village, and there are many bachelors in the factory where I work. There are more than 100 people in our workshop, including more than a dozen bachelors.

Atao, thirty-five, tall and strong, wears a pair of glasses, looks good and has an easy-going personality. He drives to and from work, and his parents are only children. There is a house in the village, but I don't know why, he has no daughter-in-law. Some people say that he loves to brush money, and he doesn't know if it's true or not.

Amin, 35 years old, looks average. There is a house in the village, and she is also a bachelor!

Space is limited, so there are not many examples. In short, there are so many bachelors!

There is a 20-year-old girl in the factory. She looks ordinary except for her height. However, not long after she arrived at the factory, several young men chased her and asked us to be references, and several middle-aged men asked us to introduce their sons.

I can't help it There are too few little girls and too many young men. Things are rare!

There are quite a lot of bachelors in our village, with more than 20 over 30 years old, most of whom are in poor condition; There are also people who usually talk a lot. When they see women, they count the ants on the ground or the beams on the roof. Some of them were released through labor reform? But women are very popular, like the four beautiful women in the village, and they also gave birth to children early. Do you think people are more angry than others?

In this case that the ratio of men to women is inherently unbalanced, I think there are not many bachelors in rural areas, but there are some phenomena in my village that have not been seen in big cities for a long time. Not that many bachelors are just for you to see, but in all aspects. First of all, in my village, the price of matchmaking has been rising. In the city, matchmaking is a job of matchmaking. In the countryside, it is still the same as before. However, this matchmaker is old, and some middle-aged women suddenly started this job. There is no other reason, that is to say, they can afford a small white-collar worker's salary for one month from the previous gift, and the money is given by the man. I am the matchmaker of my neighbor. I often talk to my mother. Now there are too few girls in the village. Although the matchmaker has a lot of money and men are willing to give it, there are really too few women. Women choose men. She said that she is now looking at a girl with good conditions as a baby.

And there are many matchmakers who go to Lincun and even Linxian. I have a little boy who has been dating for several years. He graduated from junior high school and stayed in high school for less than a month before dropping out of school. Then I worked as a stainless steel worker outside, and now I am also a foreman. But he has been dating for several years, but nothing has come of it. There were five people who accompanied him, none of whom was from our own village. Of course, this phenomenon can't be his own, in the countryside.

Finally, there is the phenomenon of occupying people. Anyway, take it first. And it's not good to be older now, like seventeen or eighteen, because there are more girls at this age, and all girls who get married in their twenties will be put on colored glasses. Therefore, older girls are generally not at home and have gone out. I'm a college student now, and I haven't been in love or talked about it. My mother is worried that I won't find a good wife in the future. Because my family is in business and there are many people coming, my mother will entrust someone to introduce me to a matchmaker, but when people hear that I am still in college, they laugh and are afraid that I will run back. That girl is also unreasonable. However, there are many people in the family who are like this. Of course, the premise is that they will not go to school. /kloc-when they are 0/8 years old, they will be relatives and possessors until everything is mature.

Therefore, the situation in rural areas is still quite obvious, but one thing cannot be forgotten. There are really not many young people staying at home now. Many of them go out to work and bring their children back when they come back.

To say how many bachelors there are, it won't be all over the street, but the countryside is really a bit difficult to match. In rural areas, the same old bachelor is rare, basically not seen, unless some hooligans are sick. Because everyone's general concept of marriage is relatively early, usually after several generations, you can have one more generation than urban people.