There is a kind of failure called busy inspirational articles.

There is a kind of failure, called busy inspirational articles. Many times we do small things like rice first, and spend a lot of time on rice, water and salt, but occupy the position that really belongs to walnuts, so that things like accumulating a lot of books to read and building a new system are delayed. It seems that the 8020 principle and the four quadrants of time have not been played well. Remind yourself not to get tired of that kind of nervous and unimportant thing, and put it in the bowl of life every day.

I once had a classmate who was one of the earliest presidential mentors in China. He was 37 years old. He usually travels back and forth in Shenzhen, Chengdu and Beijing. During that time, I saw that he was always tired.

Finally, one day, he found this himself. I hope I can help him see why time is always short. His eyes are a little black. He said that he was busy every day, but when he thought about it at night, he didn't know how the day passed. This makes him anxious all the time and expects to be solved.

Looking at him, I remembered the following old story:

One day, in an unknown meditation room in a valley, there was an old Zen master. He found that one of his disciples was very diligent, whether it was begging for alms, washing vegetables in the kitchen, or playing Zen Seven with benefactors. This disciple is busy from morning till night. It seems that there is nothing wrong, because these are the contents of practice. However, the little apprentice struggled internally and his eyes became darker and darker. Finally, he couldn't help coming to the master.

He said to the old Zen master, "Master, what can I do?"

The old Zen master pondered for a moment and said, "You bring me my usual alms bowl."

The little apprentice brought the bowl, but he didn't know what the master was going to do. It's just a big bowl, which is used to hold rice sent by donors every time you go to alms.

The old Zen master said, "OK, put it here. You can bring me some walnuts to fill in."

The little apprentice didn't know the master's intention, so he brought a bunch of walnuts in. As soon as these dozen walnuts were put into the bowl, the whole bowl was full.

The old Zen master asked the young apprentice, "Can you put more walnuts in the bowl?"

"I can't accept it. This bowl looks full. If you put walnuts in, you should roll them down. "

"Oh, the bowl is full, right? You bring more rice. "

The little apprentice sent some more rice. He poured rice into the bowl along the crack in the walnut and even put a lot of rice into it until it began to fall out. The little apprentice just stopped, and suddenly he seemed to realize, "Oh, the bowl was not full just now."

"Is that full now?"

"It's full now."

"You go and get some more water."

The little apprentice went to fetch water again. He took a spoonful of water and poured it into the bowl. After half a bowl of water, even the gaps were filled this time.

The old Zen master asked the young apprentice, "Is it full this time?"

The little apprentice looked at the bowl full, but he was afraid to answer. He doesn't know if the master can put anything in it.

The old Zen master smiled and said, "Go and get another spoonful of salt."

The old Zen master put salt into the water again, but the water didn't overflow at all.

At this point, I stopped and asked the president's instructor, "What do you say?" I want to make sure whether he has entered this metaphor.

My friend thought for a moment and said, "I see, this shows that as long as there is a squeeze, there will always be time."

I smiled, and he entered the role. Then I said, "That's what the little monk in the valley said, but-"

The old Zen master smiled and shook his head and said, "This is not what I want to tell you."

Then the old Zen master poured the contents of the bowl back into the basin and made an empty bowl.

The old Zen master operated slowly and said, "We put walnuts first just now. Now let's turn it upside down and see what happens? " The old Zen master put a spoonful of salt first, and then poured water into it. When the rice was filled, the water began to overflow when it was enlarged into the bowl. When the bowl was full of rice, the old Zen master asked the young apprentice, "Do you think there is room for walnuts in the bowl now?"

I paused, looked at my friend's meditation, and then continued.

The old Zen master said, "If your life is a bowl filled with little things like rice, how can you put your big walnuts in it?"

The little apprentice fully understood this time.

After telling the story, I looked at the classmate. As a very successful professional, he is busy all day, with big eyes and bags under his eyes. I asked him, "How can we put walnuts into our lives first?" If life is a bowl, how to distinguish walnuts from rice? "

That classmate has big eyes. When the story finished, I saw the light in his eyes. Before long, I couldn't hear him complaining about the lack of time. Later, he began to become a high-level opening instructor. Today, he has completely changed, his face is red and he is full of energy all day.

If everyone knows what their walnuts are, life will be simple and easy. We should put walnuts into the bowl of life first, otherwise we will be stuck in such small things as rice, sesame seeds and water all our lives.

However, there is a question for you. If you are willing to accept the opening, please pick up your pen:

Life is an empty bowl, but what should be put in it first? What is your walnut?

What are you doing in five years?

Busy and poor, are you poor and busy?

Where are you worse than others? Decided to make it 8 pm 10 pm. What are you doing?

There is a feeling that there is no chance, and there is a kind of giving up that is called fulfillment.

At any time in my life, I am not afraid to start all over again. Every seemingly low starting point is the only way to a higher peak.

You can't lose faith when you are sad, and you can't forget setbacks when you are happiest.

Without great difficulties, there will be no great cause.

The beauty of life comes from your love for life, and the innocence of friendship comes from your sincere treatment of friends.

People often lament the lack of beauty in life, because they lack a pair of eyes to find beauty.

Hope and disappointment torment people, but hope torments people for longer.

Rose said: not all flowers represent love; Diamonds say: not all diamonds represent eternity.

People suffer from pursuing the wrong things.

I can only watch the last bus of happiness go away-not that I missed it, but that I couldn't get on at all.

The best things are often unexpected and accidental.

Think of others, but live for yourself.

Mistakes are temporary regrets, and misses are eternal regrets!

Life is like a dance, the person who teaches you the first dance step may not be able to accompany you to the end.

My life is always different from their calculations I don't know whether they are wrong or I am wrong.

The less expectations there are, the more comfortable it will be to care about people.

The best friend is when you sit quietly on the veranda without saying a word, and when you walk away, you still feel that you have had a wonderful conversation.

The value of a person is determined at the moment of being tempted.

Don't lament the setbacks, just think of all this as the preparatory work you must go through before you can achieve great things.

Everyone has a life, but not everyone knows life and even cherishes it. Life is a punishment for people who don't understand life.

Please speak out your dissatisfaction and grievances with sympathy and gentleness, and others will accept them easily.

When you were born, you were crying and people around you were laughing. At the end of your life, you are smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Whatever you do, remember it's for yourself, so there's nothing to complain about.

Don't be pessimistic in the face of difficulties.

There is no absolute fairness in life, but there is also relative fairness. On a scale, the more you get, the more you have to bear than others.

Don't hang yourself from a tree, or you will die miserably.

Love is like sand in your hand. The tighter you hold it, the faster it flows.

Take courage to lower your head and raise your head confidently.

You have your outlook on life, I have my outlook on life, and I won't interfere with you. As long as I can, I will influence you. If not, then I'll accept my fate.

If you are going to get married, I will tell you a very important philosophical saying, "We must tolerate each other's shortcomings. There is no absolutely happy marriage in the world. Happiness only comes from infinite tolerance and mutual respect. 」

I am rich not because I have a lot, but because I ask for very little.

It's not that someone bothers me, but that I annoy myself with someone's words and deeds.

Life is like a cup of tea, bitter … only for a while, not for a lifetime.

Whether you are stupid or not depends on whether you can play dumb.

Behind the scenery, it is either vicissitudes or filth.

There is a feeling that there is no chance, and there is a kind of giving up that is called fulfillment.

It is not so much that others make you suffer, but that you are not cultivated enough.

Fate is responsible for shuffling cards, but it is ourselves who play cards!

Aestheticism: There is a feeling that there is no chance, and there is a kind of abandonment that is called fulfillment.

The journey of exploration is not to discover new land, but to cultivate new perspectives.

Keep in mind the word "silence" when getting along with others; Remember the word "forbearance" when you get along with your family; Keep in mind the word "wide" when getting along with the world.

People are ordinary because they can't surpass themselves.

The heart is a pocket. Less is called scheming, more is called mind's eye, more is called scheming, and more is called scheming.

People are tired because they can't put down their shelves, tear their faces and solve the plot.

If you really love him, then you must tolerate some of his shortcomings.

My life is always different from their calculations I don't know whether they are wrong or I am wrong.

Sometimes, we should learn to regard disappointment as harvest, because there is hope, there will be disappointment.

The less things in the body, the less natural suffering; Less words and less natural disasters; Less food in the abdomen, less natural diseases; If you think less, you will naturally have less troubles.

Don't live in other people's mouths, don't live in other people's eyes, and take your destiny into your own hands.

The so-called fate is the reason when love succeeds and the excuse when it fails; The so-called wedding is a ceremony for lovers to become "family"; The so-called breakup is something that a woman may not be able to do after saying a hundred words, but a man can do it once.

Being able to give love is a blessing, and being able to eliminate troubles is wisdom.

Half your destiny is in your hands, and the other half is in God's hands.

Carrying the pain of the past, mixed with the troubles of reality, is of no benefit to people's minds.

The secret of life struggle is to manage your own strengths. Managing your strengths can add value to your life, while managing your weaknesses will inevitably devalue your life.

The greatest happiness in life is to find that the person you love just loves you.

Falling in love with someone is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you have turned loving him into a habit.

Fool's love is wholesale, only by the brute force of "let me love enough at a time"; Smart people's love is retail, and they know the subtlety of "only loving a little".

When the boss uses you, you are a talent, and when you are not used, you become a layoff!

There is no soft love in a hard city, and life is not like Lin Daiyu, because there are many styles of sadness.

It's not that someone bothers me, but that I annoy myself with someone's words and deeds.

In fact, there is nothing to be confused about in life. Walk casually and smartly. Anyway, the destination is set, and there is no need to be afraid of getting lost.

There is a feeling that there is no chance, and there is a kind of giving up that is called fulfillment.

Quotations: I can't remember your sweet words, but it doesn't matter. I remember your bank card password.

It's never too early or too late to care about your soul.

People should be a lentil in the workplace. No matter who steps on it, the result is still the same, flat and faint.

If we keep telling ourselves to be happy every day, it means that we are unhappy.

Don't confuse arrogance with your wisdom. Don't let your modesty lack wisdom.

Don't take work as a burden. It is better to face it positively and happily than to be angry and complain. When you regard work as life and art, you will enjoy it.

The sky without clouds is still the sky; Clouds without sky are no longer clouds.

If you want to get ahead of others, you must suffer after others.

When you want to give up your dream, tell yourself to stick to it for another day, another week, another month and another year. You will find that the result of refusing to leave is surprising.

You should always forgive all beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they have hurt you, you must let go to get real happiness.

Bottom line thinking: consider the worst result first, and don't set your expectations too high, otherwise the greater your expectations, the greater your disappointment.

The heart is the biggest liar. People lie to you for a while and for a lifetime.

If marriage is the grave of love, then-blind date means looking at feng shui to give the grave, confession means digging the grave, marriage means double suicide, empathy means moving the grave, and a third party means robbing the grave.

Life belongs to you, you should live according to your own wishes.

After all, there is a distance between ideal and reality, and it is this distance that gives me courage.

Living for a day is a blessing, so cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found that someone had no feet.

Doing things is just learning to be a man.

Lions don't turn around because they hear dogs barking.

There is a kind of love called' perfection'

Dear Prince: I saw you at a friend's house just now. I know you came here today. Just didn't come to see me. Ha ha. Are you sure you're not coming? I know you are kind to me, and you want me to be happy, right? Please forgive me for not replying to you. I like you. Always liked you. Although we haven't met. But the feeling of love was buried in my heart for a long time. If it was before, I would definitely reply to you and chat with you for a long time, but now, I can't, not that I don't love you, but that I really don't want to drag you down any more. You know, my illness can't be cured in a day or two, and the tumor on my body is not an ordinary tumor, and it may become cancerous. If I accept you again, won't it drag you down?

I always wanted you to be happy. I think I have done everything I should. The only thing I can do in the network is to bless. You have to promise me to take good care of yourself, learn to be strong, learn to face, and learn to be brave. I'm sorry I can't accompany you. If you don't have me, you have to live a good life. Promise me. Okay？

Actually, you know what? I really want to chat with you and have a heart-to-heart talk. I am sorry to see you sad. I know I am selfish. But I have no choice. I don't want to drag you down, nor do I want to drag anyone down, because I love you. Understand?

I know you will blame me, and you will think that I don't love you. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Every time I hear from you, I am very happy. I'll save it and read it every day. Looking at your blessing, I will remember to take medicine. I know you are good to me. Don't worry, I won't let you down. I will take good care of myself and have a good rest. I promised you. I'll do it, but you should also be happy.

The weather in Beijing is getting hotter and hotter I'm really uncomfortable. Need more rest in the future. I may not come here often. And you, although your health is better than mine, you should also pay attention to your health, remember to rest more and surf the Internet less, you know?

Find someone who loves you in the future. I believe you will be happier than me. Because you are a good person. I will always bless you.

If one day the princess leaves. Then I hope you can live strong. There are many things in life that we should cherish. Besides love, we also have affection and friendship, right? I can only do so much for you. I think someone who loves you will fulfill my unfinished wish for me in the future. I hope she can love you and love you for me, so I can rest assured.

After all, this is an online world. Even if I were sincere, you wouldn't believe me. But I have a clear conscience. As long as you are happy. There is a kind of love called perfection. I am willing to help you. Because I helped you. You will be happy. If you like, can we still be together in the next life? I'll wait for you in the next life .............

-Love, princess.