I'm sick. I'm afraid my parents will worry about me. Should I tell my parents?

It depends on whether your illness is big or small. If it is serious, it is better not to hide it from your parents. After all, they are the closest people in your world. If you have something, they will be the last to know, and they will be very sad. No one in this world will love you more than they do. Even if you don't tell them because you are afraid that they are worried and sad, you will hurt them invisibly. As children, they always report good news instead of bad news, but if they forget their parents, they can't take care of you and accompany you when you are sick, and they will also fall into deep guilt. This kind of guilt torments them more than worry and sadness.

our parents love us deeply, and we love them deeply. What we do for them is in the name of love, and so are they. We are sick and sad, and they feel even worse than us. They wish all these pains were on them. If they can take the place, they will be sick for us without hesitation. As children, they are the last to tell their parents when they are in trouble, especially when they are unwell. The older we get, the more white lies we tell them. When we were young, we would make a fuss and tell them that we had a little pain. Then, after attracting their attention, hide aside and secretly have fun. When we grow up, we are no longer willing to tell them this.

Originally, my parents were not traveling far away, but we couldn't take care of them for our own lives, which is already a kind of unfilial. It is even more unfilial to let them be afraid of us because of illness. We can't give them a better life, but let them suffer for us. As children, there is really no way to say this. When I was a child, even if I fell down at school, I would go home and yell at them for a long time, and bluff about how painful the fall was. Then wait for them to ask me lovingly how I fell. In fact, I forgot how much I hurt when I got home, but I felt very satisfied with their concern.

When they grow up, especially after going to college, they spend more time away from home and less time with them, and they are less and less willing to let them see their illness. If you have a bad cold, you will tell them that you are busy during that time and have no time to open a video with them. In fact, they are just afraid that they will know that they have a cold and worry. Even if they are sick and lying in bed, as long as their videos are received, they deliberately get out of bed and make up their makeup to make their looks look better. In order not to let them see the flaw. The more we grow up, the less willing we are to talk to our parents about bad things, because the more we grow up, the more we know that their love is precious.