On the elderly without wives in their later years

When people are single in old age, they will inevitably feel lonely, especially men with weak living ability. At this time, they very much hope to find another wife to live with.

In life, some old people think it would be better to find a woman younger than themselves as a partner. In old age, women can have physical strength and energy to take care of their daily lives, and only need to pay more for their lives.

Some old people think it's better to find someone who is quite old, and they have a common language and topic. The purpose of finding another wife is to be happy, as long as we can be together and have less messy things.

Uncle Liu, 72 years old in the hospital, said that after a year of partnership, I realized that I would find my wife again in my later years for mutual happiness. If I can't be together sincerely, I'd rather die alone than find my wife again.

I am 72 years old. A year and a half ago, I lived with Fan Xiao, who was 13 years younger than me. I give 4000 yuan to her family every month, and I keep the rest for myself. Fan Xiao kept her monthly pension for future use, but after a year together, we separated.

I have a pair of children and my wife has been gone for five years. At first, I lived with my son for the elderly, but I couldn't get used to it. Finally, I moved back to my home to live alone, and discussed with my children to find a wife to live with.

My children agreed to let me find another wife, and they introduced me to several, but I didn't like them. Later, when I was walking in the square, I met Fan Xiao, the librarian of our former unit, and we chatted together for a long time.

I know that Fan Xiao is single now, and her only son is not married. She wants to find another wife to accompany her in the future. In this way, after we stayed together for a while, she moved to my house to live with me.

Fan has a monthly pension of 3000 yuan, and I have a monthly pension of more than 6000 yuan. I told her that I was not well enough to do much housework. I will pay all the living expenses for both of us, as long as she takes care of me.

I give her 4000 yuan for living expenses every month. Supposedly, it should be a good day for two people to live in our small city, but Fan always cries that the money is not enough to spend.

Later, I found out that Fan's son always came to ask her for money. I asked Fan if her son had no job. Fan said no, because she is in love now, so she spends more.

At first, I was happy to help Fan, and I would take out my savings to help him. After half a year, I found that Fan's son's appetite is getting bigger and bigger, and hundreds of dollars can't satisfy him.

I kindly remind Fan not to let young people get used to it, which is not conducive to the two old people to spend their old age peacefully and will disrupt our good days. Fan didn't listen, thinking that there was something wrong with his son biting himself.

I stopped helping Fan Xiao raise her son, so Fan Xiao lost his temper with me. She often doesn't cook for me for several days, either porridge or all kinds of leftovers, and she never cooks as hard as before.

One day, his son came to ask for money again. I had a few words with him, and he wanted to fight with me. I was so angry that I kicked him out of my house. Fan was angry with me and said I didn't respect him. After all, that's her son. I still look down on people like that without paying.

Fan moved her things in a fit of pique and left for half a year. Then she came back to get back together with me, and I was really scared. I never want to find such a partner again. I want to find a wife to accompany me in my old age, and I don't want to add trouble and burden to myself. If not, I'd rather die alone.

Fan saw that I was more determined and didn't say anything more. He left very unhappy.

I think people must be careful when looking for a wife in their later years. Then I thought about it carefully. Fan is younger than me 13 years old. Why did he agree to live with me so happily?

Not because I won't let her pay the living expenses, but also because I can live in my house and let her son live in her house. Maybe his son came to me for money, and it was also the kindness of their mother and son to cheat me.

Fortunately, I woke up in time, or my little savings helped Fan. Finally, she said she didn't want to board the plane with me and left. Where can I find her and get my losses back?

In this way, we have been together for more than a year, and I have subsidized tens of thousands of dollars in addition to living expenses. I really wanted to come back at that time, but on second thought, it was not easy for her to be a woman. Forget it, don't bother.

When people get old, they will always use their kindness to help others, but sometimes kindness will be used by others.

Uncle Liu is very kind. She couldn't hide that Fan was embarrassed by her son's asking for money and helped her again and again, but she felt that this was what Uncle Liu should do. Instead of thanking him, she didn't treat Uncle Liu well. This is her fault.

It turns out that there must be a degree between husband and wife to support children, let alone children accompanied by partners. If you help endlessly, you will only make others think that you are kind and deceptive, and you will be asked for money more and more.

Therefore, people must be cautious when looking for a wife in their later years. Don't be deceived by a willing heart and then cheat the money away. At that time, it will be too late to regret.

Uncle Liu Can woke up in time, not tempted by some superficial things, but really felt that this was not the happiness of the wife he wanted to find in his later years, so he might as well not.

Sometimes, no matter how beautiful the oath is, it can't stand the polishing and washing of time. Only by treating each other sincerely can the company last longer.

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About the author: A retired woman who is luxurious and Zen, loves life, practices Tai Chi with her left hand and writes with her right hand, and enjoys the rest of her life happily!