My mother-in-law comes to my house every day, and her mother-in-law comes to my house to eat and drink every day.

0 1.

Busy work every day makes me look a little old.

Later, when I w

My mother-in-law comes to my house every day, and her mother-in-law comes to my house to eat and drink every day.

0 1.

Busy work every day makes me look a little old.

Later, when I was thirty, I met my husband Li Xiaoming, a Phoenix man from the countryside.

However, Li Xiaoming still has some skills.

He started a business in the city, started a small company and made small achievements. He also bought two small houses in the city.

One for my parents and one for myself.

After marrying me, we lived in that 80-square-meter suite not far from our unit.

Only two or three kilometers away from Li Xiaoming's parents.

02.

Our wedding was held in my hometown of Li Xiaoming.

On our wedding day, my mother-in-law took my hand and kept telling me:

? Xiaomei, it is a great fate that you and Xiaoming get married.

You must be well, no matter who you are, you are the treasure in my heart. ?

It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult in the world, but what my mother-in-law said made me feel at ease.

However, this feeling of peace of mind did not last long, and a very subtle relationship began between my mother-in-law and me.

Slowly, this subtle relationship made me secretly hate my mother-in-law.

03.

The reason why I began to hate my mother-in-law is actually very simple.

My mother-in-law will show up at my house on time at dinner every day.

At that time, I had just come back from work, and the heavy workload every day had overwhelmed me.

And I went home a little early, so I had to prepare dinner in a hurry. I really feel tired and annoyed.

I thought that when my husband came back and had dinner together, I could resolve my depressed mood.

But my husband, Li Xiaoming, is also a stuffy jar and doesn't like to talk.

Now, I am even more depressed.

At the beginning, my mother-in-law came, and I chatted with her, which also released a lot of pressure.

But my mother-in-law came more often, and every time she appeared after I cooked the meal, which made me very uncomfortable.

I think my mother-in-law actually came to eat and drink.

So, slowly, I began to resent my mother-in-law.

04.

One day, my husband called to tell me that the company was working overtime and he would not come back for dinner.

I went home early.

Because today is the Mid-Autumn Festival, I thought my mother-in-law would not come back.

Coincidentally, I was criticized by the boss of my unit today, and I was in a bad mood.

So, I ate some leftovers and wanted to watch TV and have a rest.

Suddenly, the doorbell rang, and when I opened the door, it was my mother-in-law again!

I saw her come in with a basket of vegetables.

I was a little unhappy when I saw my mother-in-law.

But mother-in-law pour out again:

? Daughter-in-law, you have been under a lot of pressure at work recently, so don't worry too much.

By the way, is the meal ready? Come on, I'll eat with you. ?

As soon as I heard it, the fire came up:

? Grandma, I finally have a rest.

But you come to eat in a hurry every day and don't help me cook.

With so busy work and so much pressure, how can I have time to eat and chat with you? ?

Say that finish, I angrily returned to my room.

05.

After a long time, I didn't hear anything outside.

When I came out, my mother-in-law had already left.

But when she left, she left a sign of peace praying in the temple.

As soon as I saw the peace sign, which said "Good luck", I thought to myself:

Is my mother-in-law here to send me a safe signing today?

However, I didn't ask her to pray to God and worship Buddha.

However, just now, I treated my mother-in-law like this, and I also felt that I had gone too far.

So, depressed, I walked out of the house alone.

I'm going out for a walk to relieve my depressed mood.

06.

I followed the path of the community and slowly came to an overpass.

In a clearing under the overpass, there is a small temple hidden among flowers.

I also want to go to the temple to listen to Sanskrit, so that the voice of Buddha can purify my mind and relieve the pressure in my heart.

Just arrived at the gate of the temple, she heard her mother-in-law's voice. She was talking to an old woman about the same age:

? I put fruit under the overpass every day and try to earn some money to help my son.

I feel sorry that I have no time to help my daughter-in-law cook.

Well, my daughter-in-law has been under too much pressure at work recently and has a bad temper.

I go to dinner every day just to talk to her, relieve her pressure and enlighten her.

However, she always thinks that I used to eat, so she said something to me today.

I left my safety sign at home just now, but I can't take it out and ask you to cancel it for me.

I'll sneak over and get it tomorrow. ?

After listening to my mother-in-law's words, I suddenly realized.

07.

It turns out that my mother-in-law knows that my work pressure is too great and my son doesn't like to talk.

She comes to dinner every day, in fact, to comfort me and resolve me.

Because she has to work overtime, every day when she comes to see my husband and me, it's just dinner time, and she doesn't deliberately rub rice.

And for the health and safety of Li Xiaoming and me, my mother-in-law often goes to the temple to pray for God and worship Buddha, in order to bless me and Li Xiaoming.

Although I am not interested in praying to God and worshiping Buddha, I fully understand my mother-in-law's intentions.

So, I came out decisively, and then, holding my mother-in-law's hand, I said with tears:

? Grandma, oh, no, mom, I misunderstood you.

I'm sorry, mom. ?

My mother-in-law froze when she saw me. After listening to my words, she also took my hand and smiled with relief.

08.

My friends, my mother-in-law comes to my house to eat and drink every day and doesn't help me. She does this, doesn't she?

When my relationship with her is deadlocked, I like to blame her in a complaining tone. Did I do the right thing?

When I found out that I was wrong about my mother-in-law, I corrected it in time.

I won't scream again from now on? Grandma? , but has been calling? Mom? Yes

You think I deserve praise for doing so.

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When a daughter-in-law and her mother-in-law have conflicts, what is the most appropriate way to deal with them?

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