If you understand, you will understand what love is.

1, the sentence of love, do you think you can accept a marriage with only love and no money? Those divorced people thought the same thing before they got married. It is best to consider getting married when both sides have a certain economic foundation and get rid of all kinds of expenses. If the disposable cash is less than 50 thousand yuan, you'd better postpone marriage, regardless of gender.

There are some key things that you won't tell you voluntarily, so you need to be honest with each other. However, if you are in doubt, you need to find out for yourself. In order to avoid some unpleasantness, please live together for more than one year before getting the license, and then consider getting married. Some things are better to find out before marriage than to regret after marriage, and they are not necessarily sexual problems, such as snoring or grinding your teeth at night, talking in your sleep, sleepwalking, and disharmony in your lifestyle.

Don't get married for things other than feelings, such as house, money, status, etc. And don't divorce easily for things other than feelings, and don't divorce anyone casually. You may have the idea of regretting marrying each other, but I want to say that you will regret marrying anyone, and the root of the problem may be you.

4. If you don't have children to get married, if you are not particularly big, please have children more than one year after marriage. It doesn't hurt to be born a year later, otherwise it is likely that your intestines will regret it! This is the same for men and women!

5. Don't ask each other's parents as your own, because you are not qualified to do that; Don't let the other parents claim to be their own children, because the law does not stipulate your obligation to support.

6. Don't lower your posture just because you are married. If you put yourself in a humble position and beg for each other's love, you will get hurt in the end.

7. Don't fantasize that any man who touched you before marriage will be good and single-minded after marriage; Don't fantasize that any woman who is not reserved before marriage and easily sleeps with you will not sleep with other men after marriage, and will not give you green clothes after marriage!

8, important words three times, can't talk about love for more than 6 months, don't get married, no matter how others urge, no matter how old you are, you are eager to get married, don't flash marriage with anyone.

10, if you are only in your twenties this year, don't get married in a hurry. Young people should work harder for their careers when they are young. Getting married will not give a boost to people who are too young, but will drag you down. When your career has nothing, marriage will naturally not last long! If you are over 30 years old, you can consider having a partner, but don't get married just to get married.

1 1, two people live, don't break up casually, don't mention divorce casually, dare to break up and divorce. If home is no longer like home, maybe your child is looking forward to your divorce, instead of making do in his or her name.

12, please talk about things other than feelings before getting the license, such as bride price, such as house, such as work, such as married lifestyle, where to live, raising children and supporting the elderly, please believe me, these issues are not agreed, and you will never get the license! If both of them are only children, it is necessary to discuss who will celebrate the New Year before marriage.

13. We have all done business in banks or other business halls. Usually we line up at the door, and some people leave without waiting. However, those who got married and divorced in the marriage registration office of the Civil Affairs Bureau did not jump, and everyone patiently equated, and almost no one left halfway.

14, getting married is not about you two, it's about two families, but divorce is really just about you two, or you alone. Let's divorce after two people have discussed it. Don't involve both families, otherwise not only will the final outcome be divorce, but both families will also become enemies.

15, love sentences, don't stick together every day, let each other have more distance, give each other some personal space and time, distance can produce beauty, if possible, it's not bad to arrange several farewells, you know, farewells are better than newlyweds.

16. If time and money permit, take time out to travel with your parents once a year. My parents are old, and they can't walk well in a few years. There are really not many such opportunities.

17, the ideal state of family financial management is that both parties' income and expenditure are open. You can spend mine and I can spend yours at will, but if you want to save, you can. But if you want to have a baby, you must have at least a * * * account, or let the people who are the best at managing money manage their money.

18, don't be afraid to hurt your feelings. It is very important to notarize the property of both parties before marriage, otherwise the torn face will be ugly and the intestines will regret it.

19, don't rush to get married every time you fall in love, don't rush to get married every time you fall in love, and don't always get married. If you don't understand this, your love and marriage will be easily hurt!

Man, your wife has no obligation to wash your clothes, cook and take care of your children, but you have an obligation to support your family and take care of your wife. Who will let others marry you? Who let you be the head of the family? Who gave the child your last name?

If you understand regret, you will understand life.

1, love can be simple, but it can't be casual.

2. We are just children and don't know the so-called love and being loved. Those interwoven sorrows, through the heart, go straight to the bottom of my heart, making people breathless.

3, things change, years pass like dreams, and dreams and vows have drifted to unknown places like fallen leaves, but I always believe that it was from the heart when I said it.

4. Time is like a flower, which blooms and falls silently. When the dust settles, please allow me to remember, miss and chase the summer flowers that bloom in my heart.

5, people's life is rarely smooth, or plain, or unexpected, or sinister, or complex, or even ups and downs, great joy and great sorrow; In fact, these experiences are a kind of wealth.

6. You are out of my sight, and I throw you into the sky behind me. When we break off contact, once we break off, it is forever.

7. We may meet many people in our life, and sometimes we just take one road, so we will stay together for a while. Until you meet the person who really wants to spend your life together, give the rest of the journey to this person and walk together to the end.

8, standing behind your crowd, silently watching you, you never give me a chance to walk with you, the so-called hand in hand, only in a dream. Time flies, and my heart still believes in romantic fireworks.

9. Some things, some people, are destined to pass you by, and deliberately retain them, which can only be exhausted. Let go of your hands occasionally, not deliberately, not by operation, just a simple action-let go, and happiness will be left behind by you inadvertently.

10, the memories of a lifetime are too heavy, and occasional memories are enough, not to be burned by the scorching temperature, but enough to warm my heart. When the past comes, let's make a cup of coffee, sit in the sun and touch the happiness we once had.

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12, I used to hold it tightly in my palm, but it slipped from my fingers like fine sand. When I was tired, I let go of my hand, and it stopped flowing and gathered firmly in my hand. In this way, inadvertently, happiness was retained by me.

13, happiness is very simple. If you are open-minded and know how to give up a little, you will be happy!

14. It is actually a very simple thing to leave good memories and the past. As long as you remember the most classic pictures of that time, you won't forget those days again. Memories of a lifetime are too heavy, and occasional memories are enough, not to be burned by the scorching temperature, but enough to warm my heart. When the past comes, let's make a cup of coffee, sit in the sun and touch the happiness we once had.

15, a person's life is like waiting for a bus. There is often no direct bus on the line you go to, so you have to keep changing. Just like waiting for a bus and changing trains, there are many disappointments and unpredictability in life.

16. Don't choose if you don't like it. If you like it, stick to it. Being together is a kind of fate. Don't make people who like you cry easily. Cherish every minute together. Good memories should be reserved for happiness and laughter.

17, life is a threshold, after which is the door, after which is the threshold. Some things make us helpless, some things make us helpless, and some things make us speechless-no matter what difficulties we encounter, whether we can survive depends on our confidence in ourselves.

18, I feel that I have been walking around alone for so many years, but my heart has never been on me. I think I just lost you.

19, you took her and walked a long way. I was still standing in the same place, remembering the past with glassy eyes. I stayed alone for a long time and quietly recovered.

20. Those tiny pains pierced my eyes, and tears blurred my vision. Looking sideways, I am the only one in the gloomy corner of the world.

2 1, is there anyone who really wants to be with him, and can live without a big house and a princess? As long as we are together, as long as we are together, that is happiness. ...

22. Many people like to keep photos in their wallets. These photos are all about the most important people in our lives. When you were a child, you had your lover in your wallet, then your lover, and then your child's photo. In the noisy world of mortals, the man in the wallet is our closest and most concerned person.

23, look at people in the backlight, you can't see clearly, but others can see clearly. Backlight can't open your eyes, and your vision is blurred. I always miss opportunities that pass by easily.

24. Life is just a drop in the ocean, but it carries too many feelings, whether unwilling or unwilling. Life has always been an imaginary mystery, because we don't know the final answer, so we can only move forward step by step.

25. If you understand regret, you will understand life.

26. I was moved by those young feelings. Although it is not earth-shattering, that innocent feeling has been injected into my heart like a trickle of water, awakening the hurried years that seem to have been silent for thousands of years. ...

27. Love is a kind of beauty. In order to make this beauty last for a long time, you might as well get along as if you don't love it.

28. Some fragments are scattered and some are deep mistakes. That kind of loneliness is a little different. I chose to stay and didn't say it. Of all the changed landscapes, I like it best.

29. Time, in this way, in retrospect and prospect, pursue your memory; Time flies, just like that, going around and never coming back.

30. Time flies, time is like water. I just don't know when my heart seems to be old and numb. Only 17 years old, but it seems scary to be old. Life seems to have no vitality, only the heartbeat repeats the same melody.

3 1, we never met or talked, because in a word, because we couldn't agree on a situation, we buried each other and hated each other from now on.

32. That page, the yellowed old photo, that one, the forgotten little note, that familiar face. Time ignores everything. People's colorful memories cater to them. And then pandering. Where are you?

33. When tomorrow becomes today, yesterday, and finally a day that is no longer important in memory, we suddenly find ourselves unconsciously pushed forward by time. This is not the illusion that we are moving forward when we are in a stationary train and cross with adjacent trains, but that we really grow up on this matter and become another ourselves.

34, a heart, if suppressed for too long, it will become very timid, tightly closed the door of the heart, no one, do not want to go in.

Do we really know what love is? Have you met true love?

I heard a friend tell a love story of the last century the other day. The story is plain, but it is true.

The hero comes from a military family in the 1960s. He was born with polio, his legs are long and short, and he walks with a limp.

His father hates the child very much and thinks he is a stain on his life. The only way to educate him from an early age is to fight, and it is a fancy mixed fight, which leads to his extremely extreme and paranoid personality.

The heroine is the eldest sister of a family with six children in a mountain village. She has never had enough to eat since she was a child. Since the age of 8, she has taken care of her brothers and sisters one by one. At the age of 24, her father still refused to get married, because at that time, like a mature labor force, she could farm, support her family, take care of her siblings and do housework without her.

At that time, the villagers could never imagine that a 24-year-old girl was not married. It's not that she can't get married, but that her father scolded all the matchmakers who proposed marriage. He can't afford to lose such a diligent workforce.

The hero and heroine are separated by/kloc-0.000 miles. Generally speaking, there is no chance to meet.

God played a joke on them, or was it fate as the saying goes?

When the girl was 25 years old, the father of the authoritarian girl didn't know which matchmaker she had called to propose marriage. She was finally afraid that she might be trapped in a trap around her neck like an animal all her life, and the only meaning was labor.

She decided to run away, run away from all this, as far away as possible.

In the 1980s, a penniless country girl, with her only relative, sister-in-law, escaped from the place where she tried to tie her life with two legs.

But the way to escape is not so easy, especially for two penniless women.

Because they had no money, they begged for money everywhere, and finally got 50 cents and only bought a train ticket. She hid in the bathroom when she checked in, and finally almost lost contact with her sister-in-law.

So he stumbled all the way back to his city.

Because of illiteracy, sister-in-law and she can only find a job as a nanny. Although the salary is low, they can support themselves through hard work.

The beautiful story between them didn't begin because he was married.

At this time, he has been able to make money independently. He entered the textile mill as a teenager, and with his flexible mind, he was able to please his master and learned a whole set of skills from him. Later, when the factory was depressed, he simply resigned and went to sea to open a tailor shop, and his business was booming.

The boy also gained his own marriage, and everything seemed to be on the right track, as if the abuse and insult he suffered as a child had faded away with time.

But unlike the prince and princess in fairy tales, life can have a happy ending. It's a big dream in the world, and life is cool in autumn several times. Reality is always mixed with bitterness and sadness.

After having children, the boy and his wife divorced. As for the reasons for the divorce, needless to mention, even the former husband and wife went to court.

Because of property disputes, the lawsuit has been fought for several years. In the end, he lost, sold the shop and real estate, and awarded the child to the woman.

Since then, his life has become a mess. Then the boy met the girl.

Sometimes things are so unfair and so dramatic. When he met the person he really loved, he had nothing. The only thing he can give is his sincerity, but how much can it be worth?

They got married after all. When they got married, the house was rented and there was no money for the bride price. The only thing left is an antique sewing machine that has accompanied him for many years. Even for this marriage, boys and girls have completely fallen out with their families.

As the saying goes, but unlike people who have been poor together, when the initial love and enthusiasm dissipate, the pressure of life is enough to make everyone breathless, and the boy is addicted to alcohol, the friction between the two gradually increases.

This time, perhaps this relationship is really not easy, they persisted, although their lives were still poor, and this stay was thirty years.

Later, thirty years later, a friend asked the girl who was already a mother, what made her persist in living a poor life as always, and was it love?

The girl smiled and said: Because I am stupid.

This silly, silly for so many years.

At that time, there was no house, no bus ticket, only two silly hearts.

Later, I learned that it was only because the girl had experienced poverty since she was a child. Her greatest wish was to find someone who cared for herself, and it was only because of her low expectations that she endured it.

Nowadays, people have got rid of the life of not having enough to eat. The ever-improving material life brings the perfect love that is constantly expected. Because of high expectations, I have no patience with the other half.

In fact, love is really a very ethereal thing. In love, there is no right or wrong, no value, no appropriateness, only willingness.

Finally, I hope everyone will be less critical of their other half, be more patient, cherish the present and often say I love you to TA.

Now, I seem to understand what happiness is.

1. When you stop to think about whether you love someone, it means that you no longer love him.

2. When you say that you are not free, you don't mean that you have lost the freedom to do what you want, but that what you want to do is not recognized enough by others, which brings you mental or moral pressure, so you feel oppressed, hindered and deprived. Wings grow on the shoulders, and I care too much about other people's criticism of flying posture, so I can't fly.

When you hit a wall around a deep valley, God is telling you that it's time to leave.

When you understand human nature, you may be able to forgive all selfishness and weakness, all lies and betrayal. Freud said that there is both survival and death in the human heart. We pursue light, but we also pursue darkness. We are so eager for love, but sometimes we almost destroy our love ... It seems that there has always been a deserted night in people's hearts, leaving it to their lonely and dark selves. -Yang Lan

When you feel inferior to others everywhere, don't feel inferior, remember that you are just an ordinary person. Don't be sad when others ignore you. Everyone has his own life, and no one can always accompany you. You can cry, but after crying, you must cheer up. Don't lose your smile even if you lose everything.

6. When you are single, you see happy couples; When you are in love, all you see are happy singles. At work, you look forward to a paradise; When traveling, you pass by in a hurry, constantly rushing to the next scenic spot, and begin to miss the comfortable home. People's desire is so strong that you can never live happily, peacefully and truly in the present, but you can only envy countless pictures that appear in your heart all your life.

7, the wrong love, is like but not suitable shoes, wearing a foot hurts, throwing a distressed. Will you always wear it or throw it away?

8. Reading a book from beginning to end is like knowing someone from beginning to end. It's actually quite difficult.

No one can be responsible for your fate except yourself. As the saying goes, "the environment is born from the heart, and the phase is born from the heart." Everything you have now comes from the thoughts in your heart. Every choice you make and every step you take is a reflection of your own mentality. Stop complaining about life and fate, because everything you have experienced is of your own making, and God just took the blame for you.

10, strike while the iron is hot, don't let your love wait too long, don't let your happiness wait too long.

1 1. has experienced a lot. Now, I seem to understand what happiness is: live a quiet and secluded life, do simple and useful good deeds to people as much as possible, do a really useful job, and finally rest, enjoy nature, read books, listen to music and love people around me. This is my interpretation of happiness.

12, I don't know if it's right or wrong, no matter right or wrong, I just want to be with you and wait for the sun to come out together. Without water, you are my water. Without food, I am your food. We always believe in the same God and love the same destiny. Falling in love with you, I have the softest part in the world.

13, don't always look at the pace of others, follow your own pace; Keep your word, and keep your word.

14, don't say you don't care, it's just a cover-up. If you really don't care, don't say anything and let it go; Even if you open your eyes, look at it and flow slowly, you are indifferent; Even if I stimulate you again, you won't be moved. It's pain, it's sadness, it's nostalgia, and you'll never think of it again. So, whether you say it or not, it doesn't matter in your heart, face and time.

15, don't expect, don't assume, don't force, let nature take its course, if it is destined, it will definitely happen.