A girl who was having an affair with me sent a message that she was miserable and had to die.

The profound meaning of this sentence is: this girl has lost herself now, and feels that everything is not satisfactory. There is no one to help her and guide her, so she can only endure and look for the desired result.

There is nothing in life now that can make people not worry about life. It is precisely because life has its disappointments that it is more worthy of people's efforts to change some of its disappointments, so as to look forward to a better life that people want.

For girls, I want to say: there is no hurdle in life, don't love too much, don't push yourself to the wall. When appropriate, remember to wait for life quietly. May all the grievances and injuries you have suffered become a seed of your happy life in the future, which will sprout, blossom and bear more fruits;

For boys, I want to say: if pure love is mixed with ambiguity, it will depreciate more and deteriorate more. When girls love you, you must listen to your inner thoughts and make it clear to girls whether you love or not, so that girls will not lose themselves at the intersection of love. Life is like this. Living a sloppy and real life will reduce unnecessary pain and confusion for each other.

Extended data:

Men and women have an affair, which mainly includes the following two situations:

1, both parties are single:

It is common when you are young (or just entering campus life). When the hormones of youth are budding, contact with the opposite sex can always generate infinite passion in generate, and ambiguous period is also the only way for lovers. Both sides are constantly testing each other's attitude towards themselves, and casual love words can always touch each other's hearts;

2. At least one of the two parties is married (or has his own lover);

This situation is more complicated. Most of this situation lies in the infidelity and extramarital affairs of boys after marriage (some women like men and pursue them hard), which has a certain economic foundation and tends to be weak with their lovers;

Personal suggestion: the ambiguity of the so-called betrayal ethics (or marriage) is full of temptation and temporary passion, but it is very harmful. Married people should abide by the marriage contract, reject ambiguity, and keep the purity of marriage is the key to happiness.