After seven years of marriage, why did the man realize that his parents' original insistence was right when he was asked to "go out clean"?

My mother-in-law called me and said that my aunt's daughter was divorced. The man told her to go out clean.

This aunt has been under the weather. She has two children, a son and a daughter. My son's brain is not very good and he hasn't got a wife yet. My daughter married very well and married a very rich family in the local area.

But no one expected that the two men had been married for seven years and the girl was pregnant. In June and July, the children can't stay. I'm pregnant with twins this time, and it's still the same. They recently went to Beijing, and the doctor told the girl that she was no longer fit to have children.

The man found out at home and filed for divorce when he came back, asking the girl to leave home cleanly. Of course my aunt won't. She wants to win some benefits for her daughter. But my aunt found that her daughter was so stupid that she never separated from her in-laws after marriage, and the house, car and money were all in her in-laws' names. She has been nursed back to health and giving birth to children in recent years. The money earned by the man was also given to her parents, who had no money in their names.

What is even more frightening is that the girl's mother-in-law has already made plans. They bought several houses in the city with their own money, all with their own names written on them. And these things have nothing to do with girls.

My aunt thinks that a girl who has been married for six years has suffered so much for a child. I can't have children now, and the man wants to abandon her without any compensation. It's done. The woman is ready to leave home clean. She was not convinced and wanted the girls not to get divorced, so she dragged on.

But the girl insisted on divorce. She said: "I have long been tired of this life. I can leave home clean. I don't want to stay in a man's house for a day. "

The marriage finally divorced, and the girl went out clean. The man's family moved to the city.

Tell me about the strong opposition of the girl when she first got married. Why? Because the girl's character is weak, and the man's parents belong to that kind of particularly smart people. What about men? I'm not the kind of person who can make up his mind. He listens to his parents more.

At that time, they chose this girl, the main reason is that this girl is a teacher, simple, well-behaved, married in the door, and will never make trouble.

At that time, my aunt advised the girl: "A girl with a soft personality like you is not suitable for a family like others. How clever people are, but you are a fool. You don't know what will happen if you are sold. "

It really fell on my aunt's words.

What the hell happened? The man's family narrowly escaped, leaving only a scarred girl.

Girls were beautiful when they got married, but the scenery was all men's. The girl didn't want much bride price, and she got it all back. When she brought it back, my aunt said she couldn't give it to men. As a result, she did not give it to a man, but directly saved it to a shrewd mother-in-law.

Aunt said, "Girls live with men wholeheartedly. I can't wait to give him my heart. As a result, from beginning to end, she was stupid. "

I was afraid that the girl would be hit too hard, so I asked how the mother-in-law girl was now. If it's not good, I'll take her out for fun and stay away from these troubles.

As a result, the mother-in-law said that after the divorce, the girl regretted it. I didn't think men were smart before. Later, when the man moved to the city, the girl realized that her husband's family had long wanted her to leave home clean, and it was half a year. I guess they made that kind of preparation the first time she couldn't keep the baby.

The girl said, "I really should listen to my parents." Their insistence is correct. I am not suitable to marry such a rich family at all, but I am too stupid. "

After telling my mother-in-law about the girl, I couldn't calm down for a long time and felt cold in my heart. A girl is seven years old, giving up her job and everything just to give birth to a child for a man. After being born for seven years, I hurt my body and couldn't be born at all. The man felt no pity or gratitude. He just wants to get rid of this woman and let her leave home clean. How cool it is to be thin.

I watched the news yesterday, and a woman who gave birth at the risk of her life died. I don't feel great, just that women don't respect their own lives. No child wants to lose his mother at a young age, and no parents want white-haired people to send black-haired people.

Sometimes, having children is just a selfish choice of a woman as a mother, without considering the children and parents.

Just like this girl, in order to give birth to a child for a man, she didn't work for seven years, gave up her dignity and herself, and only regarded herself as a fertility tool. The man abandoned her, cool thin, but did she love her body and herself?

If you can't keep your first child, you shouldn't keep it. You must put your body first, not a man's family background.

How confused and stupid she is in this marriage. The reason why she can be hurt so badly is not because she is too affectionate, but because she doesn't know how to love herself at all.

Isn't a woman who doesn't have children incomplete and great

I never thought of it that way.

On the contrary, I think the woman who is responsible for her life first is the greatest.

Never emphasize a woman's sacrifice in marriage, it is a kind of greatness. This ambiguity of women should never be advocated.

A truly great woman is not the kind of woman who gives up herself and life for her children. But a woman who can always keep herself with or without children. Dong Qing said that any abandonment of self-love is the deepest harm to children.

I hope more women will learn to love themselves and stick to themselves in marriage, and regard having children as a choice, not a mission.

As for the man wearing a cool thin, the punishment has already begun. How can a man who can be so cruel to the person next to him qualify for happiness in marriage and children under his knees?