The worst way to love is to lose your dignity and yourself.

I think the biggest risk of loving someone is to lose him, but I didn't expect that I lost my dignity, face and myself in the end.

The best appearance of love is probably mutual attraction and appreciation.

Now we are the best among us. We don't have to compromise for each other, and we don't have to dress up like each other according to the rules.

Not tired of each other, comfortable to get along with, difficult to meet, and cherish!

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Recently, I read a news that a college student in a university couldn't afford to kneel in front of the girls' apartment building in order to apologize to his girlfriend.

People come and go on campus, and they are amazed when they see it. In the office, all the faculty and staff also had a heated discussion.

School leaders immediately issued instructions: strengthen the psychological counseling of students in school and give corresponding guidance to students' love view.

Perhaps, most love stories and endings are always unexpected.

The girl hurried downstairs to help the kneeling boy.

I thought it was a boy who confessed to a girl, but later I learned that they were classmates and fell in love for less than a month. Because of a little thing, girls broke up, and boys kept them in this humble way.

When my friend heard the story, he was filled with indignation. "Now, even their own dignity has become so cheap? Kneel down to my parents. If I meet such a boyfriend, I will fan at most. Don't embarrass my mother here. "

Of course, my friend is only emotional for a while, but seeing her bared her teeth and was very happy can not help but make people laugh.

Think about it carefully, is it to show the value of love that a person puts down his dignity for love? Or are you proving that dignity is really worthless?

If you really love someone, you should also master a certain degree of discretion. If you push too hard, it will only make people look down on you.

This seemingly playful plot is not romantic at all, but it makes people feel pity and what goes around comes around comes around.

Perhaps, some love is really humble, but begging for love is not cool at all.

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When Zhang Ailing met Hu Lancheng, she wrote this sentence:

"Seeing him, she became very low, as low as the dust, but she was very happy and blossomed out of the dust."

When we like someone, we are always afraid that we are not good enough, so we hide our small shortcomings and lower our status.

In the process of getting along with two people, we always exaggerate each other's advantages, thinking that each other is good, while ignoring ourselves is not bad. We always feel that we have met each other for a long time, but we forget that we are special.

Until we finally lost him, we still refused to let go, humble to stay, silly to stop and wait.

I think of a lovelorn friend. There are countless boys who were once good enough to chase her, and she just chose to be with him.

He gave her a lot of sweet words and made countless vows of eternal love, but after all, he couldn't compete with reality and finally abandoned her.

I never thought that a girl who used to be so proud, after falling in love, actually bowed her head and compromised for each other every time.

She begged him not to let go. Lacrimosa loved herself day and night, but she forgot her lover's seven points and left three points to love herself.

In the final analysis, this humble love is because I love too much, not because I am not good enough, but because I have fallen too deep and lost myself. Reason is really important in dealing with love.

In fact, the worst way to love is to lose yourself. When you compromise and try to cater to each other, you finally find that you have lost your true self.

I always think that good love is two of a kind, a person who really loves you. How could he let you go?

And those who are really determined to part, just need an excuse, can slip away from you quietly.

Why lose your dignity and wronged yourself? Your delicate and touching appearance, no one will feel distressed, it is better to love yourself.

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Who didn't love someone humbly when he was young?

But good love also needs reciprocity. I can love you very much or not.

When I was lovelorn, I felt convinced but gave myself a blow. I am confused, miserable, or at a loss. I also became irritable, crazy and even depressed.

But when I think deeply and stop obsessing, I summon up courage and leave freely.

Without fanfare, he quietly withdrew from his life, no longer pestering and disturbing.

And I think the time alone is the best value-added period.

Recently, I watched my first half of my life again, and then tried to convince myself that I want to be like Luo Zijun. I need to know what I have and where I can go.

How can we work hard to make ourselves feel confident and stronger after losing dependence?

Some love is cherished when we are together, and we don't feel sorry when we are separated. Free and easy to leave, does not mean that love is not serious enough, but proves that each other is really not the right person.

Stop loss in time, is it not a kind of sincerity?

Loving the wrong person is not terrible. The terrible thing is that when you know that he doesn't love you, you lower yourself and lose face and dignity to keep him.

People who really love you have 10 thousand reasons to let you stay, while people who don't love you only need one reason to let you go.

Since this love has passed the shelf life, why should we fight for it humbly? In the end, it will only make ends meet, and both sides will lose.

It is better to turn around proudly and leave freely, which not only retains dignity, but also makes the breakup decent.

I have always believed that people who love you will not leave, and those who don't love you can't stay. It is better to love yourself proudly than to love others humbly.

You deserve noble love. Before you meet true love, you might as well stay sane and single, turn yourself into the right person first, and then look for the right person.