What beautiful loves have you seen or experienced?

The most beautiful love I have ever seen is the love between Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu. The love between the two of them is like a pure and beautiful epic, which can be described with all the beautiful words. From acquaintance, knowing each other, falling in love to staying together, it is as quiet and beautiful as poetry, even after going through the dark period of the Cultural Revolution. I never felt a trace of bitterness from the two of them. As long as they were together, there was only sweetness.

Yang Jiang loved Qian Zhongshu, loved his erudition and rich knowledge, and also loved his dullness and stupidity. We are all fifty-fifty two people, walking into the siege with flaws and edges. If we can be more tolerant and understanding, it will not be about seeking perfection, but being wise and foolish.

Qian Zhongshu once used a poem to describe his first impression of Yang Jiang in his memories: Jie's eyes and face are radiant, and the new petals of the rose are soaked in wine. I don’t know that when I was a child, I used to wash my face with red flowers and snow.

And Yang Jiang’s impression of Qian Zhongshu was also “brilliant but deep and beautiful between the brows”. Later, when Qian Zhongshu was about to go to the UK to study, they got married with the blessing of their relatives. Later, they went abroad together, taught together at Tsinghua University, and spent difficult years together.

I love you from black hair to gray hair, from youth to old age. In fact, when people reach middle age, it is not just about love. They have loved too long and deeply. Those loves are hidden in the wrinkles of the years and in the white hair. Those silent loves that follow the years have also entered into the family relationship. , before, life was too long and the road was long, but now I feel that life is too short, not enough to love you.